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- Yini eyenza umkhaza we-narcissist
- Imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist ebudlelwaneni
- Lapho abathandana ababili bethandana - imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist
- Isayensi ngemuva kwemibhangqwana yama-narcissist
Ngabe abakwa-narcissist ababili bangaba yizithandani? Uma ucabanga ngalo mbuzo, into yokuqala efika engqondweni yakho ngamafutha amakhulu NO! Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi abantu ababili abazimelele kangaka kube ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo abake bahlanganyele omunye nomunye?
Kodwa-ke, uma ucabanga ngakho, kungenzeka ukuthi usuhlangane nemibhangqwana embalwa yama-narcissist. Noma ungahle ubabone nakwi-TV, phakathi kwalabo okuthiwa imibhangqwana yamandla.
AbakwaNarcissist bangena ebudlelwaneni nabanye abakwa-narcissists, futhi sizoxoxa ngokuthi kungani, nokuthi lobu budlelwano bubukeka kanjani.
Yini eyenza umkhaza we-narcissist
I-narcissism ukuphazamiseka kobuntu. Ngamanye amagama, kungokoqobo futhi kubhekwa njengenkinga yangempela ngabachwepheshe ababhekene nempilo yengqondo. Uma ngabe wawunakho "ukuhlonishwa" kokuhlangana nomuntu osebenzisa izidakamizwa, noma ukuzibandakanya naye, mhlawumbe uyavuma ukukucabanga njengesimo sengqondo.
Iqiniso lokuthi ukuphazamiseka kobuntu ngokuyisisekelo lisho ukuthi futhi kuyisifo esingalapheki.
AbakwaNarcissists bangabantu abazithwele ngokweqile abanezinkolelo ezinkulu ngokubaluleka kwabo. Bantula uzwela, futhi bayohlala bebeka izidingo zabo kuqala.
Yonke into ezimpilweni zabo idinga ukusekela isithombe sabo esikhulu, kufaka phakathi ubudlelwano. Njengabazali, badinga ukuthi izingane zabo zisebenze njengabamele ithalente labo nokuphakama kwabo.
Noma kunjalo, ezimpandeni zokuzethemba ngokweqile nothando lwakho ngokwakho kungumuzwa ophambene. AmaNarcissist, yize efihlwe ngokujulile, empeleni, aphephe kakhulu. Badinga ngokuphelele ukulawula konke okubazungezile, uma kungenjalo bangadilika. Badinga konke ukuzakhela kumcabango wabo wobukhulu.
Imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist ebudlelwaneni
AmaNarcissist angena ebudlelwaneni bezothando. Bayashada babe nezingane. Ungalindela ukuthi i-narcissist ihlale ingashadile noma ebudlelwaneni obungejwayelekile, ukuze ikwazi ukulandela umsebenzi noma amathalente ayo. Kepha, bayakujabulela ukuba nomuntu oseduze nabo.
Imvamisa balolonga (kaningi ngokuhlukumeza) umlingani wabo kulokho abakudingayo ukuze bathole ukunconywa nokunakekelwa okungapheli. Ngokuyisisekelo, abashadikazi bama-narcissist bagcina ngokudela konke ukuze bakwazi ukuba lapho futhi bajabulise abalingani babo abake balambele ukuncoma.
Imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist ayikwazi ngempela ukunikezana uthando nokuthandana. Bangabonakala benza lokhu ekuqaleni, kepha kungekudala wonke umuntu uyacacelwa ukuthi yiziphi izindima zakhe.
Umbhali wezidakamizwa ufuna, futhi umlingani wakhe uyanikezela. Abanantshisekelo kwimizwa, izidingo, kanye nezintshisakalo zabalingani babo. Banentshisekelo kwezabo izidingo nezidingo. Bazokhuluma bangalaleli. Bazobuza futhi bangalokothi babuyisele.
Lapho abathandana ababili bethandana - imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist
Umuntu angazibuza ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi abantu ababili abanjalo bahlangane. Kuzwakala kuphikisana nokulindela abantu ababili abanobugovu ukwakha umbhangqwana. Ngubani owenza ukuthokozisa ke? Ubani okhona njengomsizi womuntu kulobo budlelwane?
Ungalindela ukuthi umbhali wezinambuzane athole umuntu ongavikelekile futhi othokozisa abantu ngokwemvelo, ukuze kungadingeki basebenze kakhulu ukubangenisa kuleso sikhundla esifana nesigqila. Futhi lokhu kwenzeka kaningi.
Noma kunjalo, kukhona futhi okunye okungenzeka, futhi lokho kungenxa yokuthi abakwa-narcissist ababili babe yizithandani ze-narcissist. Asikwazi ukusho kahle ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka. Njengoba sizokukhombisa esigabeni esilandelayo, ucwaningo luye lukhombise ukuthi ama-narcissist amabili athanda ukuba sebudlelwaneni mhlawumbe nangaphezu kwabantu abangalona iqiniso. Singacabanga ngezizathu eziningana zalokhu.
Esokuqala ukuthi ukufana kuyaheha. Sizokhuluma kabanzi ngalolu khetho kancane.
Ithuba lesibili ukuthi njengoba abakwa-narcissists bengebona abalingani bokuphila abafiseleka ngempela, bagcina sebephonsa okuseleyo.
Abangewona ama-narcissist mhlawumbe bazogcina bethole umuntu ongabuyisela kubo uthando nokunakekela kwabo. Okokugcina, okungaba yiqiniso futhi ukuthi bakhangwa isithombe esiphelele esivezwa ngumqaphi. Bangathanda indlela ababukeka ngayo njengezithandani, ngakho-ke, ukuthi umlingani wabo ongumlingisi ubenza kanjani babukeke kahle emehlweni omphakathi.
Isayensi ngemuva kwemibhangqwana yama-narcissist
Ucwaningo lwakamuva luveze ukuthi umuntu osebenzisa izihlukumezi kungenzeka abe nomlingani oyisidina ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside. Okufanayo kuya kuMachiavellianism kanye nokusebenza kwengqondo. Lokhu kungukutholwa okubalulekile, njengoba kusekela ithisisi efana nokuheha okufana nalokho, ngisho naphakathi kwabantu abangahle bagcwaliswe kangcono ngabantu abancane abangazitholi.
Imibhangqwana yamaNarcissist ayazi ngempela ukuthi ingabakha kanjani ubuhlobo obuseduze nothando. Kodwa-ke, babonakala benokwanela okufanayo ukukunqoba lokhu futhi bagcine sebeshadile. Lolu cwaningo lukhombise ukuthi akusikho ukuthi abantu bayafana ngesikhathi. Abakwa-narcissist ababili bazokhanga omunye komunye kwasekuqaleni.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ayigculisi kanjani impilo yomuntu oshade naye we-narcissist, umuntu angajabula ukuthi abakwa-narcissists bathola injabulo ngokwabelana ngobugovu babo.