-Delile
- Vala yonke i-elekthronikhi yakho
- Manje njengoba seninake omunye nomunye, khulumani
- Thola ngokomzimba kodwa ngendlela engeyona eyezocansi
- Khuluma ngezocansi ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala
- Ungakunaki ukuheha ngogesi
- Setha isigaba sothando
- Ungakhohlwa ukusondelana kwangemva komshado
Ubulili obuhle buqala ngokusondelana okuhle, okuphelele ngokomzwelo, lapho uzokwakha khona ezinye izikhathi ezimnandi uze ungabe usakwazi ukuzibamba kepha uye ekamelweni lokulala. Lo mbhalo unezeluleko zokuthi ungasondelana kanjani nesoka lakho.
Ngaphandle kwesihloko sale ndatshana, lesi akusona umhlahlandlela wesinyathelo ngesinyathelo kwezocansi nesoka lakho.
Lokho kungaba yincwadi yokufunda kakhulu futhi kungenzeli ukufundwa okuthakazelisayo. Kunezinto eziningi zokuqala ezithandekayo zokusondelana nesoka lakho, ngakho-ke sizohlola ezinye zazo.
Ubulili obuhle akuyona nje imizimba ethinta imizimba. Ubulili obuhle buqala ngokusondelana okuhle, okuphelele ngokomzwelo, lapho uzokwakha khona ezinye izikhathi ezijabulisayo uze ungabe usakwazi ukuzibamba kepha uye ekamelweni lokulala.
Ake sibone ukuthi lokhu kwenziwa kanjani.
Vala yonke i-elekthronikhi yakho
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze lapho ulungiselela ukusondelana ngokomzimba ukuthatha i-smartphone yakho, ithebhulethi, i-pc nethelevishini bese uzicisha zonke.
Kulungile.
Awekho ama-buzz, ama-ding-dings noma eminye imisindo noma izithombe ezizodonsela ukunaka kwakho kude nesoka lakho elihle.
Ufuna ukuba khona ngokuphelele ngalokho okuzokwenzeka, futhi uma isikrini sakho siqhubeka sikhanya njengesihlahla sikaKhisimusi ubusuku bonke, uzoba nesikhathi esinzima ukugcina unake umuntu wakho. Umhlaba ungalinda ngenkathi ulungiselela uthando.
Manje njengoba seninake omunye nomunye, khulumani
Ukushintshaniswa ngamazwi kuyingxenye ebalulekile ye-foreplay.
Akekho ofuna ukuya ocansini ngaphandle kwengxoxo efudumele, akunjalo? Ngakho-ke vumelanani. Mbuze ukuthi belunjani usuku lwakhe. Yini into enhle kakhulu eyenzekile? Okubi kakhulu?
Lalelisisa izimpendulo zakhe; naka oxhumana naye emehlweni, unqekuzise ikhanda, uthi “Wow. Lokho kuzwakala kumangalisa (noma kubi)! ” Ngena naye ngokuthile okhulume ngakho muva nje; uzothintwa iqiniso lokuthi ukhumbule inkinga yakhe emsebenzini noma ukulwa kwakhe nomama wakhe.
Konke lokhu kuyasiza ukukusondeza ngokomzwelo.
Thola ngokomzimba kodwa ngendlela engeyona eyezocansi
Qala ukuqhubekela phambili ekwenzeni uthando ngokuthinta okulula okulula. Ukugona okude. Isikhathi esiningi sokuqabulana nje kusofa. (Musa ukukhawulela ukuqabula kwakho lapho wenza uthando ... zithokozise ngokukhululekile ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekamelo lokulala.)
Kuthiwani ngokuthanjiswa okuhle kwentamo nehlombe?
Uma umhlane wakhe uklanywe, khumulani ihembe lakhe ukuze nikwazi ukusebenza ezindaweni ezidinga ukunakwa.
Iphuzu ukuthatha lokhu kancane, hhayi nje ukusheshisa ngale ngxenye ye-foreplay ukuze ufike "ezintweni ezinhle." Konke kuhle, futhi kuyingxenye yesipiliyoni esihle, esikhulu socansi.
Khuluma ngezocansi ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala
Uma lokhu kungukuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokuqala kwezocansi ngaleli soka elithile, kuyasiza futhi kumnandi ukukhuluma ngokulindelekile. Ngeke kugcine ngokushisa ama-libidos enu womabili, kepha kuzocacisa ukuthi yini okuncamelayo nokuthi yini eningayiphendula kangcono.
Izokuvumela ukuthi futhi umbuze ngalokho akuthandayo nangakuthandi. Vele, le yingxoxo okufanele iqhubeke ngenkathi usembhedeni, kepha ukuqala ukushintshaniswa ngenkathi ugqokile kuyashisa kuyashisa kuyashisa.
Kuyingxoxo ebalulekile futhi okumele uqinisekise ukuthi izifiso zakho zocansi zihambisana.
Akukho okungaba kubi ukwedlula ukuthola ukuthi sekwedlule isikhathi ukuthi isoka lakho lidinga umkhuba othile wobulili owuthola ucasula ukuze uzizwe wanelisekile. Ngakho-ke vula, uthembeke, futhi ubeke imingcele ngaphambi kokuba bawele.
Uma uzizwa ungakhululekile nganoma yini lo mlingani wakho omusha akutshela ngezidingo zakhe, udinga ukuzwakalisa lokhu kungakhululeki, noma ngabe kusho ukungayi ocansini njengamanje.
Ungakunaki ukuheha ngogesi
Uyazi ukuthi uhlela ukusondelana nesoka lakho ngalobo busuku.
Kuthiwani ngokushintshana ngemibhalo ecacile emini (inothi: hhayi izithombe, kepha imiyalezo) ukuze kuqale iphathi?
Lizonifaka nobabili nisesimweni esivuthayo, okusho ukuthi lapho ekugcineni nihlangana, kuzoba mnandi ngokwengeziwe! "Ngiyakufuna": amagama amathathu alula anomthelela onamandla emcabangweni wesoka lakho.
Setha isigaba sothando
Ngabe isoka lakho liza endaweni yakho kusihlwa? Chitha isikhathi esithile ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe uqiniseke ukuthi igumbi lakho lihlelekile.
Akadingi ukubona izingubo zakho zangaphansi zomile kujantshi weshawa, noma ngabe muhle kanjani.
Beka amalineni amahle, amasha embhedeni wakho bese ususa iqoqo lakho lezilwane ezifakiwe kuwo. Kuthiwani ngamakhandlela anephunga elincane (noma amakhandlela okulingisa anezibani ezikhanyayo, aphephe uma kufanele ulale ndawonye ngemuva kokwenza uthando)?
Faka umugqa ohlwini lwakho lokudlalayo lomculo ukuze uncibilike, futhi ususethe inkundla yobusuku obubodwa obumnandi!
Ungakhohlwa ukusondelana kwangemva komshado
Ake sikhulume ngokusondelana ngemuva kokuthi nisondelene.
Uke waba nobulili obukhulu nesoka lakho, manje nweba lowo muzwa wobunye. Kungaba ngokulala bebambene ngokuqinile. Kepha kuthiwani uma ungakhathali? Kungani kungavuki nipheke ndawonye?
Qiniseka ukuthi ufake ifriji yakho ngezinto ezithile eziyisisekelo ongazishaya ngemuva kokwenza uthando. Pheka, udle, ukhulume, wazisane, mtshele ukuthi uzizwa unenhlanhla enjani ngokuba naye empilweni yakho.
Namanje awukhathele?
Ukuhamba okumnandi ukubamba izandla kuyindlela enhle yokwelula umuzwa wakho wokuxhuma.
Futhi lapho usubuyele ekhaya, ungazizwa uthanda ukuqala yonke into kabusha!