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- Le "Ndaba Yomshado" ibizobizwa kangcono ngokuthi "Impi Yesehlukaniso"
- I-movie yenza amaphutha kubameli nenqubo yezomthetho
- Ukwehlukana nesehlukaniso kuveza okubi kakhulu kubantu
- Abameli abafundisi abantu ukuthi bahlasele abalingani babo
Njengoba uLaura Dern ehola umlingisi oxhasa kakhulu u-Oscar ngokuveza kwakhe ummeli wehlukaniso esehlukanisweni “somhlaba esishisiwe” sezithandani, abathandi bama-movie babuza ukuthi ngabe “Indaba Yomshado” yikhona okwenzeka ngempela lapho abantu abahle behlukanisa.
Ukuqala, isihloko, Indaba Yomshado sithi ukubizwa kancane.
Indaba Yomshado kuncane ngomshado onezinkinga kakhulu kunezehlukaniso ezihambe kabi kakhulu. Isakhiwo siveza abantu ababili abanesizotha abavumela abo inqubo yesehlukaniso ukunikela empini enobuthi.
Le "Ndaba Yomshado" ibizobizwa kangcono ngokuthi "Impi Yesehlukaniso"
Kuningi okungahambi kahle ngenqubo yesehlukaniso sabalingisi abaphambili, kanti okunye ukungcola kubangelwa izeluleko ezimbi ezivela kummeli womlobi wemidlalo nomyeni ongumqondisi, uCharlie. (Okuningi kulokho okungezansi.) Kepha ekugcineni isehlukaniso, njengomshado, siyabhidlika ngenxa yokuthi uCharlie nonkosikazi ongumlingisi, uNicole, bayahluleka ukubhekana nemibuzo emibili ebalulekile:
- Ngabe ngamunye wabo udinga ukuhlala kuphi
- Kusho ukuthini lokho ngokukhulisa ngokubambisana indodana yabo enhle, uHenry?
Ngomsebenzi nenjabulo yakhe uNicole udinga ukuhlala eCalifornia. UCharlie udinga (noma okungenani ufuna) ukuze umsebenzi wakhe nenjabulo yokuhlala eBrooklyn. Lokho bekuzosebenza kanjani uma behlala ndawonye? Bangakwazi yini ukuba ngumzali ngokubambisana nengane ngenkathi behlala emikhawulweni ehlukile?
Esikhundleni sokubhekana nenkinga yabo, uNicole uthuthela eCalifornia ngendima yesikhashana kumshayeli wochungechunge lwethelevishini.
Vele, uNicole unethemba lokuthi umshayeli wakhe wendiza uzoba uchungechunge, umsebenzi wakhe uzokwandiswa futhi uzohlala eCalifornia, mhlawumbe iminyaka eminingana. Lapho uNicole enyakaza, yena noCharlie bayazi, kepha bamane bangazinaki, ubunzima babo besikhathi eside besolwandle.
UCharlie uyavuma ukuthutha kukaHenry okwesikhashana noNicole besuka eBrooklyn beya e-LA. Kumele ukuthi uyayiphika inhloso kaNicole yokubuya, ikakhulukazi ngoba lezi zithandani sezivele zihlangana nomlamuleli wedivosi lapho uNicole ehamba.
UNicole ubonisana nommeli onolaka, ozosiza uNicole ukuthi azulazule kanzima kunayo yonke imibuzo yesehlukaniso: kwenzekani lapho omunye umzali efuna ukuthuthela ngale kwamandla omunye umzali wokusebenzisa isikhathi sokuba umzali kaningi?
UCharlie uphendula ngokuqasha ummeli wakhe wezinyoka, futhi icala eselivele linzima liba yiphupho elibi.
"Indaba Yomshado" iveza ngokusobala ukuthi imizwa elimele ingagxilisa isimo esihle sabantu abahle abake bathandana.
I-movie yenza amaphutha kubameli nenqubo yezomthetho
Kepha ifilimu kaNoah Baumbach yenza amaphutha ngokungenabulungisa kubameli nenqubo yezomthetho yokwehliswa kwamandla kukaNicole noCharlie kusuka ekuhlalisaneni ngokuthula kuya kwababambene.
Ifilimu yenza ihaba ngokungaziphathi kobuntu bobabili abameli. Ummeli kaNicole wesifazane uthokomele ngokweqile ngoNicole futhi indlela aziphatha ngayo enkantolo icishe ibe ngeyesilima.
Ummeli wesilisa kaCharlie uphuthelwa yimpikiswano yakhe yezomthetho, ngokunalokho wagxila ezinkulumweni ezimbi nezonakalisayo ngomlingiswa kaNicole. Bobabili abameli bayaphazamisa, bayamemeza futhi bakhulume bodwa esigcawini senkantolo esingaphandle kokulawulwa.
Ummeli kaCharlie bekufanele atshele uCharlie ukuthi iNew York inegunya elikhethekile ngaphansi komthetho wezwe nowesifundazwe ukunquma izindaba zokugcinwa kukaHenry. UCharlie kufanele abuyele eNew York futhi ngokushesha afake icala lokugcinwa kwabantwana eNew York.
Inkantolo yaseNew York kungenzeka noma ingavumi ukuthi uHenry abuyele eNew York ngenkathi ibheka isicelo sikaNicole sokuhamba noHenry baye eCalifornia.
Kunoma ikuphi, inkantolo yaseNew York izobheka ukuthi kungakuhle yini uHenry ukuhlala eNew York noma eCalifornia. Ukubandakanyeka kwangaphambili komzali ngamunye ekunakekelweni kukaHenry kuzothinta umphumela. Inkantolo izobheka futhi ukuthi abangane bakaCharlie batholakalaphi, isikole, abahlinzeki bezokwelapha kanye nomndeni owengeziwe.
Isici esiyinhloko kuzoba ukuthi inkantolo, noma ikakhulukazi amaqembu uqobo, angakwazi yini ukwakha uhlelo lokuba ngumzali oluhlangabezana nezidingo zobungcweti zabazali bobabili futhi luvumele bobabili uCharlie noNicole ukuthi babandakanyeke kakhulu kubazali empilweni kaCharlie. Obani abazohamba futhi kaningi kangakanani?
Ngeshwa ukungezwani kukaNicole noCharlie ku- "Indaba Yomshado" kuyiqiniso.
Ukwehlukana nesehlukaniso kuveza okubi kakhulu kubantu
Ikakhulukazi lapho izigxobo ziphakeme njengelungelo lokunakekela ingane yakho.
Lapho ifilimu inhlanhlatha inganekwane kusikisela kwayo ukuthi abameli abaziphathe kabi badale, noma okungenani bavuse, isimangaliso semvelo sivezwa lapho kukhunjulwa izinkumbulo zeziphambeko zomlingani wangaphambili ezikhuphukayo endabeni yesehlukaniso.
Ngokwezinga lapho ifilimu isola khona abameli bakaCharlie noNicole abakhulayo, “Indaba Yomshado” ikakhulukazi inganekwane.
Buka futhi le vidiyo lapho abameli bezehlukaniso banikeza khona izeluleko zobudlelwano: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCLk-2iArYc
Abameli abafundisi abantu ukuthi bahlasele abalingani babo
Ozakwethu abahlanganayo banesibopho sokuxhumana kwabazali babo bobabili kanye nokuziphatha kwabo.
Akunandaba ukuthi ubuhlobo babantu abadala bubi kangakanani, abazali abalungile abahlanganyeli ekuziphatheni okuholela ezinhlungwini ezinganeni zabo.
Ngaphandle kokuvezwa kommeli we-caricature ku- "Indaba Yomshado", imibhangqwana ehlukanisayo kufanele ibe nabameli.
Ukwehlukanisa abalingani kufanele baqonde amalungelo abo asemthethweni nezibopho zomthetho. Isivumelwano sedivosi esinobulungiswa nesinokuthula kufanele sivele ezingxoxweni ezinolwazi.
Ukuze baqonde indawo yezomthetho lapho imibhangqwana ibambisana ngokubambisana yenza izivumelwano ezisebenzela izidingo zabo ezithile, kufanele babe nabameli bokuchaza imiphumela emihle kakhulu nembi kakhulu.
Izingxoxo zingasebenza ngokulamula, imihlangano yabameli noma izingxoxo ezibhaliwe. Abazali abanabameli abanekhono nokuzibophezela ekubeni ngabalingani bokukhulisa izingane ngemuva kokuba bengasekho abashade bayohlala njalo befinyelela kumphumela ongcono kunejaji lecala elibona kuphela ubufakazi obethulwe enkantolo.