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- Amandla amasha
- Isibonakaliso sethu
- Impilo ingaba ngcono kakhulu kunakuqala
- Ukuthola ibhalansi
- Chaza kabusha isikhathi sekhwalithi
- Khulumisanani
- Isipho somndeni
Ukuxhumana okukhethekile kuyenziwa phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho lapho uqala ukubona, ‘Sikwenzile lokhu, lesi simangaliso esincane silapha ngenxa yethu futhi siyingxenye yethu sobabili.'Ukubuka ingane yakho okokuqala kukhathaza, ngaleso sikhathi uzizwa unenjabulo enkulu nokwesaba. Kepha lokhu kuhlangana okujabulisayo kwemizwelo kuyaphela ngokushesha futhi isethi entsha ingena esikhundleni sazo njengoba ungena endaweni engashintshiwe ye ... Parenthood.
Ngezinsuku okwakucatshangwa ukuthi ziphelele 'kini nobabili kuphela', kwakukhona okuguqukayo okwenzekile: Nobabili niyavumelana, nobabili anivumelananga futhi nathola ukuvumelana noma omunye wenu wanikela komunye. Wajwayela leli lungiselelo futhi wathola indlela yokulenza lisebenze futhi lijabule.
Amandla amasha
Manje, ngokuzumayo uzithola ungaphansi kwezimo ezintsha ngesethi entsha yokukhetha okufanele kwenziwe. Izinto ezishintshayo ebezikhona sezadlula futhi konke kuyadida futhi uzizwe sengathi usemhlabathini ongantengantengi. Kunomuntu wesithathu othintekayo futhi yize engenawo ngisho umbono okwamanje, kusobala ukuthi kuthinta zonke izinqumo ozenzayo. Konke kumayelana kubo. Izinketho azisalula kangako.
Siqala ukucabanga ukuthi lo muntu omncane uthathe okuthile kithi: inkululeko yethu. Sikholwa ukuthi inkululeko yethu yokuzikhethela, inkululeko yesikhathi, nenkululeko yokucabanga, konke kususiwe. O, siwubuwula kanjani! Asikuboni okulungile phambi kwethu.
Isibonakaliso sethu
Sisola izinto ezingalungile. Izingane aziyona inkinga futhi azibanga inkinga. Iqiniso elibuhlungu ukuthi inkinga ihlale ikhona; izingane zethu zavele zaphakamisa isibuko futhi zabonisa lokho okwakungaphakathi kwethu sonke lesi sikhathi. Izingane zisikhombisa ukushiyeka kwethu, ebesinqabile ukukwamukela ngaphambilini, noma mhlawumbe besingazi nokuthi kukhona. Bakhipha okubi kakhulu kithi, okuyisipho nesibusiso abantu abaningi abasithatha kalula, basishaye indiva, noma basilahle ngokuphelele ngokungazi kwabo.
Ukukhula kungavuthwa futhi kube nobugovu. Kepha ungasho ukuthi empeleni bezingekho izinkinga ezinkulu ngaphambi kwezingane zakho. Mina nomlingani wami besenza kahle. ” Ah, kulula kakhulu ukuhlala emhlabeni lapho singekho inselelo! Sincamela ukuhlala ezweni lapho izingqinamba ezisekujuleni kwezinhliziyo zethu zihlala zingathintwa.
Impilo ingaba ngcono kakhulu kunakuqala
Impilo nezingane ingaba NGCONO kunakuqala. Iqiniso elimangalisayo ukuthi akukho lutho oluthathiwe kuwe, okuphambene nalokho; uzuze okuthile abanye ngaphandle kwezingane abangazi lutho ngakho. Uthole ukuqonda ngobuyena bakho beqiniso futhi uma nobabili nihlangabezana nenselelo yokukhula nokushintsha ngempilo, kuzonithatha nizise ezingeni elimangalisayo lokuxhuma nokujula obungeke wazi ukuthi kukhona.
Shintsha umbono wakho, uhambe nokuhamba, futhi wamukele ukuthi izinto sezishintshile. Funda ukuthanda impilo njengoba injalo bese uqala ukwamukela le adventure entsha. Ungabambeki ucabanga ukuthi impilo ibingcono kakhulu ngaphambi. Cha, impilo enhle kakhulu isazoza uma uphila kahle.
Ukuthola ibhalansi
Ukulinganisela kuyisihluthulelo, ibhalansi ye- izibopho zabazali namalungelo, nokulinganisela ku ubuhlobo nomlingani wakho futhi nawe. Aniseyona nje imibhangqwana futhi impilo yenu ayisakwazi ukuba nobabili nobabili futhi akumele ibe mayelana nengane yakho kuphela. Ukuthola ibhalansi efanelekile kungaba yinkohliso kepha kubalulekile ukuthi ulungise futhi ufunde ukujabulela zombili izindima zakho futhi ube neqiniso kuwena futhi.
Chaza kabusha isikhathi sekhwalithi
Ukuthola isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye kungaba yinselele kepha ungasebenzisa leyo nselele ukwenza khulisa ubumnandi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Yilezo zikhathi ezincane ezisho lukhulu manje. Akuzona izinsuku ezinde, ezingamavila olwandle ezigxile kuphela komunye nomunye ezibalulekile manje. Manje, kuyadlula komunye nomunye ephaseji futhi kujabulela iqiniso lokuthi niqubuzane omunye komunye. Kube wink ngapha kwekamelo eligcwele okuvumela ngamunye wenu azi ukuthi uyacabangana.
Khulumisanani
Khulumani, nikhulume, nibe neqiniso futhi ningahlulelani. Yabelana ngokukhathazeka kwakho futhi ungabi nokhahlo, kepha esikhundleni salokho, thethelela. Wonke umuntu usabela ngokuhlukile empilweni futhi ukusiza omunye nomunye ngezinto kunokuvumela ukufutheka nentukuthelo umehluko phakathi 'kwenze noma uyiqhekeze'. Isithiyo ngasinye owela kuso nokunqoba ngakunye ndawonye, siletha ukuhloniphana nokuxhumana okunamandla.
Isipho somndeni
Ungangeni ogibeni lokucabanga ukuthi izingane zenza ubuhlobo bakho bube nzima. Kuyinselele, yebo, kepha izinto eziningi ziyinselelo ebudlelwaneni. Lokho akulona iphuzu. Iqiniso ukuthi ukhetha ukubhekana nezinselelo noma cha bese uzivumela ukuthi zikusize ukhule futhi ushintshe nomlingani wakho, noma ulwe nempilo ugcine ungedwa. Unesipho esikhethekile manje. Nobathathu niwumndeni ndawonye. Ukuba ngumndeni kungakuchaza kabusha. Kungakwenza ube yinguqulo engcono yakho. Konke kulele kuwe.
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