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- 1. Ukuwa komgwaqo wamahlamvu
- 2. Impelasonto yezintaba
- 3. Ukuhlala
- 4. Ukuhamba ngesikebhe
- 5. Idolobha laseNew York
- 6. Uhambo olwandle
- 7. Impelasonto yeWinery
- 8. INew England
Kukhona okuthile okwemvelo okuthandana ngokuwa. Amaqabunga agqamile, aguquguqukayo adweba okwasemuva okufudumele, kuyilapho isimo sezulu esibandayo sikugqugquzela ukuthi ubambisane nalowo omthandayo. Futhi, ngenxa yalezo zizathu kuphela, yisikhathi esifanelekile sokubalekela ngempelasonto (noma ngaphezulu) ubaleke nomunye wakho obalulekile.
Okubaluleke ngaphezu kothando ukukhula nokukhula ozohlangabezana nakho ngokuhamba ndawonye. Ukuhamba kungakukhombisa imibala yangempela yothando lwakho futhi kume njengokuhlolwa kwangempela kokuhambisana; uma benindawonye isikhashana, ukuhamba ngezinyawo kungakusiza ukuthi uphinde uxhume futhi uphinde usebenzise lelo langabi lapho nihlangana okokuqala emgwaqeni.
Vele, awukwazi ukuvuna noma yiziphi zalezo zinzuzo uze uthathe isinqumo sokuthi uyaphi emhlabeni. Ukwenza leyo nqubo ibe lula kancane, sihlanganise uhlu olulandelayo lwezindawo eziyisishiyagalombili ezilungele uhambo lwakho olulandelayo lwasekwindla.
1. Ukuwa komgwaqo wamahlamvu
Kuphephile ukusho ukuthi umsebenzi wokuwa owuthandayo wawo wonke umuntu ubheka indwangu yemvelo nephalethi eshintshashintshayo yemibala yokuwa. Amahlamvu aguquka asuka kokukhanyayo, okuluhlaza okunempilo abe yimibala ecebile yasekwindla: imaroni, iwolintshi lomlilo ne-goldenrod kupenda isithombe esisha ngokuphelele - nesisodwa esingakhathali ukusibona.
Ungasisebenzisa ngokugcwele lesi sibonisi esihle semvelo ngokungena emotweni yakho futhi uthole indawo eseduzane eyaziwa ngamahlamvu awo. Futhi, ngenkathi uhambo lwezithandani imvamisa kuyisizathu esikhulu sokuphuma ezindaweni zakho zokunethezeka, lokhu kudinga indawo yokulala ethokomele nebhulakufesi noma impahla yokuqasha ukwenza ulwazi olufudumele lwasekwindla luphelele. Bhuka eyodwa uma usuqedile lapho uya khona.
2. Impelasonto yezintaba
Ngendlela efanayo, ungenza iphuzu lokuya ngaphandle ngaphandle, ngoba, ingaphandle lihle ngokwengeziwe ekwindla. Uhambo oluya ebangeni elisentabeni eliseduze nawe ngempelasonto yokukhempa, ukwenza ama-s'more nokwengeza ngaphansi kwezinkanyezi kungaba yilokho udokotela akuyalile: ngeke nje ube nekamu lokuqhuma, kepha ukuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle kunempilo enempilo izinzuzo kufaka phakathi amandla akhulisiwe nokwehla kwezinga lokucindezeleka.
Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu emibhangqwaneni ezizwa sengathi ukucindezeleka kwehlisa yonke inyunyana yabo. Ingcindezi engaphandle ingadlala indima enanini lobunzima ebudlelwaneni bakho, ngakho-ke phumela ngaphandle ukuze unciphise.
3. Ukuhlala
Ukuhlala kubukelwa phansi ngokungathi sína, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngezothando. Kunezindlela ezimbili zokukwenza: ungangena ehhotela elisendaweni yakini noma ungene ekhaya. Ngemuva kwalokho, konke okumele ukwenze ukuchitha yonke impelasonto ndawonye.
Ungahlela imisebenzi eminingi noma embalwa njengoba uthanda. Ungadlala izivakashi edolobheni lakho, uye e-spa yendawo noma uthenge zonke izithako zokupheka ukudla okumnandi ekhaya ngenkathi uhlangana lapho kukhona omunye nomunye; akukhathaleki ukuthi ukwenze kanjani, uzoyithanda i-vibe ephumuzayo nesikhathi sodwana esinikezwa ukuhlala.
Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani, ngisho nokushintsha inqubo yakho yasebusuku yasebusuku ngokuhlala kuzokusiza uhlanganise izinto futhi uphume esimisweni, okungenye inzuzo enhle yokuhamba ngababili.
4. Ukuhamba ngesikebhe
Eceleni okuphambene nobubanzi obuvela endaweni yokuhlala kuyisikebhe. Amaholide okuhamba ngesikebhe ngokuvamile adinga okungaphezu kwempelasonto - noma izinsuku ezimbalwa - kepha futhi akutotosa ngokuzijabulisa okubandakanya konke, ukudla, iziphuzo nokubuka indawo kusukela ekunethezeka komkhumbi kanokusho. Ukulondolozela ukuhamba ngesikebhe kuyindlela enhle yokuba wena nomunye wakho obalulekile nisebenzele ukufinyelela umgomo ofanayo futhi nivune umvuzo - uthando ngumvuzo omkhulu, kunjalo, kepha kunjalo neholide lokunethezeka.
Ngaphandle kwezisekelo, kunezindlela eziningi iholide lokuhamba ngomkhumbi elingaba yothando. Kokunye, kufanele ucwaninge ngokucophelela umkhumbi okuwo ukuze uthole owodwa omncane futhi osondelene kakhulu, kunokuba ube mkhulu kakhulu futhi ube maphakathi nephathi. Bheka emadolobheni asechwebeni nasezinketho zokudlela, futhi, ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ungahlela izinkambo ezizimele nokudla kwamakhandlela ukuze wena nomunye wakho obalulekile nikujabulele.
5. Idolobha laseNew York
Idolobha elingalali likhanga ngokukhethekile ekwindla. Asisekho amazinga okushisa aphakeme nanciphisayo ehlobo; futhi, uhambo lwasekwindla luzokusiza ukuthi ugweme ukubanda, isimo sezulu sasebusika esineqhwa, futhi.
Ukuzulazula phakathi kwamaqabunga aguqukayo eCentral Park kuzobeka isimo sengqondo ngempelasonto yakho yokuwa eNew York. Ngemuva kwalokho, hlanganyela emisebenzini yasendlini ehamba phambili kakhulu: Imibukiso ye-Broadway, izindawo zokudlela ezinhle, ukuthenga, iminyuziyamu nemidlalo yezemidlalo konke kukulindile lapho ubalekela i-NYC. Njengoba kuningi okumele ukwenze, uhambo oluya eNew York luzofundisa wena nomunye wakho obalulekile ukuthi niyekethise ukuze nenze uhambo olufanelana nobabili, okuyisifundo esihle okufanele nisifunde.
6. Uhambo olwandle
Ihlobo impela isikhathi esithandwayo sokungena olwandle, yingakho ukuwa kuyisikhathi esikahle sokubalekela othandweni lolwandle. Okokuqala, amadolobha amaningi asebhishi awanalutho ngesikhathi sokuwa okuzungezile, okusho ukuthi uzoba nobumfihlo obuningi, ukuthula nokuthula ohambweni lwakho. Yindawo enhle ongaya kuyo uma uzizwa umatasa noma unqamukile othandweni lwakho - ngokuphazamiseka okuncane, uzovuselela ilangabi kalula.
Ukuhamba ngamandla olwandle ngothando lwakho kuzohlala kuqala usuku lwakho ngonyawo lwesokudla, noma ngabe usogwini kushisa ehlobo noma maphakathi nekwindla. Chitha izinsuku zakho uyothenga kuma-boutique asezitolo nasezitolo zakudala, ubuke izindawo zokulondoloza imvelo namapaki, ukhuphuke izibani ... ngeke yenza uma ubumatasa kakhulu ulele elangeni lasehlobo.
7. Impelasonto yeWinery
Ukuqhekeka uvule ibhodlela lewayini bese ulihlanganyela nabanye bakho abathandanayo kuyizithandani kukodwa. Kodwa ukwenza kanjalo nge-winery ebabazekayo njengoba okwasemuva kwakho - futhi ukwenza njalo ngempelasonto yonke - kuzokwenza ukuba ubaleke ngokungakhohlakali ekwindla nangaphezulu.
Ungakhetha ukuvakasha kwezothando ngeSonoma neNapa, mhlawumbe izwe lewayini elaziwa kakhulu e-United States. Noma, thola enye indawo ye-winery-centric, bhukha ihhotela, hlela ukuhamba kwakho kwe-winery bese ulungela ukucofa ingilazi yakho. Lesi kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokumangala ukukhombisa ukuthi unaka njalo lokho okushiwo uthando lwakho nalokho akwenzayo: khetha ama-winery asebenzela okuthululela intandokazi yakhe ukuze baphuze ngokujabula impelasonto yonke.
8. INew England
Ekugcineni, uma kunendawo eyodwa eyaziwa njengendawo efanelekile yokuwa, yiNew England. Kusukela emadolobheni amahle asogwini, emapaki kazwelonke aluhlaza, kuya emadolobheni amakhulu we-Halloween lapho abathakathi bake baqala khona ukuqulwa kwecala, ungagcwalisa isonto lonke ngezinto ongazilibale eNyakatho-mpumalanga. Indlela enhle yokukubona konke ukundiza ungene uphume eBoston, uqashe imoto bese wehla wehla nogu ukuze ubone yonke into esezingeni eliphakeme, yomlando, ngaphandle nangothando endleleni.
Ukushayela ndawonye ngaso sonke isikhathi kuyisibopho esihle kakhulu - noma isipiliyoni sokufunda, ngakho-ke uhambo lomgwaqo kufanele lube kuhlu lwezinto ezizokwenziwa yilowo nalowo mbhangqwana, ikakhulukazi uma uhlala ngaphandle kwemoto ngokujwayelekile. Ngabe uthando lwakho lunemikhuba yangemuva kwesondo noma imithetho yomgwaqo okufanele uyazi ngayo? Thola ngenkathi usesikhundleni sakho esilandelayo.
Ukubalekela kwakho kuzokusa kuphi? Lezi yizindawo eziyisishiyagalombili kuphela kweziningi, eziningi ongaya kuzo. Izindaba ezimnandi kunakho konke ukuthi noma ngabe uzophetha ngokuya kuphi, ungaqiniseka ukuthi kuzoba yilokho okufunayo: Isikhathi esisodwa ukugxila kulowo omthandayo futhi nenze izinkumbulo ndawonye ezizohlala impilo yonke.
Kacey
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