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- 1. Ucabanga ukuthi kuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungaba yiqiniso
- 2. Uhlaziya ngokweqile konke
- 3. Ulindele izimpi
- 4. Uxolisa kaningi kakhulu
- 5. Uyakungabaza abakushoyo
- 6. Uhlangabezana nemizwa engaziwa
- 7. Uthola isikhala osidingayo
- 8. Uqala ukukhohlwa umuntu wakho wakudala
- 9. Ufunda ukuthi kunjani ukuthandwa yilokho oyikho
- 10. Ufunda ukuzethemba wena kanye nomlingani wakho omusha
Ubudlelwano obunobuthi bulimaza ngendlela emangalisayo ukuzethemba kwakho. Ukusuka ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi kudinga isibindi. Yonke le drama, ukumemeza, ukubhuqa nokungezwani kuyabathwala. Ungazizwa sengathi kufanele uhambe phezu kwamagobolondo amaqanda ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba wenze isikhashana.
Ubudlelwano obunobuthi bungazizwa bumlutha ngendlela exakile kwesinye isikhathi. Kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi konke ukungalungi kuletha injabulo ethile ngakho. Ngaphakathi enhliziyweni uyazi ukuthi akunampilo, kepha yiba mnene nawe uma uzizwa unephethini lokulutha ebudlelwaneni. Ukuphakama kobudlelwano obunobuthi kungabonakala kukuhle njengoba ama-lows esabekayo.
Ukuba ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi kuthinta ubudlelwano bakho besikhathi esizayo, kepha kungenzeka ukuphulukisa futhi ube nokuxhumana okuhle nomunye umlingani. Nazi izinto eziyi-10 ezenzeka lapho uhlangana nomuntu omuhle ngemuva kobudlelwano obunobuthi.
1. Ucabanga ukuthi kuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungaba yiqiniso
Kunzima ukwethemba ekuqaleni ngemuva kokuba ebudlelwaneni obungenampilo. Ungazithola ucabanga ukuthi kuhle kakhulu ukuthi ungaba yiqiniso, futhi uzibuze ukuthi esinye isicathulo sizokwehla nini.
Lokhu kujwayelekile ngokuphelele. Ubudlelwano obungenampilo benza kube nzima ukuzethemba wena - noma omunye umuntu. Uzozibuza wena, kanye nomlingani wakho omusha, okuningi. Thatha isikhathi sakho futhi ube nomusa kuwe.
2. Uhlaziya ngokweqile konke
Okokuqala, uzothatha ngokuthi yonke into inezisusa ezingezinhle. Uma bengabizi izinsuku ezimbili, uzocabanga ukuthi abasafuni ukukubona. Uma bebonakala bethule, uzocabanga ukuthi bakuthukuthelele.
Uma uzizwa ukhululekile, yazisa umlingani wakho omusha ukuthi kungani unenkinga yokubethemba, ngakho-ke nizokwazi ukubhekana nobabili ngejubane lakho.
3. Ulindele izimpi
Uma uke waba sebudlelwaneni obunobuthi, ukujwayele ukulwa ngaso sonke isikhathi. Sizimisele ukubheja ukuthi uzithole ulwa nezinto ezincane kakhulu, ezincane, kuyilapho izimpi ezinkulu zisheshe zaphenduka zaba zimbi futhi zaba buhlungu.
Yonke imibhangqwana iyalwa kwesinye isikhathi, kepha ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, izikhathi lapho ungalwi khona zidlula izimpikiswano ngomugqa omkhulu.
Kuzothatha isikhathi, kepha uzofunda ukuthi njalo akulwi njalo, futhi ungavuma ngaphandle kokuthi kuphenduke ukuwa okukhulu.
4. Uxolisa kaningi kakhulu
Kwesinye isikhathi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokusabalalisa izimpi ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi ukuxolisa. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma umlingani wakho bekuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo futhi ephendulela intukuthelo yabo kuwe esigqokweni.
Umlingani wakho omusha angazibuza ukuthi kungani uxolisa kangaka. Bazise ukuthi usebenza ezintweni ezithile zangaphambilini. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzofunda ukuthi awudingi ukuxolisa ngakho konke.
5. Uyakungabaza abakushoyo
Uthembisa ukushintsha, noma uhlale ulungele wena? Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wabezwa ngaphambili - futhi abagcinwanga! Lapho uke waba sebudlelwaneni obunobuthi, kunzima ukuthembela kulokho okushiwo umlingani wakho.
Akukho ukulungiswa okusheshayo, kepha njengoba isikhathi sihamba futhi ubona ukuthi basho abakushoyo, uzozizwa ukhululekile. Ungabhala ngisho nangemizwa yakho nangazo zonke izikhathi lapho begcine khona izwi labo, ukukusiza uqhubekele phambili.
6. Uhlangabezana nemizwa engaziwa
Ubudlelwano obunobuthi buhlala bugcwele ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka nokwesaba. Uma usebudlelwaneni obunempilo uzozithola uzizwa izinto ezintsha - ukuthula, induduzo, ukwamukelwa nokuphepha.
Ake ukujabulele futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi leyo mizwa emihle iyoba yinto ejwayelekile.
7. Uthola isikhala osidingayo
Ukuba ebudlelwaneni obunempilo kukunikeza isikhala osidingayo ukuzwa ukuxhumana okuhle, nokunakekela.
Musa ukushesha ubuhlobo bakho obusha - yazisa ushintsho emkhathini, futhi uzivumele ukujabulele ukuxhumana okuhle nomunye umuntu.
8. Uqala ukukhohlwa umuntu wakho wakudala
Ekuqaleni, kungazwakala sengathi awusoze wakhohlwa ukuthi owakwakho wakubeka kuphi. Iqiniso, ezinye zezibazi zizohlala kuwe, futhi usazobukhumbula ubudlelwane ngezikhathi ezithile.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba isikhathi sihamba uzocabanga nge-ex yakho kancane kancane bese uzithola uphila okwamanje.
9. Ufunda ukuthi kunjani ukuthandwa yilokho oyikho
Uma usebudlelwaneni obunobuthi, awuzizwa uzanele ngokwanele. Kubukeka sengathi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngawe, futhi uma nje ungakulungisa, izinto bezingangcono.
Kuyamangaza futhi kuyakhulula ukubona ukuthi awuzange ube yinkinga. Manje usungakhululeka futhi ujabulele ukuthandwa ncamashi ukuthi ungubani.
10. Ufunda ukuzethemba wena kanye nomlingani wakho omusha
Kuthatha isikhathi, kepha uzofunda ukuzethemba wena kanye nemizwa yakho ngomlingani wakho omusha. Uzofunda nokubethemba. Uzokwazi ukuthi uma benza isithembiso, bayasho, futhi uma ningavumelani ningenza kanjalo ngokuphepha ngenkathi nisahloniphana.
Bamba lapho - lesi sigaba sokugcina kufanele usilinde.
Ubudlelwano obunobuthi buyalimaza, kepha kukhona ithemba. Ukuba nobudlelwano obunobuthi esikhathini sakho esedlule akukuvimbi ukuba ube nobudlelwano obufudumele, obusekelayo esikhathini esizayo.