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- Yenza izimbiza ezimbili “zohlu lwezifiso”
- Yazi izilimi zakho zothando
- Bhala amanothi anengqondo
- Izipho ezincane zihamba ibanga elide
- Yiba lula emehlweni
- Ukufunda kungothando
- Ukudlala imidlalo kumnandi
- Isimanga! isimanga!
- Amakhalenda awokugcina
Ngakho usuku lukaValentine selufikile lwadlula futhi! Ngiyethemba wena nabathandekayo benu nisebenzise leli thuba kahle ukukhombisa uthando lwenu komunye nomunye ngezindlela ezithile ezikhethekile. Yize kukuhle ukuba nalesi “sizathu” njalo ngoFebhuwari ukwenza okuthile okusobala ngothando, akudingeki kugcine kulolo suku olulodwa ngonyaka. Ukugcina uthando luphila ebudlelwaneni bakho kungaba yinjabulo yonyaka wonke, futhi nayi imicabango embalwa yokukuyisa kule ndlela:
Yenza izimbiza ezimbili “zohlu lwezifiso”
Bathi ungafundisa abantu ukuthi bakuphathe kanjani, futhi lokhu kunjalo impela ebudlelwaneni obunothando. Kuthiwani ngokubhala "uhlu lwakho lwezifiso" emaphepheni amancane bese uwafaka ezitsheni ezimbili ezikhethekile (ezakhe nezakhe)? Bese kuthi njalo kaningi ukhiphe okukodwa futhi wenze umlingani wakho ajabule nganoma yini ekushoyo: isibonelo ukugcotshwa emuva, noma ukuhambahamba kusihlwa endaweni yangakini, i-cappuccino, noma yini izinto ezincane ezenza usuku lwakho.
Yazi izilimi zakho zothando
Ukwazi ukuthi yiluphi ulimi lothando lomlingani wakho oluthandayo kuzoba ibanga elide ekwenzeni omunye nomunye ajabule. Uma uqhubeka uthela umkakho ngezipho lapho ulimi lwakhe lothando lulusizo olusebenzayo, angahle angaluthandi cishe ngokungathi uzomgoqa umthwalo wokuwasha. Futhi uma ulimi lwakhe lothando luchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye kungenzeka angadingi amagama amaningi nezipho.
Bhala amanothi anengqondo
Uma ushilo lokho, amagama anengqondo namanothi enza ibanga elide ekuqiniseni ukuxhumana kwakho nomuntu omthandayo. Zama ukufaka ikhadi elincane ephaketheni lakhe noma kudayari lapho ezolithola khona emva kosuku lapho efika emsebenzini. Noma ufake incwadi yothando emotweni yakhe ngaphambi kokuba aye emsebenzini. Lawa manothi angakha isasasa nenjabulo yokuphinde babonane futhi ngokushesha okukhulu, ekupheleni kosuku.
Izipho ezincane zihamba ibanga elide
Izipho nakanjani zinendawo yazo, njengoba ngokuvamile umuntu efuna ukunika lowo omthandayo. Akudingeki ukuthi ibe nkulu noma ibize. Imbali ekhethwe isendleleni egodukayo, noma uhlobo oluthandayo lukashokoledi noma ikhukhi. Uma oshade naye ethanda imvelo, letha iqabunga, itshana elihle noma uphaphe olutholile - ukusho nje ukuthi benicabanga omunye nomunye ngenkathi nihlukene futhi nifuna ukuletha okuthile okucabangayo eningabelana ngakho.
Yiba lula emehlweni
Wake wacabanga ngeqiniso lokuthi oshade naye nguye okufanele akubheke nsuku zonke? Kulula ukungena esintweni esintofontofo ekhaya bese uzihlalela ngezingubo ezindala, ungakhathali ukuthi ubukeka kanjani. Kepha kuthiwani ngokuzama ukubukeka umuhle noma kanjani futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ugqoka futhi uzilungise kahle ukuze ube “lula emehlweni” kothandiweyo wakho.
Ukufunda kungothando
Wake wazama ukufunda incwadi ndawonye? Ningashintshana ngokufunda isahluko esisodwa ngesikhathi.Mhlawumbe umlingani wakho akazange akhule enezincwadi ezifanayo ozithandayo owazithokozela, ngakho-ke manje isikhathi sokuhlanganyela lezo ‘zindaba zokulala’ ezithandekayo. Noma ungafunda incwadi ekhuthazayo esihlokweni esithile eninesithakazelo kuso sobabili. Noma kuthiwani ngendaba yothando yakudala? Uma ufunda kancane usuku ngalunye uzomangala ukuthi ufinyelela kude kangakanani.
Ukudlala imidlalo kumnandi
Ukukhuluma ngezintandokazi zobuntwana - kuthiwani ngokudlala imidlalo yebhodi ndawonye: iscrabble, monopoly, pictionary, checkers, chess, noma yini oyithandayo. Ungamema abanye abangane futhi ujabulele ubusuku obumnandi bemibhangqwana. Qiniseka ukuthi wena noshade naye niseqenjini elilodwa, ikakhulukazi ne-Pictionary, futhi nibone ukuthi ningadlala kahle kanjani ndawonye. Uma ungaphandle kakhulu, kungani ungadlali i-croquet, izitsha noma i-mini-golf ndawonye.
Isimanga! isimanga!
Akukho okufana nokumangala ukukhulisa ezothando ebudlelwaneni bakho! Ungahlelela impelasonto ongayilindele, noma ngisho nokuchitha ubusuku ndawonye nje, kwenye indawo ongakaze ube kuyo ngaphambili. Kuthiwani ngokulanda oshade naye emsebenzini (ngemuva kokwenza konke amalungiselelo nokupakisha isikhwama sobusuku bonke) bese uyahamba uyokumangala, lapho uya khona ngasese ngesikhathi sezimpilo zakho, nenze izinkumbulo eziyigugu ndawonye.
Amakhalenda awokugcina
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ngeke usithole isikhathi sokwenza zonke lezi zinto, bese ukhipha ikhalenda lakho bese wenza uhlelo olubucayi! Ngemuva kwakho konke, ubudlelwano bakho nothandekayo wakho mhlawumbe buyinto ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho - ngakho-ke lokho kusho ukuthi bafanelwe utshalomali olubalulekile lwesikhathi sakho nomzamo wakho. Iminyaka idlula ngokushesha okukhulu. Manje yisikhathi sokujabulela nokwakha ebudlelwaneni bakho ngazo zonke izindlela, ukugcina ezothando ziphila nsuku zonke zonyaka!