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- Ikhulu leminyaka lamashumi amabili nanye nokuba ngumzali
- Amazwe ahlukene, izitayela ezahlukene zokukhulisa izingane
- Ngubani ochitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nenzalo yakhe: omama noma obaba?
- Imfundo iholela ekuziqapheleni
- Iya enkulu noma iya ekhaya ayisebenzi ekukhuliseni
Hhe, he, ngabe amatafula aphendukile!
Ukuba ngumzali bekulokhu kungumsebenzi onzima kakhulu laphaya. Ngokuyinhloko unesibopho sokwakha impilo nekusasa lomunye umuntu. Kufanele ubakhulise futhi ufundise imikhuba, izibopho, uzwela, uzwela, nokunye okuningi. Awukhulisi ingane eyodwa, kepha lonke ikusasa lakho nezizukulwane ezizayo.
Cabanga izikhathi eziyizigidi ngaphambi kokuqala umndeni wakho, ukukhulisa ingane kuyilungelo. Kepha uma ungene shí kulowo mbuso, kufanele ube ukulungele ukuphendula lo mbuzo - singakanani isikhathi abazali abasichitha nezingane zabo?
Ikhulu leminyaka lamashumi amabili nanye nokuba ngumzali
Singakanani isikhathi abazali abasichitha nezingane zabo?
Ezweni lesimanje lapho ngokuvamile izingane zinabazali abangabodwa abasebenzayo, isikhathi sekhwalithi nomzali sibonakala siyinto enzima.
Ngisho nalabo abanenhlanhla yokuba nazo zombili izethi zabazali, ababoni kuyaqabukela ngoba bobabili bayasebenza noma ngenxa yomthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo.
Noma umzali engumama noma ubaba ohlala ekhaya, banesibopho sezinto eziningi ezenzeka endlini ezibagcina bematasa futhi bengekho ezinganeni - ukuthenga ezitolo, ukukhokha izikweletu, ukuthenga izinto zezingane, ukugcina indlu uku-oda, ukushiya izingane ezifundweni zabo zemisebenzi eyengeziwe, nokunye.
Empilweni ebucayi kangaka, uzomangala ukuthola ukuthi abazali bachitha isikhathi esincono kakhulu nezingane zabo uma kuqhathaniswa nabazali bakule minyaka engamashumi amane noma emihlanu edlule.
Leso sikhathi kufanele sikhulume ngaso ngoba, phakathi naleso sikhathi, umzali oyedwa wayehlala ehlala ekhaya, imvamisa omama, kepha izingane zazinganakwa ngandlela thile maqondana nokunakekelwa komuntu siqu.
Namuhla, noma ngabe kunesikhathi esimatasa nomncintiswano owedlulele, abazali bathola isikhathi sokuthanda, ukuhlonipha, ukunakekela, nokuchitha isikhathi esezingeni elifanele nezingane zabo - kukhulunywa nje.
Lokhu, ngokusobala, kwehlukile kumasiko ngamasiko.
Amazwe ahlukene, izitayela ezahlukene zokukhulisa izingane
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi uma iqhathaniswa, iFrance kwakuwukuphela kwezwe elaphuma eBrithani, eCanada, eJalimane, eDenmark, e-Italy, eNetherlands, eSlovenia, eSpain nase-United States of America lapho abazali bengahlali khona isikhathi esiningi nezingane zabo.
Ngubani ochitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nenzalo yakhe: omama noma obaba?
Abantu abaningi bangaphikisana ngokuthi umbuzo ongcono kunokubuza ukuthi abazali bachitha isikhathi esingakanani nezingane zabo, kungaba ukuthi ngubani ochitha isikhathi esiningi: umzali ohlala ekhaya noma umzali osebenzayo?
Ngokuphikisana nenkolelo evamile, akuhlali kungenzeki ngomzali osebenzayo ukuthi asebenzise isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi nezingane zakhe.
Eminyakeni engamashumi amahlanu eyedlule, omama abahlala ekhaya babaziwa ngokushiya izingane zabo ngosizo lwasendlini futhi bachithe izinsuku zabo beziphumulele noma beya emaphathini kanti, owesifazane osebenzayo wanamuhla, yize esiza kakhulu onakekela abantwana noma abagada izingane kaningi, uthola isikhathi ukuchitha nezingane zakhe.
Imfundo iholela ekuziqapheleni
Emashumini eminyaka adlule, lapho imfundo eyisisekelo ibiyinto yokunethezeka - emazweni amaningi nasemadolobheni namanje - omama, ngenxa yokungazi ngokubaluleka kobudlelwano obufanele nokubopha izingane, babengeke banikeze izingane zabo isikhathi sosuku lwabo.
Kodwa-ke, ngokushintsha kwezikhathi nemfundo, abazali manje sebazi ukubaluleka kokukhula nokunakekelwa kwengane.
Manje sebeyazi ukuthi ukukhulisa ingane kahle kufaka isikhathi esichithwa nezingane, nokuthi siyisidingo kanjani kunokunethezeka. Lokhu kwazi kuholele esimweni esifanelekile esithathwa ngabazali uma kuziwa embuzweni ofanelekile - ukuthi singakanani isikhathi abazali abasichitha nezingane zabo.
Iya enkulu noma iya ekhaya ayisebenzi ekukhuliseni
Abazali abaningana abaziniki isikweletu esanele noma abazami nokuchitha isikhathi esithile nezingane zabo ngoba bacabanga ukuthi ngenxa yochungechunge lwemithwalo yemfanelo, abakwazi ukuzenzela lukhulu izingane zabo ngakho-ke kungani bazihlupha ngisho nokuqala?
Lapho bengahambanga kahle khona ukuthi kosana oluncane leyo mizuzu eyishumi echithiwe idlala noma ukuba nesikhathi sekhwalithi ibaluleke ngaphezu kwanoma yiluphi usuku oluthandekayo.
Lapho izingane zikhula zijabule, ziphilile, futhi ziphumelela, futhi uma zinemindeni yazo, yizikhathi ezichithwa ehlane, amaholide omndeni amancane ajabule futhi ajabule abazozikhumbula.