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- 1. Cabanga ngengubo, noma hhayi ingubo!
- 2. Khetha izimbali enizithandayo nobabili
- 3. Faka uthingo noma ezimbili
- 4. Khetha indawo ekhuluma nezinhliziyo zenu zombili
- 5. Yenza uhlu lwezivakashi lube olwakho
- 6. Ikhekhe!
- 7. Cabanga ubucwebe bakho
- 8. Phrinta uNkk & Mrs endaweni ethile
Izinsimbi zomshado zisemoyeni. Uma kuwumshado wezithandani, kunamakoti amabili asezoshada. Omakoti ababili abanezizinda ezimbili ezihlukene ekuxubeni.
Lokho kusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukuletha ubuhlakani nobuntu bomlobokazi ngamunye emcimbini nasekwamukelweni. Njengoba umshado uyinyunyana phakathi kwalaba besifazane ababili, kufanele ubonise ukuthi bangobani ngomculo, ukuhlobisa, nokuzizwa kukonke.
Ukuhlelwa komshado wamaLesbian kuhilela ukuxhumana okuningi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umlingani ngamunye uzizwa ekhethekile ngosuku oluhle kakhulu lwempilo yakhe.
Nayi imibono ephezulu engu-8 yomshado oyingqayizivele futhi omuhle wesithandani:
1. Cabanga ngengubo, noma hhayi ingubo!
Umakoti ngamunye kufanele azizwe emuhle futhi enethezekile kunoma yini akhetha ukuyigqoka emshadweni wakhe. Eminye imibhangqwana engongqingili ingakhetha ukuthi bobabili abesifazane bagqoke ingubo, kepha akuyona imfuneko yanoma yimuphi umcabango. Mhlawumbe oyedwa noma bobabili bazizwa besekhaya kakhulu ngesudi cishe yawo wonke umbala. Khohlwa isiko bese uhamba nalokho kukwenza uzizwe WENA.
2. Khetha izimbali enizithandayo nobabili
Njengezithandani, kukuwe ukuthi uzisebenzisa kanjani emcimbini nasekwamukeleni. Mhlawumbe ungenza isixha sakho noma zombili izimbali zakho ngezimbali zakho ozithandayo, noma ungenza amalungiselelo ahlukene ematafuleni ngezintandokazi zakhe, bese wenza amanye amalungiselelo ngezintandokazi zakhe. Uma kukhulunywa ngezimbali, awukwazi ukulahlekelwa. Zizobukeka zihlukile futhi zihle kakhulu, noma ngabe kunjani.
3. Faka uthingo noma ezimbili
Lokhu kungenye yemibono yomshado yabesifazane abathandana nabobulili obufanayo ongayithola yonke indawo ukugubha ukulingana komshado. Ungafaka uthingo ekuhlobiseni okuphelele, ngaphakathi noma kwikhekhe lakho lomshado, okuphakathi kwetafula, izicathulo zakho, ingubo yentombazane, i-confetti, amabhaluni, noma enye indawo ongayicabanga. Noma ngabe kuyisitatimende esikhulu noma esincane, kuyakhombisa ukuthi uyaluthokozela uxhaso abanye abalunikeze ukwenza konke lokhu kwenzeke kuwe nakweminye imibhangqwana engongqingili.
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4. Khetha indawo ekhuluma nezinhliziyo zenu zombili
Uma eyizwe elincane, futhi eyi-punk encane, kungani ungashadi laba bobabili? Mhlawumbe ungathola indawo yezwe enesidina kancane, mhlawumbe e-winery. Cabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi bese uqhamuka nendawo enomoya othi "thandanani" nobabili.
5. Yenza uhlu lwezivakashi lube olwakho
Izikhathi eziningi, imibhangqwana kufanele ikhethe futhi izokhetha ukuthi izomema bani, ukuze iqiniseke ukuthi iyazifanela izihlalo ezabiwe emcimbini, futhi nokwenza usuku lube mnandi futhi lube nokuthula ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuhlala phansi ndawonye nixoxe ngomuntu ngamunye. Kwesinye isikhathi, uma abantu bengasekeli futhi bengezi noma kunjalo, basazophatheka kabi ngokungamenywa. Kukini nobabili ukuthi ufake umuntu ongenza izinto zingakhululeki, noma ongagcina ekumangaze futhi akhombise ukusekela ekugcineni. Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukukhuluma ngakho, futhi uma kudingeka, khuluma nomuntu omcabangelayo. Ekugcineni, usuku kufanele lube yisikhathi esijabulisayo, futhi nobabili enizobamema bazokwenza umehluko.
6. Ikhekhe!
Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, nobabili ningahlanganisa uthingo lwangaphakathi noma ngaphandle kwekhekhe lenu njengendlela yokubungaza umshado wobulili obufanayo. Noma ungavele uhlale phansi nomhlobisi wekhekhe bese ukhuluma ngalokho enikufunayo nobabili. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukunquma ngesisodwa, ngubani othi awukwazi ukuthola amakhekhe womshado amabili?
Enye inketho ukuba nokukhethwa kwamakhekhe amangalisayo. Kuphuma kuwe nalokho okuthandayo nezinto ozithandayo. Ngenkathi sikhuluma ngendaba yamaqebelengwane, kunabaphikisi bekhekhe abathandana nabaningi abakhona, ngakho-ke thola okulingana nezitayela zakho ezihlukile. Ungaze uye kokunye okuhlukile, njengezibalo ezimbili zobuciko noma izibalo zezilwane. Uma usengakwazi ukunquma, awukho umthetho othi kufanele ube nothayela nhlobo; noma vele usebenzise ama-initials noma izimbali zakho. Noma yini oyikhethayo izoba yinhle futhi ihluke ebuhlotsheni bakho.
7. Cabanga ubucwebe bakho
Nobabili niyizintokazi, ngakho-ke mhlawumbe nobabili nicabanga ukuthi yimiphi imigexo eningayigqoka emshadweni wenu? Uma kunjalo, ungakhombisa ubumbano lwenu bese nikhetha izingcezu ezifanayo noma ezincomanayo. Noma, ungabungaza ukuhluka kwakho bese ukhetha ubucwebe obukhetha ngamunye wakho. Ngisho nento encane futhi elula izoba yinhle.
8. Phrinta uNkk & Mrs endaweni ethile
Kungaba kuzimemo, ama-napkin, uphawu olungaphandle, noma konke okungenhla, kwenze kube semthethweni. Nobabili nizoba nguNkk. Ngakho-ke izivakashi zenu mazazi. Futhi, kuhle kakhulu. Kungenzeka ujwayele ukusebenzisa izihloko, akunjalo?