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Yiba nemfudumalo nothando
Uma unganaki ulimi okubhalwe ngalo le ndatshana, kunezeluleko ezimbalwa lapho. Elinye lamaphuzu aphambili kule sethi yemihlahlandlela ligxile emfanekisweni womfazi ofudumele nonothando, owazi ukukhombisa uthando kumyeni wakhe.
Lesi isiphakamiso esingenakuphelelwa yisikhathi. Noma ukukhombisa ukuthi uyamthanda umyeni wakho kungahle kungahlali ekunikezeleni ukuthi uzokhumula izicathulo zakhe, kusamele uthole izindlela zokukhombisa ukuthi uyamthanda. Sivame ukusunduza eceleni imizwa yethu futhi sigxile kakhulu ezibophweni zansuku zonke, emsebenzini noma ekukhathazekeni. Kakhulu kangangoba sivumela abantu esibathandayo baqagele ukuthi sibakhathalele kangakanani. Ungavumeli lokhu kube njalo emshadweni wakho.
Yiba oqondayo
Elinye ikhono elibalulekile abafazi abangama-50s ababonakala belikhulisa ukuqonda. Singalingeka ukuthi sisho ukuqonda okuncane kakhulu uma sizokholwa yilokho okwakhuthazwa yilo mbhalo. Unkosikazi oneminyaka engama-50 bekungafanele neze azwakalise izikhalazo zakhe uma umyeni wakhe ephuzile noma ebeyozijabulisa eyedwa.
Yize besingeke sivumelane sonke nalelo zinga lokubekezelelana, kunesici esithandekayo lapho. Akekho kithi ophelele, nabayeni bethu nabo. Akufanele uvumele ukufakwa endaweni yokuzithoba, kepha ube nokuqonda okuthile ngobuthakathaka bomyeni wakho namaphutha akhe ekhonweni elidingekayo elizuzisa ngokufanayo namuhla njengoba kwakunjalo eminyakeni engama-60 edlule.
Naka izidingo zomyeni wakho
Umhlahlandlela esikhuluma ngawo uyalela omama bezindlu ukuba banakekele izidingo zabayeni babo ngezindlela eziningana. Kepha, ngokuyinhloko, sithola umqondo walabo abayeni abadinga ukuthula nokuzola, kanye nesidlo sakusihlwa esifudumele. Kulezi zinsuku singathi indoda yesimanjemanje inezinye izidingo ezimbalwa kunalezo, kepha ingqikithi iyafana - ukuze ube yinkosikazi elungile, kufanele ubeke umzamo wokunakekela izidingo zomyeni wakho.
Lokhu ikakhulukazi akusho ukuba ucocekile, umomotheka, futhi ubukeke umuhle ngokungenasici. Kepha, kusho ukuthi uzwela ngalokho angakudinga futhi afune izindlela zokumhlinzeka noma zokumxhasa endleleni yakhe. Kuningi esisengakufunda kubafazi bama-50s, futhi leyo yindlela yokwenza umlingani wakho wokuphila uzizwe ubalulekile futhi unakekelwa.
Izinto ezishintshile
Umhlahlandlela womama wekhaya wama-50s uphakamise isithombe esinjalo lapho unkosikazi wayeyindawo efudumele neqondayo evela ezweni elinengcindezi ngendoda yakhe - okungcono kakhulu. Yize kunamaphuzu athile amahle kule ndatshana eshiwo, kukhona futhi okungekho muntu angavumelana ngakho kulezi zinsuku. Futhi lokho ngukuntuleka okuphelele kokuxhumana okuqondile nokuphindwayo.
Izeluleko ezinikezwe kulo mhlahlandlela zifuna ngokusobala ukuthi unkosikazi olungile akazivezi izifiso zakhe, izidingo zakhe, akhulume ngokukhathazeka kwakhe, akhombise ukukhathala kwakhe, azwakalise isikhalazo sakhe. Futhi noma ngabe amanye amadoda anamuhla angaqhubeka afise umfazi obonakala ejabule njalo, lena indlela engenampilo yokuxhumana.
Namuhla abeluleki bemishado bayavumelana ngokuthi ukuxhumana kube yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Ukuze umshado uphumelele, abantu abashadile kudingeka bafunde ukukhuluma omunye nomunye ngendlela eqondile nethembekile. Kufanele kube yingxoxo phakathi kozakwethu abalinganayo, eyodwa lapho bobabili bekwazi futhi kufanele bacacise ngakho konke ababhekene nakho. Futhi leli iphuzu lapho izindlela ezindala nezintsha zishayisana khona.
Ngakho-ke, ukuba yinkosikazi enhle kumyeni wakho kucishe kufane njengoba kwakunjalo eminyakeni engama-60 edlule. Kufanele ube nemfudumalo, ukuqonda, nozwela. Kepha, kwehlukile futhi esicini esisodwa esibalulekile, okuyilungelo lakho lokuba nohlobo olufanayo lokwesekwa nentshisekelo kumyeni wakho. Umshado, ngemuva kwakho konke, ukubambisana ezinhlosweni ezabiwe kanye nemibono ngekusasa, hhayi ubudlelwane besigqila.