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- Ungakuxolela kanjani ukungathembeki: Ukuqhubekela phambili
Ingabe kufanele abantu bakhokhele amaphutha abo?
Ukuthethelela kungaba nzima, ikakhulu uma sikholelwa ebulungiseni nasebulungiseni. Izikhathi eziningi esicabanga ukuthi abantu kufanele bajeziswe ngokuziphatha kabi. Lokhu kungenza ukuthethelela kube nzima.
Intethelelo isho ukuthi uyeka ukucasuka. Kusho ukuthi uyeka ukuthukuthela futhi unikela ngakho konke ukufuna ukujezisa.
Lokho kuningi okufanele ukucele kumuntu ophathina wakhe ongathembekile.
Imiphumela yokungathembeki
Ukuthethelela akusikho ukuphika.
Akukwenzi sengathi ukungathembeki akukaze kwenzeke.
Futhi nakanjani ayikukhuthazi ukuziphatha okungalungile.
Ukuthethelela kubalulekile uma wena noshade naye nifuna ukushiya okwedlule bese niqala ukuqhubekela phambili nekusasa eliqhakazile.
Imiphumela ejwayelekile yokungathembeki ikude naleli kusasa eliqhakazile, elisha. Umphumela kungenzeka ubandakanya ulaka, ukushaqeka, ukuphika nesifiso esinamandla sokuziphindisela. Kunzima ukubeka le mizwa eceleni.
Imizwelo iyinkimbinkimbi futhi iyinkimbinkimbi. Ungase uzwe uthukuthele ngomlingani wakho, ngenkathi usamthanda kakhulu. Lokhu kuyiqiniso nakakhulu lapho senineminyaka eminingi nindawonye. Ngaphandle kokuvukela umbuso ungakwazi ukuxolela umlingani wakho - ngesikhathi esifanele - futhi nibe nobudlelwano obungcono kakhulu.
Imibhangqwana esinda ekubhujisweni kokungathembeki iyaqina futhi isondelene kakhulu. Kuzothatha isikhathi, kepha uma nisebenza ngezinkinga zenu ndawonye kuyenzeka.
Lapho kusekhona uthando ...
Uma umlingani wakho ezixolisa ngezenzo zakhe futhi uma ukwazi ukuxolela futhi lusekhona uthando, ke kunendlela yokuphuma kule mphumela.
Ngemuva kwezigaba zokuqala zokwethuka, ulaka nokuziphindiselela kuzofika isikhathi lapho uzokwazi khona ukudedela izinto zihambe. Ungahle uzimisele ukuxolela bese uqala ukwakha ukwethembana futhi.
Kunzima ukwethemba oshade naye uma ekukhohlisile, kepha kungenzeka impela. Ukuze uphinde uthembe uzodinga isikhathi sokupholisa amanxeba akho.Enye yezindlela zokwenza ngcono le nqubo ukuthi umlingani wakho alethe wonke amakhadi akhe etafuleni futhi avuleke futhi athembeke. Yilapho iqiniso seliphume ngokuphelele lapho ungaqala khona ukubuyisa ukuzethemba kuwe nakumlingani wakho futhi.
Nobabili nozakwenu kuzofanele nizinikele kule nqubo. Kuzothatha isikhathi. Kuzoba nzima. Kepha futhi kuzokufanele.
Ngaphandle kwesisekelo sokwethembana awunakuba nobudlelwano obunempilo nobuhle. Kepha ngemuva kokungathembeki, ukuthembana kuyabhujiswa. Ukwakha ukwethembana futhi kuhamba kancane, ngenkathi ukulahla ukwethemba othile kungashesha.
Ungakuxolela kanjani ukungathembeki: Ukuqhubekela phambili
Umeluleki wezobudlelwano angaba lusizo enkambisweni yokuthethelela ukungathembeki.
Lo mluleki angakusiza wena noshade naye ukuthi nicabange ngokwenzekile. Inhloso yokwelulekwa ngokwengqondo ukuzazi kangcono kakhulu, wazi izidingo zakho nezalowo oshade naye.
Kukhona okungahambanga kahle phambilini, uma kungenjalo oshade naye ubengeke akhohlise. Manje akusona isikhathi sokukhomba ngeminwe, kodwa mane ubuze ukuthi 'Ngingaba kanjani umlingani ongcono kakhulu, onothando futhi oqaphelayo?'.
Uma nobabili nizinikele ekubeni ngabalingani abangcono lapho nizogcina nikhona kube abalingani abangcono. Uzovuna okutshalile.
Ukuxolela ukungathembeki kuyinkqubo futhi kuthatha ezimbili. Kuthatha wena nalowo okudingeka umthethelele. Kuzothatha ukuzidela okuncane nokutshalwa kwemali - kuwe nakuzakwenu - ukuze nobabili nibe nobudlelwano obungcono kakhulu nokusondelana nokwethembana okukhulu. Ukuze kwenzeke lokhu kuzofanele ubheke indlela oziphatha ngayo bese uthola ukuthi izinto zonakala kuphi. Kuyafana nakumlingani wakho. Kumele azimisele ukuzihlola.
Hlala wazi ukuthi awusoze uphinde ube nomshado obukade unawo. Yilokho futhi okuyiphuzu. Lolo hlobo lomshado aluhlali. Ngakho-ke manje wena nomlingani wakho nakha umshado oqinile, nothando. Abanye abantu bangahle bangakutholi lokhu. Abakwazi ukuqonda ukuxolelwa kwakho kumlingani wakho okopelayo. Ngenxa yalokho kungaba ngcono ukunciphisa izeluleko noma okokufaka okuvela kwabanye. Akuwona wonke umuntu onentshisekelo enkulu engqondweni futhi nakanjani akubona bonke abantu abazi noma abazizwa ngokwaziyo noma okuzwayo. Wonke umuntu wehlukile futhi izeluleko zabanye abantu zivame ukwenzelwa bona, hhayi wena.
Ngalokho kuthiwa sekuyisikhathi sokuvalelisa ebudlelwaneni obudala futhi wakhe obusha. Usuku lokugubha usuku olusha, izindlela zezindaba zokuxhumana kanye nokuzibophezela okuvuselelwe ngezinye zezinto ongacabanga ngazo ukuze umshado wakho uvuseleleke.