-Delile
- 1. Ukuzila
- 2. Umbhede
- 3. IChuppah
- 4. Ukujikeleza kanye nezifungo
- 5. IKetubah
- 6. USheva B'rachot noma izibusiso eziyisikhombisa
- 7. Ukwephuka kwengilazi
- 8. Yichud
Ubuhle bobudlelwano bendoda nowesifazane kanye nezibopho zabo komunye nomunye nakubantu babo zifanekiselwa uchungechunge oluyinkimbinkimbi lwemikhuba namasiko alandelwayo ngenkathi kwenziwa izifungo zomshado zamaJuda.
Usuku lomshado lubhekwa njengezinsuku ezijabulisa kakhulu nezingcwele kunazo zonke empilweni kamakoti nomkhwenyana njengoba okwedlule kudluliselwe futhi bahlangana komphefumulo omusha ophelele.
Ngokwesiko, ukukhulisa isasasa nokulindela, lo mbhangqwana ojabulayo awubonani isonto elilodwa ngaphambi kokwenza izithembiso zawo zomshado zendabuko zamaJuda.
Nazi izithembiso zomshado ezingama-8 ezimangalisayo namasiko okufanele wazi ngawo:
1. Ukuzila
Lapho usuku lufika, lo mbhangqwana uphathwa njengenkosi nendlovukazi. Umakoti uhleli esihlalweni sobukhosi ngenkathi umkhwenyana ezungezwe izivakashi eziculayo futhi ezenza i-toast kuye.
Ukuhlonipha ubuhle bosuku lwabo lomshado eminye imibhangqwana ikhetha ukubamba inzilo. Ngokufana neYom Kippur, usuku lomshado nalo lubhekwa njengosuku lokuxolelwa. Ukuzila kufakwa kuze kuphele imicimbi yokugcina yomshado.
2. Umbhede
Okulandelayo isiko lomshado ngaphambi komkhosi libizwa ngokuthi iBedken. Ngesikhathi seBedken umkhwenyana usondela kumakoti bese ebeka iveli phezu komlobokazi wakhe okukhombisa ukuthozama kanye nokuzibophezela kwakhe ekugqokiseni nasekuvikeleni unkosikazi wakhe.
UBedken uphinde akhombise ukuthi uthando lomkhwenyana ngomakoti wakhe lubuhle bakhe bangaphakathi. Isiko lokuthi umkhwenyana amboze umakoti uqobo lwakhe livela eBhayibhelini futhi liqinisekisa ukuthi umkhwenyana akakhohliseki ngokushada nomunye umuntu.
3. IChuppah
I- Umcimbi womshado bese wenziwa ngaphansi kombhede obizwa ngokuthi yi-chuppah. Ishali lomkhuleko noma ubude belungu lomndeni kuvame ukusetshenziselwa ukwenza umbhede.
Uphahla olumboziwe namakhona amane e-chuppah kumelela ikhaya elisha lezi zithandani ezizolakha ndawonye. Izinhlangothi ezivulekile zimelela itende lika-Abraham noSara kanye nokuvuleleka kwabo ekwamukeleni izihambi.
Kwi Amasiko omshado wendabuko wamaJuda aya e-chuppah umkhwenyana uhamba ezansi ngabazali bakhe bobabili elandelwa ngumakoti nabazali bakhe bobabili.
4. Ukujikeleza kanye nezifungo
Lapho sebengaphansi kwe-chuppah, enye yezinkambiso zomshado wamaJuda zosuku lomshado ukuthi umakoti uzungeze umkhwenyana kathathu noma kasikhombisa. Lokhu kufanekisela ukwakha umhlaba omusha ndawonye futhi inombolo eyisikhombisa imele ukuphelela nokuqedwa.
Ukujikeleza kubonisa ukwakhiwa kodonga lomlingo oluzungeze umndeni ukuyivikela ezilingweni nasemimoyeni emibi.
Umakoti ube esehlala ngaphandle komyeni ngakwesokunene sakhe. Lokhu kulandelwa urabi efunda izibusiso zesethembiso ngemuva kwalokho lo mbhangqwana uphuza inkomishi yokuqala yewayini ezimbili ezisetshenziswa phakathi kwezifungo zomshado zendabuko zamaHeberu noma izifungo zomshado zamaJuda.
Umkhwenyana ube esethatha indandatho yegolide ecacile ayibeke esicongweni somunwe somlobokazi wakhe esandleni sakhe sokudla ethi, “Bheka, usungithembisile ngale ndandatho, ngokomthetho kaMose nowakwa-Israyeli.” Leli yiphuzu elisemqoka lomcimbi lapho umshado uba semthethweni.
5. IKetubah
Manje inkontileka yomshado ifundwa futhi isayinwe ngofakazi ababili bese kufundiswa izibusiso eziyisikhombisa ngenkathi kuthathwa inkomishi yesibili yewayini. Isivumelwano somshado esaziwa nangokuthi i- IKetubah ngesiJuda iyisivumelwano esibandakanya imisebenzi nezibopho zomkhwenyana.
Ibalula imibandela okufanele ifezwe ngumkhwenyana nomakoti futhi ifaka nohlaka uma abashadikazi benquma ukuhlukanisa.
IKetubah empeleni iyisivumelwano somthetho wamaJuda hhayi umthetho wezenkolo, ngakho-ke idokhumenti ayisho lutho ngonkulunkulu noma ngezibusiso zakhe. OFakazi bakhona ngesikhathi kusayinwa iKetubah futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ifundwa phambi kwezivakashi.
6. USheva B'rachot noma izibusiso eziyisikhombisa
USheva B'rachot noma izibusiso eziyisikhombisa ziyindlela yezimfundiso zasendulo zamaJuda ezifundwa ngesiHeberu nangesiNgisi ngabangane abahlukene namalungu omndeni. Ukufundwa kuqala ngezibusiso ezincane eziphenduka izitatimende ezinhle zokujabula.
7. Ukwephuka kwengilazi
Ukuphela kwalo mcimbi kuphawulwa ngesikhathi lapho kubekwa ingilazi phansi ngaphakathi kwendwangu futhi umkhwenyana uyayichoboza ngonyawo okukhombisa ukubhujiswa kwethempeli laseJerusalema nokukhomba lo mbhangqwana ngesiphetho sabantu bawo.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ize iqoqe izingilazi zengilazi ephukile futhi iyenze ibe yisikhumbuzo somshado wabo. Lokhu kuphawula ukuphela kwamaJuda izithembiso futhi wonke umuntu umemeza ethi “Mazel Tov” (siyakuhalalisela) njengoba abasanda kushada bamukelwa ngomdlandla.
8. Yichud
Ngemuva kokuphela komcimbi izithandani zichitha cishe imizuzu eyi-18 zihlukene njengengxenye yesiko lazo le-yichud. I-Yichud isiko lamaJuda lapho umbhangqwana osanda kushada unikezwa ithuba lokucabanga ngobudlelwano bawo ngasese.