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- Ungayenza yini imishado eyeqa imingcele isebenze?
- Beka okulindelekile
- Ongakwenza ukwenza izinto zisebenze
- Ukwethembana phakathi kwabalingani kwenza imishado eyeqa imingcele isebenze
Ayikho indlala yemibhangqwana eshadile ehlala ebudlelwaneni bebanga elide ngenjabulo.
Ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi abantu abahlala emishadweni enqamula imingcele bathola amazinga afanayo noma aphezulu okwaneliseka nokwethembana uma kuqhathaniswa nemibhangqwana esondelene ngokwendawo. Kodwa-ke, akuyona yonke imibhangqwana ehlala emazweni ehlukene futhi enemishado eyeqa imingcele ekwazi ukugcina inhlansi iqhubeka.
Ngakho-ke, yini ongayenza ukwandisa amathuba okwenza umshado wakho usebenze?
Ungayenza yini imishado eyeqa imingcele isebenze?
Ngenkathi ukwenza umshado webanga elide kudinga umsebenzi, kungabonakala kuyinselele enkulu uma kukhulunywa ngabalingani abahlala emazweni ahlukene noma bagcina beshade nowezizwe noma owokufika. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuthatha indiza yomhlaba akufani nokuhamba ngaphakathi ezweni. Nazi izimpawu ongazifuna ukuthola ukuthi unqunyelwe ukuhamba ngendlela yomshado webanga elide -
- Imishado yemingcele yakhelwe ekwethembaneni nasekuxhumaneni okusebenzayo
- Kuzoba nokuthuthuka okuphawulekayo esimweni sezezimali somndeni wakho
- Ukhululekile ukusebenzisa izindlela zokuxhumana ezidijithali ukuze uhlale uxhumene noshade naye
- Ubheke phambili ekubonaneni mathupha
- Wenza izinhlelo eziqinile zokuqinisekisa ukuthi nihlangana njalo
Beka okulindelekile
Thola ukuthi ulindeleni emshadweni wakho wekhadi eliluhlaza kanye nomlingani wakho ukuya phambili, kungaba yiminyaka emibili ezansi noma umgwaqo noma emihlanu.
Khumbula ukuthi ukuxhumana kubalulekile. Lapho uxoxa ngokuhamba nomlingani wakho, yehlisa umoya futhi uthembeke ekuzameni ukuthola isisombululo esisebenzela bobabili.
Lesi yisikhathi lapho udinga ukuveza noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka okungenzeka. Zibuze le mibuzo elandelayo -
- Uzoxhumana kangaki futhi uzosebenzisa siphi isisetshenziswa?
- Nihlangana kangaki?
- Ingabe indawo entsha noma amahora amasha omsebenzi azothinta ikhono lakho lokuxhumana?
- Ngabe lukhona ushintsho esimweni sezezimali oluzokuthinta kabi?
- Kungenzeka uhlale isikhathi esingakanani ngokwehlukana?
- Ngabe kuzoba khona ushintsho empilweni yakho yezenhlalo?
- Kuthiwani uma omunye wenu enquma ukuthi ukuthutha akusebenzi?
Ongakwenza ukwenza izinto zisebenze
Akukho mithetho ecacile imibhangqwana ehlala emazweni ehlukene engaphendukela kuyo ukuze yenze imishado yayo eyeqa imingcele isebenze. Nawa amanye amathiphu angasiza.
- Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ukuhlala uthintana - Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe obuguqukayo ukuze uhlale uxhumene nomlingani wakho. Lokhu kungaba ngamakholi wevidiyo, imiyalezo, nezinkundla zokuxhumana. Zama ukukhuluma nomunye okungenani kanye ngosuku, noma ngabe kufanele nibeke isikhathi kusengaphambili.
- Khulumisana kahle - Uma uhlala noshade naye, ukukhuluma kwakhe komzimba kukunikeza inkomba enhle yokuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uqhubeka wabelana ngemininingwane emincane ngezikhathi ezithile. Njengoba lezi zici zishoda ebudlelwaneni obujwayelekile bebanga elide, udinga ukuxhumana kakhulu ngokwabelana ngemizwa yakho. Udinga futhi ukuba isilaleli esihle.
- Hlangana kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka - Kuya ngokuthi uhlala kude kangakanani nokuthi kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi nihlangane, kubalulekile ukuthi nihlangane kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kungaba kanye ezinyangeni ezimbili noma okungenani kanye ngonyaka.
- Sisebenziseni kahle isikhathi senu sindawonye - Into yokugcina okudingeka niyenze lapho nihlangana ngumsebenzi wediski. Gxila komunye nomunye futhi nenze izinto enithanda ukuzenza njengabantu abashadile. Khumbula ukuthi ukusondelana kudlala indima ebalulekile ekwenzeni imishado isebenze.
Ukwethembana phakathi kwabalingani kwenza imishado eyeqa imingcele isebenze
Akunasizathu sokuthi kungani wena noshade naye ningeke nenze umshado webanga elide usebenze. Ukuthembana yimfuneko esobala, futhi udinga ukusetha okulindelwe okulungile.
Qiniseka ukuthi ugcina iziteshi zokuxhumana zivulekile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Qhubeka uhlangane lapho isikhathi nezinsizakusebenza zivuma.