Kungcono ukuthanda nokulahlekelwa kunokuba ungathandanga nhlobo. Zama ukuzitshela lokhu lapho unenhliziyo eyophayo, ephukile edabukile yaba yizicucu futhi uzoklebhula. Kodwa-ke, ukuphuka kwenhliziyo nobudlelwano obuphukile akunakugwenywa, kwesinye isikhathi kungenxa yezimo ezingalindelekile, ezinye izikhathi ngenxa yamaphutha akho, ukungabi nokuqonda, umehluko ongekho phakathi kwezinto noma izinto ezingaphaya kwamandla akho.
Okusemqoka ekususeni ezinhlungwini zenhliziyo ukuthi ungakhetha ukukhula ucebile kusuka kokuhlangenwe nakho noma ungene ekujuleni kokuphelelwa yithemba, ubambelele ngokuqinile enkazimulweni engenakulungiseka yobudlelwano obujabulisayo obake baba khona. Ngenkathi ukudedela umuntu obumthanda ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho kanye nokuchichima kobuhlungu kubuhlungu ngendlela exakile, ubuhle bokuhlala unethemba kulo lonke lokho kuwa, okwenza lokho okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kube yigugu ngempela.
Uma ushaye isikhathi esigcwele, uzama ukuthatha izingcezu zempilo ngemuva kokudabuka kwenhliziyo, nazi izingcaphuno zenhliziyo ezibuhlungu eziyi-11 ukukusiza uzwakalise ubuhlungu bakho futhi ubeke izinto ngombono wokuhlukanisa.
Ukuhamba kokugcina
Akulula neze, ngisho nakubantu abanamandla nabaqinile phakathi kwethu ukubaleka bengalimele ekulimaleni nasemonakalweni wesibambiso okuqubuka ukukhathazeka kwenhliziyo. Lezi zingcaphuno zihloselwe ukukusiza uthole ukuzwelana nobuhlungu bakho futhi uzwe umuzwa we-catharsis. Ngesikhathi esifanele, uzokwazi ukuzisusa uthuli uvuke uhambe uhambo lokuzitholela kanye nezinye izinjabulo empilweni, futhi.
Khumbula, nalokhu kuzodlula.