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- Kuyini ukuhlukaniswa okusemthethweni?
- Kusho ukuthini umyeni ohlukanisile?
- Chaza umyeni ohlukanisile
- Umehluko phakathi 'kokuhlukaniswa' noma 'ukuhlukaniswa'?
- Ungahlukanisa kanjani umyeni ohlukanisile?
- Uyini umyeni ohlukanisile?
Imishado iwumsebenzi onzima, futhi kwesinye isikhathi, njengoba izinsuku ziphenduka izinyanga, ibahlukumeza labo abashadayo. Njengoba ukuphakama kokuqala kokuba sothandweni noma ukukhanga kwehla futhi uthuli luhlala, imibhangqwana eminingana iyabona ukuthi ayikaze ibe ngumdlalo omuhle, ukuqala. Kuyimanje impilo isithathile futhi babheka imithwalo yemfanelo yempilo nomsebenzi, ngokujwayelekile, lapho ukuqonda kugadla ngokuthi abakaze bahlangane ngalutho.
Ezimweni ezinjalo ngokuvamile, abantu bafaka idivosi. Kungenzeka ngenxa yokwehluka okungenakulungiswa noma yikuphi ukukhwabanisa; kodwa-ke, banquma ukuqeda ubudlelwano.
Uma icala lingenakunqunywa ngokuhlanganyela, futhi liya enkantolo, amajaji amaningi avame ukuphoqelela isikhathi sokuhlukana. Lesi sikhathi yisinyathelo esidingekayo sokuqinisekisa ukuthi umuzwa wenzondo awusiwo owesikhashana, futhi abashadikazi bazimisele ngokudivosa ngisho nangemva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha noma unyaka.
Kuyini ukuhlukaniswa okusemthethweni?
Ngesikhathi sokuhlukana ngokomthetho, lo mbhangqwana uhlala endaweni efanayo yokuhlala kepha unokuxhumana okuncane kakhulu noma omunye wabashadikazi uyaphuma, futhi ngamunye uphila impilo yakhe ehlukile.
Lokhu kwehlukana, ngandlela thile, kuqeda ngokusemthethweni umshado nganoma iyiphi indlela noma indlela. Lokhu kwehlukana kuqhubeka isikhathi esidingekayo (njengokuyalelwa yijaji eliphethe) ukuze abashadikazi baqinisekise ukuthi intukuthelo yabo noma intukuthelo yabo akuyona nje inkinga engokomzwelo noma edlula ngokushesha.
Ezifundazweni eziningana, ukwahlukaniswa ngokomthetho kuyabhekwa noma kwaziwa nangokuthi isehlukaniso esilinganiselwe. Lokhu akuyona into engahlelekile njengoba iqalwa yinkantolo yezomthetho bese kulandelwa abameli nenkantolo.
Ukwehlukaniswa ngokomthetho kufana nje nesikhathi esomile sesehlukaniso esivunyelwe ngokomthetho. Lapha abashadayo bathola ukunambitha kokuthi kunjani ukuhlala bodwa ngokuphelele, ngaphandle kosizo lomlingani wabo. Izikweletu zasekhaya zihlukene phakathi, ukuxhaswa komlingani kuyaxazululwa, futhi amashejuli okuvakasha ezingane ayaphothulwa.
Kusho ukuthini umyeni ohlukanisile?
Uyini umyeni ohlukanisile? Ukuchazwa komyeni okungaqondakali akunzima kangako ukukuthola. Ngokusho kwesichazamazwi sikaMerriam Webster, 'Indoda eyehlukanisiwe isho umuntu obengasabelani ngendawo yokuhlala nowakwakhe.'
Chaza umyeni ohlukanisile
Igama elihlukanisiwe liyisichasiso, esiphakamisa ukulahlekelwa uthando, noma ukuxhumana; indawo yokujika yohlobo. Leli gama lihlala linezincazelo ezingezinhle ezinamathiselwe kulo. Kusikisela ukuhlukaniswa phakathi kwabantu abathintekayo, ngokungazithandi noma obunye ubudlelwano obungokomzwelo.
Lokhu kuhlanganisa nokuthi ubudlelwano phakathi kwamaqembu ashiwo abugcinanga nje ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kodwa sebuphenduke ubutha.
Umehluko phakathi 'kokuhlukaniswa' noma 'ukuhlukaniswa'?
Njengoba kuchaziwe kwizichazamazwi eziningi, igama elihlukanisiwe igama elihambisanayo lokuhlukaniswa. Ngokubheka ukuthi womabili la magama ayizichasiso, umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwalawa amabili ukuthi, ukwahlukana kusho ukuthi 'uhlukanisiwe', kanti, ukuhlukaniswa kusho ukuthi 'umuntu owayekade ethathwa njengomngani omkhulu noma umndeni manje usephendukile.'
Ngokomthetho, laba ababili abacishe babe into efanayo.
Ukuhlukaniswa kusho ukungatholakali ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba.
Lapho umyeni ohlukanisile eyekile ukuba yingxenye yomndeni, akazi lutho oluhle noma olubi oluhamba endlini futhi olushiye umndeni wakhe uphakeme futhi womile ngokuphelele.
Ngokuphikisana nokuthi izithandani ezihlukene zingahlanganyela kanjani isikhathi esithile emibuthanweni yomndeni noma ukucosha noma ukushiya izingane endaweni yomunye nomunye.
Lokhu ngeke kuthathwe njengokuhlukaniswa ngokomthetho, noma kunjalo, lapho umbhangqwana kufanele ube nokuxhumana okuthe xaxa noma ngabe uyazi ngezindawo zokuhlala zomunye nomunye.
Ungahlukanisa kanjani umyeni ohlukanisile?
Ukuhlukaniswa ngokomzwelo ngokuvamile kuyisinyathelo sokuqala esahlukanisweni; Ukuhlukaniswa ngokomzimba kuza kamuva empilweni. Ukuhlukaniswa ngokomzimba, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kuyisinyathelo esidingekayo sokunikeza ubufakazi bokuthi ngeke kube khona ukubuyisana okuqhubekayo.
Uyini umyeni ohlukanisile?
Ngokwencazelo, igama elithi umyeni ohlukanisiwe lisho lapho umyeni esenyamalele ngokuphelele empilweni yomuntu. Manje uma enze kanjalo ngaphandle kokusayina amaphepha esahlukaniso, unkosikazi usengasithola isehlukaniso ngenkantolo; kodwa-ke, kuzoba khona ezinye izinkinga ezihambisana nayo.
Unkosikazi kuzodingeka anikeze ubufakazi enkantolo ukuthi usezame konke obekusemandleni akhe ukuzama ukuthola umyeni wakhe. Bazodinga ukufaka izikhangiso ephephandabeni lendawo, bathumele amaphepha esehlukaniso kumakheli okugcina aziwayo nekheli lasemsebenzini, bazame ukuxhumana nabangane noma umndeni walowo oshade naye noma babheke ezinkampanini zocingo noma ezincwadini zezingcingo.
Ngemuva kokuthi konke lokhu kushiwo futhi kwenziwe, inkantolo inika inani elithile lezinsuku ngemuva kwalokho isehlukaniso siphothulwe umyeni engekho.