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- Abalingani bethu bazizwa bengathandwa futhi bengaxhunyiwe
- Izingane zethu zizizwa zingathandwa futhi zingaxhumekile
- Umndeni wethu uzizwa ungathandwa futhi ungaxhunyanisiwe
- Lapho umshado ungapheli
- Lapho inkosikazi izizwa ingathandwa futhi inqanyuliwe
Ngaphandle kokusondelana, umshado uba lusizi, ucansi lube nobugovu, nombhede ungcoliswe. Miningi kakhulu imishado eye yahlakazeka yaba ubudlelwano ngaphandle kokusondelana nothando. Basadlala indima, benza umthwalo wabo, baqhubeke nokuzibophezela kwabo; kepha njengoba sishilo ngaphambili, uNkulunkulu ufuna okungaphezulu, futhi ubudlelwano bethu bufanele okungaphezulu.
Isambulo 2: 2–4 (KJV) Ngiyayazi imisebenzi yakho, nomshikashika wakho, nokubekezela kwakho, nokuthi awukwazi ukubekezelela ababi: futhi ubazamile labo abathi bangabaphostoli bengebona, usutholile bona, abaqambimanga, Noma kunjalo, nginalokhu ngawe; ushiye uthando lwakho lwakuqala.
Ukushiya uthando lwethu lokuqala kusho ukuthi asisenalo uthando lweqiniso noma uthando oluhamba phambili ebudlelwaneni bethu. Sihamba ngemikhuba yothando, kepha sintula imizwa yothando. Ubudlelwano bethu nemishado, ezimweni eziningi, ilahlekelwe ukusondelana kwabo.
Ukulahleka okujwayelekile kokusondelana nothando kube nomthelela omubi emphakathini wethu.
Abalingani bethu bazizwa bengathandwa futhi bengaxhunyiwe
- UGenesise 29:31 (KJV) Lapho uJehova ebona ukuthi uLeya uyazondwa, wavula isizalo sakhe; kepha uRaheli wayeyinyumba.
- ULeah ushadile kodwa akazizwa enothando noma ukuxhumana nomyeni wakhe
Izingane zethu zizizwa zingathandwa futhi zingaxhumekile
- KwabaseKolose 3:21 (KJV) Bobaba, ningabathukuthelisi abantwana benu, funa badumazeke.
- Kwabase-Efesu 6: 4 (KJV) Nani bobaba, ningabathukuthelisi abantwana benu, kepha nibondle ngokuyala nangokuyala kweNkosi.
- Lapho obaba behluleka ukunikeza ukusondelana ezinganeni zabo bayathukuthela futhi balingise leyo ntukuthelo ngokuziphatha okungafanele.
Umndeni wethu uzizwa ungathandwa futhi ungaxhunyanisiwe
- 1 KwabaseKorinte 3: 3 (KJV) Ngokuba nisengabenyama;
- KwabaseRoma 16:17 (KJV) Manje ngiyanincenga, bazalwane, ukuba niqaphele ababanga ukwahlukana nezikhubekiso eziphikisana nemfundiso eniyifundile nina; futhi uzigweme.
- Sihlangana ndawonye emisebenzini yethu, emasontweni, nakwezinye izindawo, kodwa asizizwa sithandwa noma sixhumene.
Futhi-ke, sesingumphakathi wabafelokazi abashadile nezintandane ezingabazali. Sishadile, kodwa siphila sengathi asikho. Sinabazali bemvelo nabangokomoya kepha sikhona sengathi asinabo. Sibona lesi senzakalo emibhalweni encwadini yesi-2 kaSamuweli.
2 Samuweli 20: 3 (KJV) UDavide wafika endlini yakhe eJerusalema; inkosi yathatha abesifazane abayishumi, izancinza zayo eyayibashiyile ukuba bayigcine indlu, yababeka esitokisini, yabapha ukudla, kepha kayingenanga kubo. Bavalelwa-ke kwaze kwaba lusuku lokufa kwabo, behlala bengabafelokazi.
Lapho umshado ungapheli
UDavide wathatha laba besifazane njengezancinza zakhe noma abafazi bakhe, wabaphatha njengabafazi, wabondla njengabafazi, kepha akazange abanikeze ukusondelana. Ngakho-ke baphila sengathi balahlekelwe ngumyeni wabo yize wayesaphila. Ake sibheke le ndima futhi ku-New Living Translation.
2 Samuweli 20: 3 (NLT) Lapho uDavide efika esigodlweni sakhe eJerusalema, wathatha izancinza zakhe eziyishumi ezazizishiye zibheka isigodlo, wazibeka ngasese. Izidingo zabo zanikezwa, kepha akabange esalala nabo. Ngakho-ke ngamunye wabo wahlala njengomfelokazi waze wafa.
Ababhali abangamaJuda bathi izindlovukazi ezingabafelokazi zamakhosi angamaHeberu zazingavunyelwe ukuphinde zishade kodwa zaziphoqelekile ukudlulisa impilo yazo yonke zisese ngokuqinile. UDavide waphatha nezancinza zakhe ngendlela efanayo emva kwentukuthelo eyenziwa kubo ngu-Abisalomu. Babengahlukanisile, ngoba babengenacala, kodwa babengasabonwa obala njengabafazi bakhe.
Laba besifazane baphila beshadile, kepha ngaphandle kokusondelana okuvela kumyeni wabo. Babengamawindi abashadile.
Esahlukweni sama-29, sibona omunye umfelokazi oshadile. Kulokhu, yize wayenza ucansi (ngoba wayelokhu ekhulelwa), nokho wayengumfelokazi oshadile ngoba wayengathandwa futhi engaxhumene nomyeni wakhe. Ake siyobheka indaba kaJakobe noLeya.
Lapho inkosikazi izizwa ingathandwa futhi inqanyuliwe
UGenesise 29: 31-35 (NLT) 31 Lapho iNkosi ibona ukuthi uLeya wayengathandwa, wamnika ukuba abe nabantwana, kepha uRaheli wayengakwazi ukukhulelwa. 32 ULeya wakhulelwa, wazala indodana. Waqamba igama layo ngokuthi uRubeni, ngokuba wathi: “INkosi ikubonile ukuhlupheka kwami; manje umyeni wami uzongithanda.” 33 Ngokushesha wakhulelwa futhi futhi wazala enye indodana. Wayiqamba igama lokuthi uSimeyoni, ngokuba wathi: “INkosi izwile ukuthi angithandwa, futhi ingiphile enye indodana.” 34 Wabe esekhulelwa okwesithathu futhi wazala enye indodana. Waqanjwa igama lokuthi uLevi, ngokuba wathi: “Bheka, manje umyeni wami uyakungithanda, ngokuba sengimzalele amadodana amathathu.”
Waphinda wakhulelwa uLeya, wazala enye indodana. Waqamba igama layo ngokuthi uJuda, ngokuba wathi: “Manje sengiyakudumisa uJehova.” Wabe eseyeka ukuba nezingane.
Manje yize lokhu kuyindaba enamandla yalokho okufanele sikwenze nokungafanele sikwenze lapho singathandwa, akulichithi iqiniso lokuthi ukushada nokungathandwa yindawo ebuhlungu kakhulu ukuba kuyo.
ULeya wayeshadile futhi engathandwa ngumyeni wakhe (i-KJV yebhayibheli empeleni ithi wayezondwa). Yize wayengahlangene ngalutho nenkinga azithola ekuyo, kodwa noma kunjalo kwadingeka aphile nayo. UJacob wayethandana nodadewabo uRachael futhi wakhohliswa ukuba amshade. Ngenxa yalokho, wamzonda.
Manje uNkulunkulu uvula isibeletho sakhe futhi amvumele ukuba athole abantwana abane. Lokhu kusikhombisa ukuthi noma eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane ezine eyedlule, imibhangqwana eshadile ibiya ocansini ngaphandle kokusondelana. Wayewindi elishadile. Kungenzeka ukuthi wayeya ocansini, kepha wayengatholi ukusondelana.
ULeya akazange enze umyeni wakhe amthande, futhi lokhu kuyisivumelwano sokusondela kuNkulunkulu njengoba enza, nokufunda ukuthi uNkulunkulu ubemthanda sonke lesi sikhathi. Uma kushiwo lokho, asifuni ukuthi oshade naye aphile impilo yonke emshadweni, kepha sizwe sengathi bangumfelokazi. Ushadile, mhlawumbe nokwenza ucansi, kodwa uzizwa ungaxhumekile futhi ungathandwa.