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- Ngubani okufanele aphathe lo mcimbi?
- Ubani okufanele umumeme?
- Kufanele uyisingathe kuphi?
- Yini okufanele ugqoke?
- Ingabe kufanele uzibhalele izifungo zakho?
- Ingabe kufanele uthole izindandatho ezintsha?
- Ngubani ophethe umkhosi?
Kufika isikhathi kuyo yonke imishado lapho ezothando ezithile zihleleke ngokuphelele.
Ungahle uthande ukuvuselela izifungo zakho minyaka yonke - noma wenze njalo eminyakeni eyishumi. Kungakhathalekile ukuthi sesidlulile isikhathi selokhu naqala ukuthi “ngiyakwenza” komunye nomunye, ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso kungaba yithuba elihle lokuhlanganisa abangani bakho nomndeni wakho futhi niphinde nibuye nibuye nibuye nibuye nibuye nibuye nibuye nibuye nifunde ngalolo suku olukhethekile. Kodwa-ke, ayikho impendulo eqondile embuzweni wokuthi izivuselelwa nini.
Uma ucabanga ukuvuselela izifungo zakho, kepha ungakaqiniseki ngemininingwane, funda umhlahlandlela wethu ekwenzeni ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso sakho kukhetheke njengosuku lwakho lomshado.
Futhi Buka:
Ngubani okufanele aphathe lo mcimbi?
Njengoba ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso kungaphansi “kokuhleleka” ukwedlula imishado, ungazivumelanisa nezintandokazi zakho ngendlela ongathanda ngayo.
Lapho uvuselela izifungo zakho, ababungazi bakho bangaba izingane zakho uma bebadala ngokwanele futhi bangathanda ukubhekana nenselelo; abazali bakho, uma usanda kushada futhi bangathanda ukufaka izwi labo ekugubheni ubuhlobo bakho; indoda yakho enhle kunazo zonke nentombazane ehloniphekile, uma beqhume okokuqala ngqa; noma omunye umngani noma ilungu lomndeni ongathanda ukulifaka osukwini lwakho olukhethekile.
Ubani okufanele umumeme?
Eminye imibhangqwana ikhetha ukusingatha umcimbi wokuvuselela osondelene, ikakhulukazi uma benomshado omkhulu.
Lokhu kubanikeza isikhathi nendawo yokugxila komunye nomunye nasezihambeleni zabo eziseduze kakhulu, ngokungafani nokuhlangana nawo wonke umuntu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, labo abake baba nemishado emincane bathanda ukuyithatha inothi futhi babambe i-soirée enkulu yokuvuselela, ikakhulukazi uma bengakwazi ukukhokhela umshado omkhulu abebefuna ngaleso sikhathi. Ungangeza izimemo zokuvuselela izifungo zomshado ngokwentando yakho.
Ukukhetha kukuwe ngokuphelele: cabanga izindleko, bese uhlela uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi ngokufanele.
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Kufanele uyisingathe kuphi?
Indawo yokukhonzela, ibhishi, indawo yokudlela - ungakhetha noma iyiphi indawo yokuvuselela izifungo zakho ongazithanda (ezingena kubhajethi yakho, kunjalo).
Ungakhetha ukunanela umoya womshado wakho bese uwubamba endaweni efanayo noma efanayo, ugcine isihloko sokuqala.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, manje usungakha umshado ongakaze ube nawo bese ufaka zonke lezo zinto ozixoshe okokuqala ngqa.
Qiniseka ukuthi itimu oya kuyo nendawo okhetha kuyo ikhuluma ngobani osube njengabashadikazi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, usuku lumayelana nokugubha ubudlelwano bakho, futhi indawo nesimo senhliziyo kufanele kukukhombise lokho.
Uma isimo sezulu sikuvumela, ungakhiphela umshado wakho ngaphandle, futhi ujabulele usuku elangeni nezivakashi zakho kanye nomunye nomunye.
Qiniseka ukuthi ufaka nomthwebuli wezithombe osukwini lwakho olukhethekile - ngenkathi lo kungewona umshado wangempela, usafuna ukuba nezithombe eziningi ongazihlela.
Yini okufanele ugqoke?
Impendulo elula kuzoba ingubo yakho yomshado yokuqala kanye nesudi.
Uma zingalingani kahle, ungathola indlela yokuzisebenzisela ingubo entsha. Namathela kuthayi wokuqala ngesudi entsha, sebenzisa ezinye zezinto zokuqala ukudala ingubo entsha, njll.
Vele, ungaya emhlanganweni omusha ngokuphelele, kepha qiniseka ukuthi ugqokela umcimbi okhethekile wokuvuselela izifungo zakho.
Akudingeki ukuthi ihleleke njengakuqala, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ugqoka le ngubo okokuqala ngosuku, ngokungafani nokufinyelela ingubo osuyigqokile kwesinye isikhathi.
Ingabe kufanele uzibhalele izifungo zakho?
Ngenkathi imishado ingafika nezifungo ezibhalwe ngaphambilini, imikhosi yokuvuselela ayenzi, futhi leli yithuba lakho lokubeka ephepheni eminye yemizwa yakho.
Yize kungaba nzima kakhulu ukubhala izifungo zakho, khumbula ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi zihleleke futhi zibucayi uma kukhulunywa ngokuvuselela izifungo zakho.
Bangaba nezinhliziyo ezilula futhi babe yiziphukuphuku, inqobo nje uma betshela umlingani wakho kanye nomhlaba ukuthi nijabule kangakanani ukuba nabo ngalolu suku.
Cabanga ngazo zonke izinto ezenza umshado wakho ukhetheke, bese ubhala ngazo - into elula njengokubonga umlingani wakho ngokwenza inkomishi enhle kakhulu kashokolethi oshisayo ekuseni ngoKhisimusi kungaba ukuthinta okusondele kakhulu nobuntu bakho.
Ingabe kufanele uthole izindandatho ezintsha?
Umkhosi wokuvuselela izifungo zakho uqobo uzodinga ukuthi nishintshane ngezindandatho futhi.
Lawa kungaba ngamabhendi akho woqobo, mhlawumbe ngokuqoshwa okungeziwe ukumaka umkhosi wakho wokuvuselela, noma ungangeza ibhendi entsha esitaki sakho sokuqala uma ufuna.
Ukukhethwa kwezindandatho zokuvuselela isithembiso kukuwe ngokuphelele.
Ngubani ophethe umkhosi?
Njengoba ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso kungabophi ngokomthetho, noma ngubani angasebenza ngesikhathi somkhosi.
Ungakhetha isikhonzi sakho noma umpristi; kungaba urabi wakho noma othile ovela ehhovisi lokubhalisa lasendaweni, kepha futhi kungaba ngumngani noma ilunga lomndeni elinomthelela emshadweni wakho futhi ongathanda ukumfaka emkhosini wokuvuselela izifungo zakho.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubhala iskripthi sakho, ungathatha lesi sikhathi ukwenza ngokwezifiso isipiliyoni ngendlela ongathanda ngayo, futhi usenze sibe ngesakho ngokuphelele.
Lokho kuphendula futhi umbuzo, ukuthi ungazivuselela kanjani izifungo.
Ukuvuselelwa kwesithembiso somshado kungaba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokwabelana ngothando lwakho nabangani nomndeni, ukubutha wonke umuntu omthandayo, futhi nibe nosuku oluhle ndawonye.
Imininingwane yalo mcimbi ixhomeke kuwe ngokuphelele, futhi ungayenza ihleleke noma ikhululeke ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Khumbula ukuyenza ibe ngeyakho futhi iqonde ngqo ebudlelwaneni bakho, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: jabulela usuku nothando eninalo ngomunye nomunye.