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Ukubeletha ingane mhlawumbe kungaba ngenye yezinto ezimangalisa kakhulu ukwenzeka kubantu abashadile. Ingane iyisipho sempilo, futhi yinto imibhangqwana eminingi efuna ukuyizwa lapho ekugcineni izinza. Vele, konke akuhlali kukhanya yilanga nothingo uma kukhulunywa ngokubeletha. Njengoba kunikezwe ubucayi besimo, ziningi izinto okufanele zingene lapho kucatshangelwa ukukhulelwa ingane. Lezi zinto, kufaka phakathi ukulimala kokubeletha, ukudla, indawo yokuhlala nezingubo, kungasiza ekucindezelekeni okuningi ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, noma ngemuva kokubeletha.
Ngeshwa, inqubo yokuzala uqobo akuyona ukuhamba epaki. Uma ningabantu abashadile, kungaba nzima kini nobabili ukuthola izindlela zokusondelana lapho unengane okufanele uyinakekele. Noma kunjalo, inqubo ayinakwenzeka. Eqinisweni, ingane ingasiza ekwenzeni umshado wakho uqine kakhulu kunakuqala, unikezwe uhlobo olufanele lokugqugquzela.
Ukubeletha yisimo esicindezelayo, kepha ngeke kuhlale kukucindezela kuze kube phakade. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukubona ukumamatheka kwengane kungafudumeza inhliziyo yanoma yimuphi umzali, futhi nengane ingasiza kakhulu ekwenzeni ubudlelwano bakho buthuthuke futhi bukhuliswe.
Nazi izindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza umshado wakho uqine ngemuva kwengcindezi yokubeletha.
Ingane uhambo olusha
Lapho unengane, cabanga ngakho njengokuqala kohambo olusha lokusiza umshado wakho ukhule futhi uthuthuke. Manje seningabazali, futhi nilethe isipho esikhulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni: impilo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi manje ususenqenqemeni lohambo olusha, futhi kuzoba kuhle kakhulu ukusuka lapha.
- Zama ukukhumbuzana njalo ukuthi kungani nithandana, nokuthi kungani ninqume ukuhlangana isikhathi eside kakhulu. Izincomo ziyasiza, ngisho nangemva kokubeletha, ngoba lokhu kunganikeza umlingani wakho idrayivu ayidingayo ukuze akhombise uthando olufanayo enganeni yakho.
- Zama ukulungela ukuthatha eyodwa yeqembu, ikakhulukazi uma uyindoda. Umkakho usanda kudlula ebunzimeni obunzima kakhulu, futhi kuzodingeka alulame ukuze athole amandla akhe. Njengobaba wosana olusanda kuzalwa, manje sekuwumsebenzi wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umkakho uthola ukuphumula akudingayo nengane yakho ithola ukunakekelwa okufanele.
- Njengoba ingane ikhula, hlala ukhumbuza umlingani wakho ukuthi ingane yakho isize kangakanani ekwenzeni ubudlelwano bakho buqine. Ukusiza ingane ikhule akuyona into elula, futhi kungenxa yemizamo yakho yomibili yokuthi ingane yakho izokhula ibe ingane encane kangaka, noma eyeve eshumini nambili, noma umuntu omdala omuhle. Zama ukungayikhohlwa le mizamo, futhi nibongane ngokuhlala ninemihlane yomunye nomunye.
Kungcono ngohlelo
Lesi seluleko sifika ekugcineni, ngoba lokhu kuthatha ukulungiselela. Uma wena nomlingani wakho ninquma ukuba nengane, kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukulungela okuzokwenzeka ngokulandelayo ukuze ubhekane nesimo kangcono. Akufanele kube uhlelo oluhle, kepha uhlelo olungakusiza okungenani ukuthi uzihambise endaweni efanele ngokuxineka kokubeletha engqondweni.
- Lapho uhlela ukukhulelwa ingane, zama ukubheka ukuthi unazo yini izindlela zokulungiselela ukufika kwengane. Ingabe unalo igumbi ekhaya elilungiselelwe ingane? Ngabe usuthathe isinqumo ngezinhlelo zokulala, futhi unazo yini izinto ezanele zokuxhasa okungenani izinyanga ezimbalwa noma unyaka wezimali zokudla, amanabukeni, nezinye izinto ezibalulekile?
- Zama ukubheka ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukwenza amalungiselelo emsebenzini ukuze uthole ilivu efanele yokubeletha noma yokubeletha. Ngaleyo ndlela, uzokwazi ukugxila kakhulu ekunakekeleni ingane yakho esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngokuthi lokhu kuzowuthinta kanjani umsebenzi lapho ingane isivele iqhubeka. Ukulungiselela lokhu kusenesikhathi kungasiza kakhulu isimo sakho.
- Uma unayo imali eseceleni, zama ukubuza abahlinzeki bomshuwalense ngengane yakho njengamanje futhi uqaphele amanani angaba khona. Uma ungakwazi ukuxhasa i-premium ngisho nezinye izindleko zakho engqondweni, ungahle uthande ukubonisana nochwepheshe wezezimali futhi ufune izeluleko uma kuyisinyathelo esihle sokwenza lokho.
- Akukubi ukubonisana nodokotela kuqala ngaphambi noma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ukuze uthole izeluleko ezithile eziqondaniswe nesimo sakho. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungaba nezindlela ezinamasu amaningi zokubhekana nengcindezi yokubeletha lapho ingane ifika ekugcineni.
Isiphetho
Isimangaliso sokubeletha yisinyathelo esisodwa nje ohambweni lwakho lwempilo yomshado. Ngeke kube lula, futhi ngeke njalo kuza nothingo nokukhanya kwelanga, kepha mhlawumbe kuzoba ngenye yezingxenye ezijabulisa kakhulu empilweni yakho yomshado.
Kodwa-ke, akukubi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwazi ukuthi ungalufuna nini usizo nokuthi uthole usizo lapho kudingeka. Uma wena nomlingani wakho nizizwa sengathi kunesidingo sokuthola usizo lochwepheshe, niyakhuthazwa ukuthi nibone isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo noma umelaphi ukuthola izindlela zokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokusiza umshado wakho ukhule ngemuva kwengcindezi yokubeletha. Kuhlala njalo kungcono ukuhlonyiswa ngezindlela namasu ongawasebenzisa ukusiza ukunakekela ubudlelwano bethu ukuze uthole induduzo enjabulweni yenkampani yomunye nomunye.