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Olunye lomaye ovame kakhulu osukwini lwanamuhla nolwezinsuku esezadlula - uthando. Kungaba okungafuneki noma okuhlangene; uthando lungeminye yemizwa embalwa - uma kungenjalo umuzwa - ogcina ukukulimaza ekugcineni.
Sonke sikubonile kumamuvi futhi sezwa ngakho ezingomeni; luthando kanjani leso sifiso esivuthayo esikhipha inhliziyo yakho, sibilise igazi, futhi sicishe siye emgodini ongelamkhawulo futhi umhlaba uza phansi uzungeze thina.
Lapho wonke umuntu osizungezile ethanda kakhulu, izingoma zinengqondo futhi, umhlaba uyakhanya futhi unemibala; lapho okunye kwakho okuphawulekayo mayelana nakho kungabikezela ukuthi ukuphi noma ukuthi yini oyifunayo, noma kungafunda ingqondo yakho ngalokho ofuna bakwenze.
Ngamafuphi, konke kuphelele isithombe; futhi masingakhohlwa isiqubulo sangaphambilini samakhredithi, 'futhi bonke baphila kamnandi njalo.'
Iqiniso lihluke kakhulu
Inkinga ezweni lanamuhla ukuthi izinyoni zethu ezincane zothando ziwathathe kakhulu ama-movie nezinganekwane, futhi bayakholelwa noma balinde lowo muzwa wokuqothula umhlaba ukuthi uze ebusweni.
Izinyoni zothando zanamuhla zicabanga ukuthi ngandlela thile zingafinyelela ezingeni lokunethezeka noma ukusondelana njengoba zibona imibhangqwana eholayo kumabhayisikobho isebenza ngesikhathi esincane.
Abangaqapheli ukuthi izindaba zothando ezikumabhayisikobho zenzelwe ukuhlala ngaphakathi komkhawulo wesikhathi esilinganisiwe esinikeziwe, okungukuthi amahora amabili noma amabili nohhafu. Ngakho-ke, izinyoni zanamuhla zothando ziyashesha ukwenza futhi ngasikhathi sinye ziyeke uthando, futhi zenza into elandelayo esezintweni, zibhala izingcaphuno ezibuhlungu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana bese zizama ukuqhubeka.
Ngakho-ke, ngokusemqoka kwakho konke, luyini uthando lweqiniso? Ingabe konke kuwukukhohlisa? Ngabe asisoze sazizwa noma sathola uthando lweqiniso? Ingabe yenzelwe ama-movie kuphela? Noma kufanele sime emgqeni wakho konke ukuyeka uthando bese senza okufanayo? Ngabe kufanele sithi i-adieu bese silandela labo okumayelana nokuyeka ukuphola nobudlelwano?
Ukuqonda uthando empeleni
Into eyodwa eqashelwayo futhi eboniswa kahle kakhulu ngumqondo ongafanele wothando.
Kuma-movie, lapho umbhangqwana uthandana, bayasondelana, bacule izingoma, baqhubeke nezinsuku, bashade, babe nokulwa okuncane noma izingxabano, bese kuthi isiqubulo esithi, 'futhi bahlala kamnandi ngemuva kwesikhathi' bashaya izikrini zethu . Kodwa-ke, njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, ubudlelwane bangempela bangempela abuphelele.
Kuthatha umsebenzi, umusa, ukubekezela, ukuzidela, ukuyekethisa, kanye nokulinganisela okuningi; Ukuyeka uthando akusiyona indlela okufanele uhambe ngayo. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele umelane nesiphepho futhi ube ngumuntu omubi lapho ungenzi lutho olubi ngoba okubaluleke kakhulu; ukulunga noma ukuba nalowo ophethe inhliziyo yakho?
Ukuba sothandweni konke kungokomzwelo, yebo, kepha konke ukusebenza okuhilelekile nakho kuyabandakanyeka kukho.
Uyazi ukuthi kufanele ube nomthwalo wemfanelo, uthembeke, ulalele kahle, ube nekhono lokunikeza izinkulumo ezikhohlisayo.Kunokuningi okudingekayo kuwe uma uzizwa ufuna ukuqhubeka nobudlelwano.
Futhi ukuhlolwa kwangempela kobudlelwano noma ukuthandana kuza lapho kunokungezwani. Izimpi zingenza noma zibuqede ubudlelwano.
Ukuthembela, uthando, kanye nokwesekwa yizigxobo ezintathu eziba yisisekelo sakho sonke ikusasa lakho.
Ngakho-ke sebenzela ebudlelwaneni bakho bese uzama ukuba ngumuntu odingwa ngumlingani wakho, futhi ungachithi isikhathi ngokuthumela izingcaphuno ze-sappy ngokungalilahli uthando ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma amavesi ebhayibheli ngokungalilahli uthando.
Akulula neze
Umsebenzi odingwa ubuhlobo akusho ukuthi ngandlela thile awudalelwanga ukuba ube njalo; Kunzima noma kunzima, noma kudla konke ngoba kukufanele. Izimpi, izingxabano, ukungavumelani, zikufundisa ukuthi umlingani wakho umayelana nani.
Bayakufundisa ngemicabango yabo, nemizwa yabo, izifiso zabo, nenhliziyo yabo. Ngamafuphi, umzuzu nomzuzu ngamunye owusebenzisayo nomunye wakho obalulekile ukufundisa okuthile ngabo - bazithululela ngokoqobo ukuze ubone futhi uqhubeke, kufanele wazi kuphela ukuthi ungabheka kuphi.
Ama-tidbits ambalwa angakusiza ukuthi ube nombono ongcono kancane wokuthi kunjani ukuba sothandweni emhlabeni wangempela, ngakho-ke akudingeki ucabange ngokuyeka uthando kungekudala.
- Umsebenzi ophumelelayo akusho ukuthi ungakuthatha kalula okunye kwakho okubalulekile.
- Noma yini oyenzayo, ungacabangi. Impilo, ngokoqobo, imfishane kakhulu ukuthi ungaholi futhi uhlale ekhaya ucabanga ukuthi uma.
- Yeka ukuzingabaza wena, okunye kwakho okuphawulekayo, nothando lwakho. Usufike lapha; uzokwenza kube sekugcineni ngakho-ke cindezela yonke imicabango yokuyeka uthando.
- Lapho umuntu ethandana, basesigabeni sabo esisengozini enkulu. Sisizaneni ukuthi sikhule futhi siqonde ukuba khona komunye nomunye nesidingo sakhe esikhundleni sokulahla uthando masinyane.
Ungalilahli uthando
Emva kwakho konke ukulingwa nezinsizi, into eyodwa iqinisekile; awukho umuzwa ongcono kunokuthandwa.
Ukuthandwa ngumuntu umuzwa omuhle kakhulu emhlabeni. Unomlingani wakho ebugebengwini, umuntu ozokuxhasa, akunakekele, abe yihlombe lakho ukukhala kuye, nanoma yini odinga ukuthi babe yiyo. Lolo hlobo lwesibopho, noma kunzima ukwenza, kepha kufanelekile ukulindwa nokusebenza.
Ngakho-ke, zinyoni zothando ezisencane, ungacabangi ngokuyeka ukuthola uthando ekuqaleni kwesithiyo; kumane kuyisitobhu somgodi.