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- Ukwahlukaniswa kwabasebenzi nezimali
- Khetha izimpi zakho
- Izinto ezincane ezibalayo
- Yiba nesizotha futhi ungakhethi
Inkathi yanamuhla yehluke kakhulu kunaleyo yokhokho bethu nogogo nomkhulu. Siphila kuma-movie we-sci-fi (noma amanoveli, kunalokho) angaleso sikhathi. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu okuningi nsuku zonke akufani nanoma yini umkhulu nogogo wethu ababengayicabanga. Ukuthuthuka kwezobuchwepheshe kudala ukuthi ubudlelwano bethu buhluke futhi. Izinhlobo zobudlelwano ezijwayelekile namuhla bezingacabangeki. Ngisho nomshado wendabuko kwesinye isikhathi ucishe ufane nalokho okwakuyinto evamile ngaleso sikhathi. Kodwa-ke, kunezicucu ezithile zezeluleko ezinikezwe ugogo nomkhulu wakho ezingeke ziguge.
Ukwahlukaniswa kwabasebenzi nezimali
Ngezinsuku lapho ogogo nomkhulu bethu (futhi ikakhulukazi abazali babo) bebancane, into ejwayeleke kakhulu ukuthi owesilisa asebenze nokuthi owesifazane anakekele umndeni nezingane. Noma, uma umuntu wesifazane ayesebenza, imisebenzi yayimbi kangangoba yayingaze isondele nakulokho indoda eyayikuhola. Ukuhlukaniswa kwabasebenzi nezezimali kwakucacile.
Lapho kukhulunywa ngamalungiselelo afanayo nombhangqwana wanamuhla (ikakhulukazi abesifazane, kunjalo), abantu abaningi ngokwemvelo bayakhala CHA. Yize kunjalo, lesi seluleko singenziwa sivumelane nesikhathi sethu, ngoba sisekelwe kumgomo wokulingana - noma ngabe singaveli kanjalo. Kanjani? Kukhuthaza ukuthi bobabili abashadile babelane ngamalungelo nezibopho zabo ukuze kungabikho noyedwa osindwayo. Futhi lokhu kuyinto enhle.
So, emshadweni wakho wanamuhla, ungabambeleli emisebenzini “yabesifazane” neyabantu “besilisa”, kunjalo. Kepha, cabanga ukuthi ngubani othola isikhathi esiningi namandla, bese uhlukanisa izibopho zakho ngokufanelekile ngokusho kwalokho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umuntu eletha imali eningi ekhaya, kufanelekile ngomunye ukuthola izindlela zokunikela ngokulinganayo ngamakhuphoni, noma ngokwenza ukudla okwenziwe kahle ekhaya, isibonelo.
Khetha izimpi zakho
Ezinsukwini zakudala, lesi seluleko sasichaza kakhulu ukuthi abantu besifazane babe nekhono futhi, abanye bangaphikisana, bazithobe ngokweqile. Ngokwenzayo, ukukhetha izimpi zakho kwakusho ukuthi unkosikazi angaqali noma yiziphi izingxoxo ezazingabalulekanga kangako kuye noma engeke akwazi ukuzinqoba (ngomusa, kunjalo). Lokhu akusho ukuthi iseluleko sisho ukuthini kulezi zinsuku.
Noma kunjalo, kusamele ukhethe izimpi zakho emshadweni. Ubuchopho bomuntu busebenza ngendlela yokuthi buqondise ukugxila kwethu kokubi. Lapho sihlala nomunye umuntu, kuzoba nokuningi (ngokuvamile okuncane) okungalungile nsuku zonke. Uma sinquma ukuvumela izingqondo zethu zigxile kulokho, sizolahlekelwa yingxenye yomshado wethu.
Ngakho-ke, ngokuzayo lapho uzibamba ukhanyisa ngazo zonke izinto umyeni noma unkosikazi wakho angazenzanga noma angazenzanga kahle, zama ukumisa ingqondo yakho ekuguquleni ubudlelwane bakho bube ngumtholi wobuthakathaka koshade naye. Khumbula ukuthi kungani ushade nalowo muntu.
Noma, uma udinga ukuzivocavoca okunzima ngokwengeziwe, cabanga ukuthi bebehambe unomphela noma begula kakhulu. Ubungeke ubakhathalele uma beqhuzuka yonke indawo lapho bedla uthosi wabo. Ngakho-ke, phila usuku lwakho nsuku zonke unengqondo enjalo yokwenza umshado wakho ube nenjongo yangempela.
Izinto ezincane ezibalayo
Ngendlela efanayo, lapho sikhohlwa khona ukubona izinhlangothi ezinhle zabalingani bethu bempilo, sivame ukungakunaki ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincane emshadweni. Izenzo ezincane zomusa nezenzo zomzimba ezibonisa ukuthi sibakhathalele kangakanani. Abantu abashadile bathambekele ekulahlekelweni yizibopho eziningi, umsebenzi, ukungavikeleki kwezezimali. Sibathatha kalula abashade nabo.
Noma kunjalo, ubudlelwano bethu buyahlupheka uma sibuphatha njengefenisha. Zifana nezitshalo eziyigugu ezidinga ukunakekelwa njalo.
Ezinsukwini zakudala, amadoda ayeqinisekisa ukuthi alethela amakhosikazi awo izimbali futhi awathengele izipho ngezikhathi ezithile. Futhi abafazi babenza ukudla okuthandwa ngabayeni babo noma bahlele imicimbi yabo yosuku lokuzalwa. Usengakwenza lokho, kanye nezinye izinto eziningi ezingenakubalwa ukukhombisa ukwazisa kwakho nsuku zonke.
Yiba nesizotha futhi ungakhethi
Ukuba nesizotha kuzwakala njengokuthuka amadoda amaningi esimanje ikakhulukazi abesifazane. Kuzwakala kucindezela, futhi kuvusa isithombe somuntu ozithobayo, ozivikelayo nophethwe kabi. Ungangeni kuleli phutha futhi unganaki izeluleko ezibalulekile ngenxa yalo mbono oyiphutha.
Ukuba nesizotha akulingani nokuhlukunyezwa.
Emshadweni, bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane kufanele bazame futhi balawulwe yimigomo embalwa engaphelelwa yisikhathi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso, ukuziphatha okulungile, nomusa. Futhi uma uthembekile kuwe noshade naye ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi wenza ubumnene kukho konke okwenzayo, nakanjani uzozithola uthobekile futhi ungathobekile. Futhi lobu ubuhle, hhayi ububi.