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- Abesifazane banokukhetha okuncanyana kweminyaka uma kuqhathaniswa nabesilisa
- Abesilisa bathambekele kakhulu kubalingani abavundile kakhulu
- Ukukhethwa kweminyaka kukhula ngokuhlukile kubo bobubili ubulili
Kuliqiniso elifakazelwe ngokwesayensi ukuthi abesilisa bathanda abesifazane abasebasha kunabesifazane asebekhulile kungakhathalekile ukuthi badala kangakanani. Lapho umsunguli we-Playboy, uHugh Hefner ezungeze ngamantombazane amancane, wayehlala egxekwa umhlaba wonke. Manje, njengoba isifundo siqinisekisa singasho ukuthi uHefner wayengeyena lo msangano phela.
Amadoda amaningi awavuli kakhulu futhi azwakalisa izifiso zawo zocansi nezinto azithandayo kodwa ucwaningo lwakamuva olwenziwe luyakuqinisekisa lokho amadoda akhetha abesifazane abasebasha noma ngabe badala kakhulu ngeminyaka. Abesifazane, ngakolunye uhlangothi, bakhululeka kakhudlwana nomuntu osondele eminyakeni yabo noma ngaphezulu. Bavame ukukhetha abalingani bobulili eminyakeni yabo engamashumi amabili kungakhathalekile iminyaka yabo.
Olunye ucwaningo olushicilelwe lukhuluma ngokuthi iminyaka ekhethwa ngabesilisa iyakhula futhi ikhule kanjani njengoba bekhula. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kunokwengeziwe kunqubo yokuheha amadoda ngaphandle kweminyaka. Abesilisa nakanjani bane-penchant, futhi indawo ethambile yabesifazane abaneminyaka engamashumi amabili futhi abesilisa bakhetha abesifazane abancane ngaphansi kwazo zonke izimo. Ucwaningo olwenziwe maqondana nalokhu lubonise umphumela obonakalayo wokuthi iminyaka emincane kunazo zonke amadoda akhangwa yiyo ihlala injalo noma ngabe indala kangakanani. Lokhu kusho ukuthi owesilisa oneminyaka engama-40 usazofuna ukungena ebudlelwaneni nabesifazane abaseminyakeni yakhe yamashumi amabili aneminyaka engama-22-23. Lokhu kukhetha ngeke kushintshe noma ngabe indoda ingama-50 noma ama-60.
Abesifazane banokukhetha okuncanyana kweminyaka uma kuqhathaniswa nabesilisa
I-athikili yashicilelwa ephephabhukwini i-PsyArXiv lapho osolwazi bezengqondo abahlukahlukene e-Abo Akademi University eFinland beqinisekisa ukuthi abesifazane banendlela encanyana yobudala uma kuqhathaniswa neyabesilisa. Bakhetha abalingani abalingana nobudala babo noma unyaka noma emibili ngaphezulu hhayi lokho. Uma sikhuluma ngokuthi kungani lo mehluko omkhulu kubulili, singasebenzisa inkolelo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ukuyichaza njengombhali uJan Antfolk.
Abesilisa bathambekele kakhulu kubalingani abavundile kakhulu
U-Antfolk uchaza lokhu okuthandwayo esebenzisa umbono wokukhethwa kwemvelo, okusho ukuthi amadoda athambekele kakhulu kubalingani abavundile kakhulu. Ubuye wachaza ngokuthi abesifazane ezimweni eziningi bakhethe kakhulu maqondana nabalingani babo abaya nabo ocansini ngakho-ke abesilisa abaningi abakwazi ukuthola abalingani babo ababathandayo kuze kube bayacaca futhi bahlanganise konke mayelana nezintandokazi nezisusa zabo zocansi.U-Antfolk uphinde wachaza futhi wathi yena kanye nethimba lakhe baphinde bakwazi ukuphetha ngesampula sabantu abadala abangaba ngu-2600 ukuthi amadoda anentshisekelo kwabesifazane abasebasha, kodwa; ukwenza kwabo ucansi kuhambisana nobudala babo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuhambisana ngokocansi kwamadoda amadala nabesifazane abasebasha akwenelisi.
Ukukhethwa kweminyaka kukhula ngokuhlukile kubo bobubili ubulili
Ukuheha ngokocansi nokukhetha ubudala kukhula ngendlela ehlukile kubo bobubili ubulili. Lapho owesifazane eqala ukukhula, bavame ukusetha imihlahlandlela yobudala eqinile ngokwabesilisa. Bafuna ukugwema ukwenza izinqumo ngamawala, ngakho-ke ukuthambekela kwabo njengoba kushiwo ngenhla kubhekise emadodeni asondele eminyakeni yabo. Baqala ukubuka impilo ngombono osebenzayo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, abesilisa abanaki kangako kuyo yonke imiphumela, ngakho-ke bayaqhubeka nokuwela futhi bakhangwe kubo bobabili abesifazane asebekhulile nabancane ngokwentando yabo. Izifiso zobulili nazo zidlala indima enkulu kulokhu futhi izifiso zabesifazane zocansi zivame ukwehla njengoba zikhula futhi ziguga. Ngenkathi abesilisa mhlawumbe bekhulisa iminyaka yabo yobudala njengendlela yokwandisa nokuthuthukisa ithuba lokusondelana kwabo ngokocansi.
Abesifazane abaneminyaka yobudala engaba ngu-34 bangathanda noma bacabangele abesilisa abaneminyaka yobudala engama-27 kanye neminyaka yobudala engama-46 njengabalingani babo bokuphila. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amadoda aneminyaka yobudala engama-37 angabheka abalingani abaneminyaka yobudala ephakathi kuka-21 no-49, kodwa empeleni, la madoda ayenozakwethu ebangeni lama-31 nelama-36. Kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi isifundo besigxile kuphela isici sobulili ngaleyo ndlela isifiso sothando sabantu asizange sicatshangelwe.