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- 1. Ulwazi luyisikhali esinamandla
- 2. Ukuthi kanjani, nini futhi ngani kukho konke
- 3. Ucwaningo lunomhlane wakho
- 4. Impindiselo nokuziphindiselela
- 5. Ungayifaki ejwayelekile
- 6. Yigcine imfishane
- 7. Cisha le mibuzo
- 8. Gcina ukugeleza kuqhubeka
- 9. Yazi okufanele ukubuze
- 10. Imfihlakalo ingamandla
- 11. Omfushane futhi opholile
- 12. Ungazivikeli amafulegi abomvu
- 13. Ukuhlolwa kwamaqiniso kufanele
Izwe lokuphola online liyadida, liyajabulisa, liyathokozisa futhi linonya.
Ngelinye ilanga uthandana nothile ngenjabulo, uthumela imiyalezo usuku lonke futhi uhlela izingubo ezinhle zokuvakasha. Futhi ngokungazelelwe, futhi ngaphandle kwesixwayiso, umlingani wakho ubonakala enyamalala.
Azikho izingcingo, imibhalo noma ama-DM.
Ngenkathi lokho kungenzeka ngenxa yesimo esiphuthumayo kepha amathuba akhona, uke wangeniswa umoya. Sekuyisikhathi sokuba isipoki kube yiso esizophela; nayi inkomba yenkambu yokuthi ungakugwema kanjani ukuba nesipoki kuTinder.
1. Ulwazi luyisikhali esinamandla
Labo abanqikaza ukwakha noma ukugwema ngokuphelele okunamathiselwe kwabanye, imvamisa okubangelwa ukwenqatshwa ngabazali, abanqeni ukusondela kakhulu kunoma ngubani omunye ngenxa yezinkinga zokuthembela nezokuncika.
Bavame ukusebenzisa izindlela ezingaqondile zokuqeda ubuhlobo. I-Ghosting yindlela elula yokubaleka kunokubhekana nokuphikisana.
2. Ukuthi kanjani, nini futhi ngani kukho konke
Kungani umuntu angakhetha ukumane anyamalale empilweni yomunye umuntu, kunokuxhumana ukuze aqede ubudlelwano?
Iqiniso liwukuthi, awusoze wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kungani uthole umoya. Isipoki sande kangakanani, abantu basibona kanjani, futhi ngubani othambekele kakhudlwana ukukwenza?
3. Ucwaningo lunomhlane wakho
Olunye ucwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi abantu asebeke bavukwa umoya ngokwabo bavame ukuqeda ubudlelwano ngokungenisa izipoki.
Olunye ucwaningo luthole ukuthi abantu abakholelwa ekudalelweni, abacabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano kuhloswe ukuthi bube yibo noma cha, maningi amathuba okuthola umoya wamukelekile kunabantu abakholelwa ukuthi ubudlelwano buthatha ukubekezela nokusebenza.
4. Impindiselo nokuziphindiselela
Isipoki sazi kahle ngokungazelelwe nokungaqondakali kokuthwebula izipoki.
Bayayiqonda indlela okushiya ngayo indawo yokuxoxisana noma yokuhambisa imibono. Yize kunjalo, abazwelani nomuntu abamgwebayo. Ukuziphatha komoya akuhileli umuzwa wecala ngabo.
Isiphetho; usesho lwangemuva nokuthwebula imithombo yezokuxhumana kuzokusiza ukuthi ugweme ukukhunjuzwa.
5. Ungayifaki ejwayelekile
Abanye abantu badelelekile emcabangweni wokuthwebula izipoki futhi abanakho ukungabaza ngokuthena umuntu abake bathandana naye.
Iqiniso lokuthi sikunikeze indlela yokungenisa umoya, sayivumela futhi sayimisa ngokulungile akulungile futhi kufanele umane ukuvale lokho kuziphatha.
6. Yigcine imfishane
Impilo ihamba ngokushesha kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola, futhi kufanele usike ekujaheni.
Ukugwema ukunikezwa umoya kuTinder, gwema ukukhuluma ngaphambi kwesikhathi okuningi. Esikhundleni salokho, hamba ngqo ikhofi, isidlo sakusihlwa noma iziphuzo mathupha.
Uma uxoxa nge-IRL (empilweni yangempela), ungatshela ukuthi unamakhemikhali noma uxhumano noma uzizwa ukhanga, into engachazeki kangako kuselula yakho.
7. Cisha le mibuzo
Masithembeke ngokuphelele, ukuphola online kungahle kube nzima. Kungaba yinselele ukuthola ukuhambisana nosuku olungaba khona.
Ukubuza imibuzo efanele ezokwakha kuzosiza.
Uma wake wabuza ukuthi hlobo luni lwezinto ongazisho kuBumble noma kuTinder ukugcina ingxoxo igeleza, nansi inkomba.
8. Gcina ukugeleza kuqhubeka
Uma uthumela umlayezo kuzinhlelo zokusebenza, phendula ngemibuzo ukuze uqhubeke. Abantu ngokwemvelo abakuthandi ukushiya izinto zingaphenduliwe, ngakho-ke ukubheja kwakho okuphephe kakhulu engxoxweni ehehayo engeke yehle kufanele ukwazi.
Ukubuza imibuzo kumdlalo wakho weTinder kuyasiza. Ungachofoza ngokwanele ukuhlangana nalowo muntu noma uzofika esinqumweni sokungahlangani nhlobo nalo muntu.
9. Yazi okufanele ukubuze
Ingabe kufanele ubuze ngokuqinile umuntu ongamazi nhlobo? Cha, akuyona neze indlela yokuziphatha engcono ongayilandela.
Kungaba umqondo ongcono ukubuza umdlalo wakho weTinder mayelana nokuthi yini abayibukayo kuNetflix, uhlobo oluthandwa kakhulu lwama-movie, futhi uma bekuthumela okuthile okuthakazelisayo, buza imibuzo embalwa elandelayo ngakho.
10. Imfihlakalo ingamandla
Musa ukuveza konke ezingxoxweni zakho.
Divula imininingwane ngomqondo wokuqonda, ukuze umuntu omthumelayo athumele imfihlakalo okuzungezile, futhi afune ukukucela futhi akwazi kangcono.
Ukubhomba umuntu ngemilayezo kukhombisa ukuthi unesikhathi esanele ezandleni zakho nokuthi uzimisele ukusinika umuntu ongamazi ophelele noma oyisihlobo. Lokhu kuguqulela kubo bekholelwa ukuthi awunampilo!
Futhi akushiyi isikhala sokukhula noma ukuthola okuningi ngawe lapho uhlangana mathupha. Yigcine imfishane ukuze uvikele ukuthi kunesipoki.
11. Omfushane futhi opholile
Ukugcina izinto zimfushane futhi zimnandi kuyisihluthulelo sokugwema ukwenziwa isipoki kuTinder.
Ungatholakali kakhulu. Noma ngabe ungumlingisi wangaphambili waseshashalazini ongudokotela ohlinzayo wamazinyo, ukutholakala kakhulu kuthumela umyalezo ongakhangi.
Zibambezele amahora ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba uphendule ku-inthanethi, futhi ugweme okuningi ukuya emuva nosuku olulodwa.
12. Ungazivikeli amafulegi abomvu
Futhi, uma engasethi usuku ngemuva kwezinsuku ezine zokuthumela imiyalezo, yeka ukuchitha isikhathi sakho. Awudingi ukubhala umfana i-eseyi kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuphola ukuze unake.
Lesi seluleko sibalulekile uma kubonakala sengathi uhoxile noma uyinduku.
13. Ukuhlolwa kwamaqiniso kufanele
Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo lokugwema maningi amathuba okuthi basebenzise izipoki ukuqala ukuhlukana.
Kungaba wumqondo omuhle ukuba nenethiwekhi yokuxhumana yomphakathi efanayo ikubophele kumlingani wakho, ngoba kungaba lula kakhulu ukumane unyamalale futhi ungaphenduliswa, lapho kungekho noyedwa.
Ukuthenjiswa usuku / umlingani, nokufaka umuntu othile isipoki sekuyinsakavukela.
Kwabanye, kwamukelekile ukuphefumula ngemuva nje kosuku, kanti abanye bakuthola kukuhle impela ukuphefumula abathandana nabo besikhathi eside bethandana, ukuqeda ubudlelwano, kususwe umthwalo wokuxabana.
Ezweni lapho isizukulwane silahlekelwe khona ukuzwelana, ukuphefumula kungagwenywa ngalezi zeluleko ezilula.