-Delile
- Umuzwa wokungazethembi
- Icala nehlazo
- Ingcindezi yokuthi uzohambisana nobani
- Isibonelo esibi
- Umphumela kwizifundiswa nakwezempilo
- Izinkinga zengqondo nezokuziphatha
- Zama ukuphikisana lapho izingane zingekho
- Uma ingane yakho ibona ukulwa kwakho, kufanele ikubone izimonyo
- Ngaphezu kwakho konke, funda ukulwa ngokukhiqiza
- Uzwela
- Thatha izinhloso ezinhle
- Nobabili nisethimbeni elilodwa
- Gwema ukuletha amagqubu amadala
Ukulwa akuyona ingxenye emnandi kunazo zonke ebudlelwaneni, kepha kwesinye isikhathi akunakugwenywa.
Kungumqondo odumile ukuthi imibhangqwana ephikisanayo empeleni iyathandana kunemibhangqwana engalokothi ixabane. Eqinisweni, ukulwa kungaba yinto enhle uma kwenziwa kahle futhi ukuxazululwa kufinyelelwa ngokushaya isivumelwano esamukelekayo.
Kodwa yini imiphumela ezinganeni lapho abazali belwa?
Ukuphakama kwamazwi, ulimi olubi, ukumemeza emuva naphambili phakathi kwabazali kunomthelela omubi empilweni engokomzwelo nengqondo yezingane. Uma kwenziwa kaningi ngokwanele, kungabhekwa njengokuhlukumeza izingane.
Njengomzali, kufanele uyiqonde imiphumela yokulwa phambi kwezingane zakho.
Kepha njengoba izimpi ziyingxenye yomshado, ungakuphatha kanjani lokhu ukuze izingane zingabi nesibazi sempilo yonke?
Iningi labazali libheka kabi izinga lokuqonda kwezingane zabo, licabanga ukuthi lisencane kakhulu ukuthi lingalithatha lapho lixabana.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa lokho ngisho nezingane ezisencane ezinezinyanga eziyisithupha ubudala ziyakuzwa ukungezwani ekhaya.
Uma izingane zakho zingakhulumi ngamazwi, ungacabanga ukuthi azazi ukuthi ukhalaza ngani lapho umemeza umyeni wakho, kodwa cabanga futhi.
Bezwa ukucindezeleka emoyeni futhi lokhu kufakwa ngaphakathi.
Izingane zingakhala kakhulu, zikhathazeke ngesisu, noma zibe nenkinga yokuzinza.
Ezinganeni ezindala, ukulwa kwabazali kungaba nemiphumela elandelayo
Umuzwa wokungazethembi
Ikhaya lezingane zakho kufanele libe yindawo ephephile, indawo yothando nokuthula. Uma lokhu kuphazanyiswa izimpikiswano, ingane izwa ukushintsha futhi izwakale sengathi ayinayo indawo yokuphepha evikelekile.
Uma izimpi zenzeka kaningi, ingane ikhula ibe umuntu omdala ongazethembi nowesabayo.
Icala nehlazo
Izingane zizozwa sengathi ziyimbangela yengxabano.
Lokhu kungaholela ekuzithatheni kancane nasekuzizweni ungelutho.
Ingcindezi yokuthi uzohambisana nobani
Izingane ezibona ukulwa kwabazali ngokwemvelo zizozwa sengathi zidinga ukuhambisana nohlangothi olulodwa noma olunye. Abakwazi ukubuka impi bese bebona ukuthi zombili izinhlangothi zibonakala ziveza umbono olinganiselayo.
Izingane eziningi zesilisa zizothambekela ekuvikeleni umama wazo, zizwe ukuthi ubaba angaba namandla kuye futhi ingane izodinga ukumvikela kulokho.
Isibonelo esibi
Ukulwa okungcolile kunikeza izingane isibonelo esibi.
Izingane ziphila ezikufundayo futhi zizokhula zibe ngabalwi ababi ngokwazo ngemuva kokuhlala ekhaya lapho bekuyilokho abakubonile.
Izingane zifuna ukubona abazali bazo sebekhulile, bazi konke, bengabantu abazolile, hhayi abantu abanolaka, abangalawuleki. Lokho kusebenza ukudida ingane edinga ukuthi abantu abadala baziphathe njengabantu abadala.
Umphumela kwizifundiswa nakwezempilo
Ngoba impilo yasekhaya yengane igcwele ukungazinzi nodlame ngamazwi noma ngokomzwelo (noma okubi kakhulu), ingane igcina ingxenye yobuchopho bayo ukugxila ekuzameni ukugcina ukulinganisela nokuthula ekhaya.
Angaba ngumenzi wokuthula phakathi kwabazali. Lokhu akuyona indima yakhe futhi kususa kulokho obekufanele agxile kukho esikoleni nasenhlalakahleni yakhe. Umphumela uba ngumfundi ophazamisekile, ongakwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo, mhlawumbe nezinselelo zokufunda. Ngokwempilo, izingane ezinamakhaya agcwele izimpi zigula kaningi, zinezinkinga zesisu nezamasosha omzimba.
Izinkinga zengqondo nezokuziphatha
Izingane azinawo amasu avuthiwe okubhekana nezinkinga futhi azikwazi “ukunganaki” iqiniso lokuthi abazali bazo bayalwa.
Ngakho-ke ukucindezeleka kwabo kubonakala ngezindlela zokuziphatha nezokuziphatha. Bangalingisa abakubona ekhaya, bavuse izimpi esikoleni. Noma, bangahle bahoxe futhi bangahlanganyeli ekilasini.
Izingane ezivezwa kaninginingi ekulweni ngabazali zilungela kakhulu ukusebenzisa kabi izidakamizwa sezikhulile.
Ake sihlole ezinye zezindlela ezingcono zokuveza ukungavumelani kwabazali. Nawa amanye amasu azokhombisa amamodeli amahle ezinganeni zabo ukuthi angaziphatha kanjani izingxabano ngokunenzuzo
Zama ukuphikisana lapho izingane zingekho
Lokhu kungaba lapho besenkulisa noma esikoleni noma bechitha ubusuku koyisemkhulu noma nabangane. Uma lokhu kungenzeki, linda izingane zize zilele ukuze zingene ekungavumelaneni.
Uma ingane yakho ibona ukulwa kwakho, kufanele ikubone izimonyo
Lokhu kubakhombisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuxazulula nokuqala phansi nokuthi niyathandana, noma ngabe niyalwa.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, funda ukulwa ngokukhiqiza
Uma izingane zingofakazi ezingxabanweni zakho zabazali, ziyeke zibone ukuthi zingaxazulula kanjani izinkinga.
Amamodeli wokulwa "okuhle ukulwa"
Uzwela
Lalela iphuzu loshade naye, futhi wazi ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi zivelaphi.
Thatha izinhloso ezinhle
Thatha sengathi umlingani wakho unentshisekelo enhliziyweni yakho, futhi usebenzisa le mpikiswano ukwenza isimo sibe ngcono.
Nobabili nisethimbeni elilodwa
Lapho nilwa, khumbulani ukuthi wena noshade naye anizona izitha.
Nobabili nifuna ukusebenzela ukuxazululwa. Usohlangothini olufanayo. Vumela izingane zakho zikubone lokhu, ngakho-ke azizwa sengathi kufanele zikhethe uhlangothi. Usho inkinga bese umema oshade naye ukuthi azolinganisa nemibono yabo yokuxazulula inkinga.
Gwema ukuletha amagqubu amadala
Gwema ukugxekwa. Khuluma usendaweni yomusa. Gcina ukuyekethisa njengomgomo. Khumbula, ulingisa ukuziphatha ofuna izingane zakho zikulingise.