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- 1. Uthinta ukukhula kwengqondo yengane yakho esanda kuzalwa
- 2. Ingane yakho ayidingi “izinto” eziningi.
- 3. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa azinazo izinto ezivamile
- 4. Kulungile ake ingane yakho ikhale kakhulu
Kuzo zonke izimpilo zethu, sifaka izigaba ezintsha kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuvivinya ukuzivumelanisa kwethu nokubekezela. Kepha zincane izinto ezisiphonsela inselelo njengokukhulisa nokunakekela ingane esanda kuzalwa.
Ukuba ngumzali kuyisifundo esiphikisayo, kugcwele ukuphakama nokwehla okuvivinya kakhulu ukubekezela, uthando, nokuzinikela phakathi kwethu.
Ukuba ngumzali nokuba ngumzali osanda kuzalwa kumayelana nokuxhumana, ubudlelwano, uthando nomndeni. Kepha futhi kugcwele inani elimangazayo lokuzitholela nokungabaza.
Ngasikhathi sinye, sifunda ukuthi sikwazi amazinga amasha othando; siphinde sibhekane nobuthakathaka bethu - ubugovu, ukubekezela, intukuthelo. Ukuba ngumzali injabulo engenakulinganiswa nothando kugcwele izikhathi zokukhungatheka okungacabangi.
Kepha ungazizwa uwedwa ekungabazeni nasekungazini kwakho. Ngisho nabazali abahle kakhulu bazizwa belahlekile ngezinye izikhathi. Bayaziqagela futhi mayelana nendlela engcono yokondla, ukugqoka, nokunakekela lo muntu omusha ezimpilweni zabo.
Ngakho-ke, ukungabaza nokukhathazeka kuyingxenye yako. Kepha ulwazi nokuqonda kusiza abazali ukuthi banciphise ukungazethembi kwabo, kubenze bahambe emazweni abo amasha ngokuzethemba okulinganiselwe.
Nazi izinto ezine zezingane ezisanda kuzalwa okufanele wazi ukuthi wonke umzali wokuqala kufanele akhumbule ukuthi angasinakekela kanjani isixha senjabulo esisanda kuzalwa esizobasiza endleleni.
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1. Uthinta ukukhula kwengqondo yengane yakho esanda kuzalwa
Ingqondo yengane iyisimangaliso esingokwemvelo. Ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa iqala impilo yayo ngamangqamuzana obuchopho angaba yizigidi eziyizinkulungwane eziyikhulu. Ekuqaleni, lawa maseli akhula abe inethiwekhi eyinkimbinkimbi ye-neural ekhulisa ukukhula kwawo kwengqondo kanye nemizwa.
Ngesikhathi sokunakekelwa kosana olusanda kuzalwa ngemuva kokuzalwa, okwenzayo njengomzali kuthinta le nqubo yemvelo, kungaba ukuyisiza noma ukuyivimba. Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi unakekela izidingo zabo zomzimba, qiniseka ukuthi nawe Usizokhulisa ubuchopho bengane yakho esanda kuzalwa.
Njengoba izinzwa zakho ezinhlanu ezisanda kuzalwa zikhula, kukhona okuhlangenwe nakho okukhethekile kwengqondo akudingayo okukuzungezile. Izikhuthazi njengokuthintana kwesikhumba nesikhumba, ukuzwa izwi lakho nokubona ubuso bakho yizinto eziyisisekelo.
Ngakho-ke, okuningi kwalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuza ngemisebenzi ejwayelekile yokunakekelwa kwezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa. Kepha ezinye azinembile kangako. Isibonelo, umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa ukhetha izithombe eziphambene kakhulu namaphethini afana nobuso bomuntu.
Lokhu kusiza ingane yakho ukukhomba izinto ezisendaweni yazo. Ngisho “nesikhathi esiswini” kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengqondo yengane yakho. Ukusiza ukukhulisa ubuchopho bengane yakho esanda kuzalwa, yenza lezi zinto ezibucayi zitholakale kubo ngezikhathi ezifanele.
2. Ingane yakho ayidingi “izinto” eziningi.
Kubazali abasha, kuyalinga ukulayisha amalambu akamuva asebusuku, ama-binky sanitizers, namanye amagajethi wezingane. Kepha kuyinto kulula ukudlula ngokweqile. Izinkinga, mhlawumbe awudingi izinto eziningi zengane njengoba ucabanga. Ukunakekela usana, ngenkathi kunzima ukwenza, kungumqondo olula.
Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zidinga ukudla, ukulala, kanye nodoti. Futhi ukuminyana kwekhaya lakho ngezikhwama zezinto ezingasebenzi kuzomane kwenze kube nzima ukuthambekela kulezi zidingo eziyisisekelo.
Lezo zimoto eziningi zezipho zezingane ozihambisa ekhaya ngokuziqhenya zingaba isishayo sezinto okufanele zihlanzwe, ziqoqwe futhi zihlelwe. Ingasaphathwa, imfuhlumfuhlu eningi izokwandisa ukucindezeleka kwakho.
Ngakho-ke, qala kancane bese ungeza izinto njengoba uzidinga. Ezinye izinto ezinjengamanabukeni, ifomula, nokusula okumanzi akusizi lutho - kulapho kuhlangana khona. Futhi, kulula kakhulu ukukugcina ngobuningi, futhi ungahlala unikela nganoma yikuphi ukusetshenziswa okungasetshenziswanga ezindaweni zokukhosela zabesifazane bendawo.
Futhi funda ukubuyekezwa komkhiqizo ngaphambi kokuzibophezela ekuthengeni ngisho namagajethi amancane kakhulu. Gcina isimo sengqondo esincane, futhi uzokwenza lula inqubo yokukhulisa izingane.
3. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa azinazo izinto ezivamile
Abantu bayayithanda imikhuba, ngisho nabaxhamazeli kakhulu phakathi kwethu. Futhi lokhu kwenzelwa izingane. Kepha ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa ngeke ibe nenkambiso yenyanga yokuqala noma ezimbili. Ngaleso sikhathi, abakwazi ngokomzimba ukulandela iphethini ejwayelekile.
Isizathu esisodwa salokhu ukuthi iwashi labo lemvelo (isb., Isigqi se-circadian) alikakakhuli okwamanje. Bona awukwazi ukwehlukanisa umehluko phakathi kobusuku nemini. Futhi, "uhlelo" lwabo lokulala nokudla alunakulindelwa futhi luqhutshwa yisifiso (sokumangala) sokulala nokudla.
Ngakho-ke, nini futhi ngani banquma ukwenza noma yini kulindelwe ukubanjwa. Vele, lesi siphithiphithi sizophikisana nenqubo yakho. Futhi noma yimuphi umzamo wokuphoqelela isimiso sakho sokudla / sokulala enganeni esanda kuzalwa awuseluleki kahle futhi awusebenzi.
Esikhundleni salokho, landela ukuhola kwengane yakho esanda kuzalwa. Lungisa uhlelo lwakho luye kokusemandleni abo emavikini okuqala ama-4 kuye kwayi-6. Ukuncishwa ubuthongo okungenakugwemeka nokukhungatheka kuzolandela, kepha ukuguquguquka kwakho kuzosiza ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa ukuba ijwayele inqubo ejwayelekile ngokushesha.
Kancane kancane qala ukwethula imizila enjengokugeza ebusuku nokukhanya okuncane noma ukukhanya kwelanga ekuseni ukusiza ingane yakho yakhe isigqi sayo sokujikeleza. Lapho-ke, njengoba beqala ukujwayela inqubo yakho, qala ukulandelela imikhuba yabo yokudla nokulala.
Kuzovela iphethini "yezikhathi ezihamba phambili" zemisebenzi, futhi ungayisebenzisela ukuvumelanisa ingane yakho ngokushesha nenqubo yakho yansuku zonke.
4. Kulungile ake ingane yakho ikhale kakhulu
Ukukhala yindlela ingane yakho ekhuluma ngayo nawe. Futhi kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani badinga ukuba "nenkulumo." Ingane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi ilambile, ilele, imanzi, inesizungu, noma inhlanganisela ethile yalezi.
Abazali abasha ngokuvamile bakuthola kunzima ukuvumela izingane zabo zikhale ngisho nangesikhathi esifushane kakhulu, zigijimela embhedeni ngophawu oluncane lokushayana. Kungokwemvelo ngabazali abasha abafika ekhaya bevela esibhedlela ukuba babe nozwelo enganeni yabo ekhalayo.
Kepha njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, isidingo sakho sokududuza nokucima ngokushesha konke ukukhala kufanele siphele. Ungakhathazeki; uzobangcono njengoba ufunda “ukufunda” ukukhala okuhlukile - ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokukhala okukhala ngokuthi “Ngimanzi” kanye nokukhala “kokulala”.
Ukuvumela ingane yakho "ikhale" empeleni ibasiza bafunde ukuzithiba. Lokho akusho ukuthi mabakhale ihora lonke. Kepha, uma uzame konke okwaziyo ukubathulisa, kulungile ukubeka ingane yakho endaweni ephephile uhambe imizuzu embalwa.
Zenzele, wenze inkomishi yekhofi, futhi unciphise ukucindezeleka. Akukho okubi okuzokwenzeka. Ukuzithambisa kubalulekile ikakhulukazi ebusuku.
Ukungalali kahle kuyinkinga enkulu kubazali abasha. Futhi labo abavumela izingane zabo zikhala imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuba bavuke embhedeni bavame ukuthola ukulala okungcono ebusuku futhi babe namazinga aphansi okucindezeleka.
Le ndlela ibizwa ngokuthi “ukuqothula iziqu,” futhi isiza izingane ukuba zifunde ukulala ngokushesha. Ungakhathazeki, ukuvumela ingane yakho ikhale kancane ngeke kubathinte ngokomzwelo noma kulimaze isibopho sakho somzali nengane. Eqinisweni, kuzothuthukisa konke.
Ungabheka futhi izindlela zanamuhla zokuba ngumzali ukuze uhambisane nezidingo zengane yakho ezishintshayo.