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- Khuluma, lalela futhi wamukele
- Kuthatha isigodi
- Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume nabangane bayo
- Ukuya phambili
Lapho wena nomlingani wakho seninqume ukuhlukana, kusobala ukuthi yisikhathi semizwa ephakeme nemizwa eyinkimbinkimbi yawo wonke umuntu obandakanyekayo.
Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kunoma iziphi izingane ezivela kubambiswano noma emshadweni, ezizodinga ukusizwa ngale nqubo ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba.
Uma uzithola uphequlula usizo ngokuhlukana kwabazali futhi usize ingane yakho ukuthi ikwazi ukubhekana nakho, ungabe usaya phambili.
Izingane ezisakhula ikakhulukazi zisesikhathini sempilo lapho zihlangabezana khona nezinguquko ezinkulu futhi sekufanele zibhekane nemizwa nezinkinga ezikhulayo.
Intsha ijwayele ukudlula ezinhlotsheni eziningi zemizwa lapho ibhekene nezinkinga ezinzima.
Kungaba yinto ejwayelekile ngokwedlulele ukuthi imizwa yabo iguquke kakhulu kusuka osukwini olulodwa kuye kolandelayo, noma kaningi esikhaleni samahora angama-24 kuphela.
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukhuluma nezingane ngokwehlukana
Khuluma, lalela futhi wamukele
Ukukhuluma imvamisa kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokwelashwa nokufaka imizwa emabhodleleni kungaholela ekukhathazekeni okukhulayo nasekuziphatheni okulimazayo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngokuhlukana nesehlukaniso kubandakanya izinselelo eziningi.
Ungahle ungafuni ukukhuluma ngalokho okubona njengesigaba esibuhlungu kakhulu empilweni yakho, kepha izingane zakho kuzodingeka zazi ukuthi kwenzekani, zingena kuphi futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi nobabili nisabathanda futhi ukwahlukana akukhona okwabo iphutha.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi izingane ezindala zizobe seliliqondile leli qiniso, kepha isidingo sabo sokuqinisekiswa sizoba namandla kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi sokugeleza.
Balalele bese uzama ukungakwahluleli abakushoyo, noma ugxumele ekuzivikeleni kwakho ngokushesha okukhulu.
Yigcine ilula, vumela babuze imibuzo futhi bangenzi izethembiso ongahle ukwazi ukuzigcina. Vuma ukuthi bazoba nemizwa okungahle kube nzima ukubhekana nayo, engaqondiswa kuwe ngqo, njengolaka, ukwesaba noma ukudabuka.
Ungasoli umlingani wakho ngokuhlukana noma wenze ingane yakho izizwe inecala lokuthi isabathanda.
Njengoba intsha isiya ebudaleni, kuzodingeka ukuthi igcine ubudlelwane bayo nezinhlangothi zombili ezihlukanisayo futhi kuzoba nempilo enhle kakhulu uma labo budlelwano bungahlala buhle.
Kuthatha isigodi
Njengoba wonke umuntu edinga ukwesekwa ngabanye abantu lapho ekhulisa izingane zakhe ngezikhathi ezithile, kanjalo nabanye abantu bangayinciphisa kakhulu inqubo yokwahlukana nesehlukaniso nokubhekana nengane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili.
Ogogo nomkhulu, obabekazi, omalume kanye nabazala banganikeza ukuzinza okudingeka kakhulu kanye nomqondo wokuthi umndeni usazoqhubeka, noma ngabe kunezindawo zokuhlala ezihluke kancane zamalungu awo amabili noma ngaphezulu.
Bacele ukuthi bakhiphe ingane yakho yosuku ukuze ibasize babalekele izingxabano ekhaya futhi babanikeze isikhala sokucubungula imizwa yabo ngenkathi benza okuthile okujabulisayo.
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume nabangane bayo
Abaningi bazobe sebedlulile, noma bedlula esimeni esifanayo emindenini yabo futhi banganikeza imininingwane ebalulekile, ukusekelwa kanye nethuba lokuphumula kanye nokuzipholela ndawonye.
Khuluma nasesikoleni noma ekolishi futhi, ngoba bazothokozela ukwazi izizathu zanoma yiziphi izinguquko ekuziphatheni, esimeni senhliziyo noma kwesisusa.
Bangase futhi bakwazi ukunikeza ukufinyelela kumeluleki noma ukusekelwa kobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nemizwelo eyinkimbinkimbi ehilelekile. Noma, ezingeni elisebenzayo, nikeza abafundi abathintekile isikhathi esengeziwe sezabelo, umsebenzi wesikole njll.
Ukuya phambili
Intsha ivame ukuba nezimpilo zenhlalo eziyinkimbinkimbi, futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi yize impilo yakho ingahle iguquke kakhulu, iningi labo lizohlala linjalo, uma kukhulunywa ngesikole, ubungani, izifiso zomsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa nokunye.
Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi ufaka lokhu kunoma iziphi izinhlelo eziseduze nokufinyelela, amaholide nezinhlelo zokuhlala.
Bamba uhlelo lwezikhathi lwentsha yakho noma lwezikhathi zasekolishi, kanye nanoma yimaphi amadethi abalulekile wokuzilibazisa kwabo, afana nemidlalo yebhola, izivivinyo zomdanso noma ukuphela kwezinkundla zokuxhumana.
Buza ingane yakho mayelana nanoma yimaphi amaphathi ezinsuku zokuzalwa, ukuzibophezela kokuzithandela njll.
Ungavumeli imizwa yomuntu uqobo ikuphazamise kulokhu, noma zama ukuthola amaphuzu ngokwenza ingane yakho ibenomuzwa wokuthi omunye umzali ubayekisa ukwenza izinto abazithandayo.
Lokhu kuzogcina intukuthelo kuphela futhi kwenze ukubambisana okuqhubekayo nokwethembana kube nzima kakhulu ukukufeza.
Uma uphatha ingane yakho njengomuntu omdala futhi uyayazisa imizwa nezidingo zayo, lokhu kuzoba yindlela engcono kakhulu ongayisiza ngayo ukuthi ibhekane nalesi sikhathi esinzima.