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- Avule amehlo
- Yabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo ngokususelwa kumathalente
- Dlala ngasikhathi sinye
- Imisebenzi yokwakha iqembu lemibhangqwana
Ukuba umdlali weqembu kumlingani wakho kungaba nomthelela omkhulu empumelelweni yomshado wakho.
Ngakho-ke, yini eyenza ubudlelwano busebenze?
Imibhangqwana eminingi ejabule emshadweni ivame ukubika “ukusebenzisana” njengesithako esibalulekile emshadweni ojabulisayo. Iningi lethu lingavuma ukuthi sifuna ukuthumela umyalezo kozakwethu ukuthi sisezinhlangothini zabo. Umshado usuzoba yiqembu. Ukubambisana emshadweni kuyisithako esibucayi ekwenzeni umshado ujabulise futhi uphumelele.
Njengoba ukubambisana nomlingani wakho kungabuthuthukisa kakhulu ubudlelwano bakho noshade naye, kufanele ufunde ukuze uthole izindlela eziphumelelayo zokubonisa ubumbano nokusebenzisana emshadweni wakho futhi ube ngumdlali weqembu ebudlelwaneni.
Amathiphu wokuthi ungaba kanjani iqembu ebudlelwaneni
Avule amehlo
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi abantu bavame ukugcina imininingwane eyengeziwe lapho bexhumana ngokungaguquguquki emehlweni nomuntu abamlalelayo.
Ukuzinika isikhathi sokuba ngumlaleli okhuthele ngeke kukusize kuphela ukuthi ugcine imininingwane edingeka kakhulu oshade naye azama ukukutshela yona kepha kungaba nenani elikhulu ekuvikeleni ukungezwani okuzayo.
Akukona nje kuphela ukuthi ukuxhumana kuvame ukwenziwa ngcono, kukonke, ekulaleleni okusebenzayo, kepha kungaqinisekisa umlingani wakho ukuthi umthatha ngokungathi sína.
Yabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo ngokususelwa kumathalente
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi imibhangqwana ivame ukubika impumelelo enkulu ekuphatheni ikhaya lapho imisebenzi yabelwe imisebenzi ethile ngokuya ngobuntu babo.
Esikhundleni sokuzama ukwaba imisebenzi, ngokulinganayo, ungahle uthande ukuphatha uhlelo oluhlehlisiwe, inqobo nje uma ngamunye wenu anelisekile futhi anethezekile kulokho ocelwa ukuba akwenze. Ukusebenza ndawonye ebudlelwaneni kudinga ukuqondanisa izinhloso, ukukhulisa ububele nokuqondana.
Abantu bavame ukubika ukuthi banesikhathi esilula sokwenza imikhuba yokukhiqiza uma bebona ukuthi bayaphumelela kuyo.
Dlala ngasikhathi sinye
Imibhangqwana eminingi eshadile ivame ukubika izizwa ingcindezi yokujabulela imisebenzi efanayo nabalingani bayo. Izintshisekelo zakho ezahlukahlukene, noma kunjalo, zivame ukujatshulelwa lapho ukhona oshade naye, noma ngabe nobabili nenza izinto ezingafani.
Isibonelo, imibhangqwana eminingi ejabulayo ibika ukwenza imisebenzi yesikhathi esisodwa njengokufunda embhedeni ngenkathi umlingani ebuka i-TV kumahedisethi, ukuze angaphazamisi lowo ofundayo. Ukuba yiqembu emshadweni kudinga ukuthi ube nobuciko.
Kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokwenza ubuciko ukuze nikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi lapho nikhona komunye nomunye ngenkathi nenza izinto ezihlukile.
Ukubeka imizamo yokuthola izindlela zokugcina omunye nomunye ajabule futhi ajabulele ukungafani kwenu, ngokubambisana, nakanjani kungakhuthaza umuzwa wokusebenzisana.
Ukuthi ungabambisana kanjani noshade naye, ungafuni ukuthi oshade naye ahlehle ezithakazelweni zabo ngoba wenza okuthile kungenza uthumele umlayezo wokuthi nifuna ukuthi omunye nomunye ajabule futhi azimisele ukusebenzisana ukuze athole indlela yenza kanjalo.
Imisebenzi yokwakha iqembu lemibhangqwana
Izindawo zokusebenza eziningana zigcizelela ukubaluleka kwemisebenzi yokwakha amaqembu ukukhuthaza ukusebenzisana kweqembu nokukhiqiza okungcono. Noma ngabe kuyikhono lokukhulumisana kahle, ukusebenzisana kumaphrojekthi nokukhuthaza ontanga, imisebenzi yokwakha iqembu idala isimo esihle somsebenzi.
Ngokufanayo, imisebenzi yabashadikazi ingasebenza ngokumangazayo emshadweni. Kunemisebenzi eminingana yokuhlanganisa imibhangqwana eshadile ezovuselela isithakazelo sakho komunye nomunye futhi ivuse ubumnandi nothando empilweni yakho yomshado.
Izinketho zemisebenzi yokwakha iqembu imibhangqwana eshadile azipheli!
- Ukucabangela emshadweni kusiza ukukhuthaza uzwela, uzwela, nokuzwana emshadweni. Ukwenza i-yoga noma ukuzindla ndawonye kungaba yimpendulo yakho embuzweni othi, "ungasebenza kanjani ngokubambisana noshade naye."
- Zuza izinzuzo ze ukuhamba njengezithandani. Ngezinye izikhathi, i-humdrum yempilo ifika kuwe futhi ushiywe udwetshiwe futhi ungaxakekile ngezinto nangempilo iyonke. Ukuhamba kungokuhlangenwe nakho okucebisayo futhi kuyindlela ephumelela kunazo zonke yokuzivuselela, ugcwalise umphefumulo wakho, upholise ingqondo yakho futhi uvuselele ubuhlobo bakho noshade naye. Ngakho-ke, phumani endaweni yenu yokunethezeka ningene kokunye ukuzijabulisa ndawonye.
- Ukwenza umsebenzi wokupha noma wokuzithandela lokho okusondele enhliziyweni yakho kuyindlela enhle yokuthola umbono, ukusondelana futhi kugcizelele ukubaluleka kokubonga nokwaneliseka empilweni. Ukusebenzela injongo kungaletha nokufana kokunenjongo empilweni.
- Ukufunda indlela entsha yokudansa noma ukwenza isigaba sokupheka ndawonye, kungaba nomthelela omkhulu ekwenzeni ngcono ukusebenzisana. Ufunda ukukhetha izinkomba ezicashile, izimpendulo futhi wenze umzamo oqotho wokusebenza ngokubambisana nomunye wakho obalulekile ngayo yonke intshiseko yakho.
- Ubulili nokusondelana kungathatha isihlalo sangemuva esikimini sezinto empilweni, kushiye indawo encane noma kungabi nandawo yokujabulela ukusondelana ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo nomlingani wakho. Uma uhlelo lwakho lucinene kakhulu ngeseshini yokuzenzekelayo, udinga ukufaka ipensela osukwini lwamasonto ukuze wenze ucansi, ukuhlela ucansi kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuzama izinto ezintsha phakathi kwamashidi, linga, nijabule noshade naye embhedeni ngenkathi nifaka isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi ndawonye.
- Ukuthi ungaba kanjani yiqembu nomlingani wakho, esinye sezeluleko ezipholile kunazo zonke ukwakha ifayili le- ukuzinakekela ukujwayela kwenu nobabili, lapho nizitika khona ngeseshini yokuhlikihla noma ukudala i-DIY spa ekhaya.
Lezi zeluleko zokuthi ungaba kanjani umdlali weqembu ebudlelwaneni zizokusiza udale umoya weqembu emshadweni, uthuthukise amandla akho ezocansi, nibone uhlangothi lokudlala lomunye nomunye, futhi likuvumela ukuthi nifunde, nikhule, futhi nishintshe ndawonye.