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- 1. Thola izimbali zesithandwa sakho
- 2. Phakamisa umlingani wakho
- 3. Ubumnandi bokashokoledi
- 4. Nikeza u-teddy bear
- 5. Yenza isithembiso
- 6. Yabelana ngokuqabula okujulile, kothando
- 7. Nikelani umlingani wakho isipiliyoni nobabili enizosithokozela
- 8. Wanga umlingani wakho isikhathi eside, esiqinile
Ngakho-ke, usuku olulindelwe izimbungulu zothando selulapha njengoba useduze namaholide e-honeymoon. Ngabe usebenza kanzima ukumangaza ozakwenu ngandlela thile ngenkathi ugubha uthando lwakho nobunye? Kepha, imibuzo esekhanda lakho ukuthi ungayenza kanjani i-honeymoon yakho ikhumbuleke noma uqiniseke kanjani ukuthi ichithwa ngendlela ekhethekile yokujabulisa abalingani bakho.
Kungaba nemibono eyizinkulungwane ezimbalwa yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke.
Abaningi bagijimela esiphethweni sokuthi kumele basebenzise izindlela zeNdalo ukukhulisa amandla ukuze bajabulele ubuhlobo obuseduze. Kepha akupheleli lapho, ngezansi kuneminye imibono emihle yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke futhi ikusize wenze zonke izinsuku nemizuzu yonke ndawonye kube yinto engathandeka futhi engalibaleki empilweni yonke.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi amathiphu namaqhinga alandelayo e-honeymoon azokuqinisekisa isikhathi esihle kanye nothando lwempilo yakho.
1. Thola izimbali zesithandwa sakho
Ungayenza kanjani i-honeymoon ikhetheke ngayo? Kalula! Mthengele isixha sezimbali ezibomvu.
Akungabazeki ukuthi, ama-rose, isikhathi eside kakhulu, asetshenziswe njengophawu lothando nentshisekelo. Ukuthola ama-roses abomvu kuyindlela enhle yokuqala impilo yothando. Hlela isixha esikhulu sama roses futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi isithandwa sakho sizozizwa ngaphezu kwenyanga. Lesi yisibonakaliso esihle uma uhlose ukulahla iseluleko ngothando lwakho olusanda kutholakala noma lapho uzama ukulahla isenzo esikhethekile somlingani wakho wempilo. Ungahle uhambe igxathu lokungeza umlayezo womuntu siqu oveza uthando lwakho kumlingani wakho.
Akukho okungashaya isigaxa sama roses abomvu uma kukhulunywa ngemibono yothando ukwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke.
2. Phakamisa umlingani wakho
Kwabashadileyo, yisikhathi esifanele ukukhombisa izifungo zakho futhi uvume uthando lwakho ngendlela ekhethekile nehlukile. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokuya osukwini lokukhanya kwamakhandlela okudla kwasebusuku. Uma ubheka amashejuli aqinile osukwini lwanamuhla, lokhu kungaba esinye sezenzo zothando kakhulu! Ungakuhlela lokhu nomphathi werestshurenti ukuze badlale ingoma oyithandayo kaphathina wakho noma bathole ikhekhe / ushampeni ukuyenza ikhetheke kakhulu futhi ibe yothando.
Lokhu kungaba enye yezinto zothando ongazenza ngesikhathi sangemva komshado futhi mhlawumbe phezulu ohlwini lwemibono emihle yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke.
3. Ubumnandi bokashokoledi
Sawubona! Kuyinto i-honeymoon yakho futhi kukhona uthando emoyeni. Ushokoledi omncane ungaba muhle. Ama-chocolate aphelele ukwengeza othandweni. Esikhundleni sokuwathenga nokuwanika isipho kumlingani wakho, ukubhaka ikhekhe le-chocolate kungaba yothando kakhulu. Ungathatha leli thuba futhi uyenge isithandwa sakho njengoba nijabulelana ngenkathi nizijabulela noshokoledi.
Uzibuza, ungayenza kanjani i-honeymoon ibe yothando ngokwengeziwe? Kulungile! Usuvele unenye yezeluleko zothando zangemva komshado ku-kitty yakho.
4. Nikeza u-teddy bear
Lolu wusuku oluhle kakhulu lokuthi uphe umlingani wakho i-teddy ozoyanga nayo noma nini lapho bekukhumbula.
Amabhere kaTeddy asebenza njengophawu lothando, uthando, kanye nokutotosa ikakhulukazi lapho enikezwe izintokazi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, amabhere we-teddy angasebenza njengezipho ezifanele zamadoda nawo. Empeleni banjengezingane ezincane ezivela ngaphakathi futhi njengoba amabhere amathoyizi ahlala egumbini lakho, azohlala ekhumbuza umlingani wakho uthando olukhethekile ombonise lona empilweni yakho.
Lona ngomunye wemibono ekhethelo yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke futhi ithandeke.
5. Yenza isithembiso
Manje, ukhombise uthando lwakho kumlingani wakho ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene futhi nakhu kuza njengokufanelekile ukuqinisekisa umlingani wakho ngezethembiso obuzenza kuye njalo. Izethembiso ozenzayo azifani nanoma iziphi ezinye owake wazenza phambilini; uzokwenza isithembiso ngenkathi uqonde wonke amagama owaphimisayo. Kuhlala kunesidingo sokufingqa zonke izithembiso zakho komunye nomunye ngosuku olukhethekile olufana nalolu. Uma ukholwa ukuthi umlingani wakho ungowakho, njalo qinisekisa ukuthi wenza isithembiso ngesikhathi esifanele futhi usigcine. Thembisa okuthile okukhethekile ngalolu suku ngaphansi kokukhanya kwenyanga noma ngesikhathi sedina yokukhanya kwamakhandlela.
Uma ufuna imibono enesizotha futhi eqondile yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke, lapho-ke usuke wagxumela kwipulatifomu efanele.
6. Yabelana ngokuqabula okujulile, kothando
Ukuqabula kuvame ukusebenza njengomlingo lapho unomlingani wakho.
Usuku lwezothando aludingi ngempela ukuba lubize noma lube lukanokusho. Ungahle ulungiselele ukudla okuthandwa ngumlingani wakho, ulungise izingilazi zewayini noma udlale imidlalo yebhodi oyithandayo futhi ngalo mzuzu ukuyenza ibe yothando ngokwengeziwe. Qala ngokuqabula kwethenda ebunzini ngaphambi kokucwiliswa imizwa ejulile lapho uzokwabelana khona ngokwanga okunothando ukuvusa usuku ngendlela yomlingo.
Ungayenza kanjani i-honeymoon ikhethe umyeni wakho? Yeba ukuqabula okushisayo, ngezikhathi ezithile.
7. Nikelani umlingani wakho isipiliyoni nobabili enizosithokozela
Imibono yokwenza i-honeymoon ekhethekile incike ekutheni ungathola ubuciko kanjani nabo. Konke kumayelana nobuciko futhi uzoba neholide elihle kakhulu langemva komshado nomlingani wakho. Kodwa-ke, uma ukwazi ukuphatha ukwengeza izipho ezimbalwa lapha nalaphaya, kuzoba ngcono. Lokhu okulandelayo izindlela zokwenza iholide lakho langemva komshado likhetheke nobabili:
Hlala embhedeni usuku lonke- lolu suku kufanele lusetshenziswe ndawonye embhedeni kuwo wonke umqondo. Hlalani nigqoke izingubo zokulala njengoba nibuka ama-movie ndawonye. Yiba nokudla okulula nawe njengoba uziphumuza njengoba uthatha ikhefu ezinkingeni zansuku zonke zokuphila.
Nikeza indoda yakho massage- uma ungazi ukuthi uzokwenza kanjani ngalokhu, mane ubize umasseuse ukuthi eze azomisa indawo yokubhucungwa egumbini lakho lokuphumula. Lapho ubusuku bufika, phatha umfana wakho ebusuku ngamakhandlela amnandi akhanyayo. Awudingi ukuba yingcweti kulokhu kepha ukuzama izindlela ezimbalwa zokubhucungwa lapha nalaphaya uzozizwa unothando futhi unothando.
Khanyisa umlilo- khuphula umlilo ekhaya lakho ngokukhanyisa iziko uma unalo. Thatha ingilazi yewayini bese uhlala useduze njengoba ugonene ubusuku bonke futhi ujabulela ukuthula nokuzola wedwa.
Phinda wenze usuku lwakho lokuqala- akukho lutho oluzizwa lukhethekile njengosuku lokuqala. Ubuza noma iziphi izithandani futhi zingakhuluma ngakho konke. Ngethemba lokuthi uyikhumbula kahle eyakho, zama ngangokunokwenzeka bese uyiphinda. Ungahamba uze uphinde ubuyise ingubo efanayo yosuku bese uyangethemba; lokhu kuzoletha izinkumbulo eziningi njengoba uthola ukuthi ubone ukuthi uqhele kangakanani ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Yenza ucansi- ucansi yinto ephelele yokuqeda usuku lothando ngesitayela. Kuhlala kunokuthile okukhethekile ngokuya ocansini, ucansi oluthandekayo ngalolo daba, ngalolu suku. Kuzoba kuhle uma uthola umuntu wakho noma yiziphi izikhuthazi ezilinganiswe kahle kakhulu ze-testosterone. Kuzobonisa ukuthi uzimisele ngokufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi wenza ucansi. Ngokungafani nezinye izinsuku, zama ukuthola ithoyizi elisha locansi, bukela izithombe ezingcolile ndawonye, thenga izingubo zangaphansi noma uzame isitayela esisha noma indawo. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi noma abalingani empeleni baya ocansini ngosuku lokugcina lwe-honeymoon yabo njengendlela engcono yokuqeda i-honeymoon. Njengowesifazane, mangaza umuntu wakho ngezingubo zakho zangaphansi zothando ezibomvana noma ezibomvu noma ngesudi yakho yokuzalwa elinde embhedeni futhi uzothuka ukuthi umvulela kangakanani.
8. Wanga umlingani wakho isikhathi eside, esiqinile
Ngenkathi isikhathi sobumbano sesizokwehla, ukwangana okujulile, okuqinile nokude kuyindlela ephelele yokudlulisa imizwa yakho. Lokhu yilokhu eningakwazi ukukuthwala impilo yenu nobabili, akunandaba ukuthi ngabe nijwayele ukwangana njalo lapho nibonana noma nizungeza omunye nomunye; ungenza lolu suku lube usuku olukhethekile lokugona ukwenza othandiweyo wakho azizwe efudumele futhi ethandwa. Yenza ukwanga kuzwe kufudumele futhi kugcwele uthando. Umbono ophelele kulokhu ukuhlela ipikinikini yakusihlwa nomlingani wakho (ungafaka nabangane bakho abambalwa) bese uzama ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uzizwe umnandi futhi uqabula.
Gcina i-hug engajwayelekile phambi kwabangani bakho phakathi nokudlala imidlalo noma ukwaba isidlo sakusihlwa. Ngenkathi ugona, gcina ukubonana kwamehlo futhi ubabone bemamatheka njengoba umbambe eduze kwesifuba sakho.
Akukho okungaba nothando olukhulu njengokugona okucinene, ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi kungenye yemibono elula yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke.
Imicabango yokugcina
Ungayenza kanjani i-honeymoon ikhetheke ngaye?
Manje njengoba seningumbhangqwana oshadile, seniqalile ukwenza izinhlelo zalesi sikhathi sokugubha? Ngaso sonke isikhathi thatha igxathu elilodwa usuku ngalunye futhi uzokwenza likhumbuleke njengoba ukhulisa ubuhlobo bakho nothando lwakho. Ukusuka ekuthumeleni imibhalo emincane noma ukushiya inothi, ukwethula izimbali nezinye izipho ekuhleleni ukuvakasha okungalindelekile nokuba nobulili obushisayo, ungaba nosuku lwabathandi abaphelele kulo nyaka wonke.
Landela omunye wemibono yokwenza i-honeymoon ikhetheke futhi uphakamise ibha yothando emshadweni wakho.