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- Intuthuko esuka kwezothando iye othandweni lweqiniso nokukhathazeka
- Qhubeka ngezipho ezihlukile nezisuka enhliziyweni
- 1. Igolide eligcotshwe nge-rose
- 2. Uhlaka lwesithombe olwenziwe ngezifiso
- 3. Ikhondomu
- 4. Ikhekhe
- 5. Imbiza yencwadi yothando
Uyayazi injabulo yobudlelwano obusha? Lapho konke kuzwakala kukuhle futhi kujabulisa? Akungabazeki ukuthi uhleka isikhathi eside kwi-prank yabo, uthatha isikhathi esiningi ugqoka usuku, noma uzama nokungeyona i-veg okokuqala kodwa ucabanga ukuthi uzoyizonda.
Uzithola ujatshuliswa yilo muntu omusha, ushintshashintsha izwi lakhe ngalinye, uzindla ngabo usuku lonke. Kuyinto elula ukubambeka endaweni yobudlelwano.
Intuthuko esuka kwezothando iye othandweni lweqiniso nokukhathazeka
Yize kukhona lapho kuphume khona indlela, okusha nokuxokozela kuqala ukuphuma. Ukuqhubeka kwayo kusuka kwezothando kuye othandweni lweqiniso nokukhathazeka. Yiso leso sikhathi lapho imilingo idlula khona. Yize ungazithola uphuthelwa isasasa owawunalo ngenkathi uqala ukuphola.
Ungakhathazeki ukuthi kukhona eminye yemibono yezipho emangalisayo ezobuyisa izinhlansi ebudlelwaneni bakho futhi ikwenze ukhanye futhi. Ukuthi izinhlansi sezihangukile akusho ukuthi azikwazi ukushiswa.
Ukunikeza isazi sokuphola uMadeleine Mason, ukugcina inhlansi iphila idinga izinto ezimbili ezibalulekile okungukuthi ukugcinwa kobudlelwano kanye nokwenza ngcono.
Ukugcina ubudlelwano ngokuyisisekelo kusho izinto ezijwayelekile okufanele uzenze, njengokuthengela umlingani noma kunjalo abantu abaningi abazikhathazi ngesici sokwenza ngcono esibaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuhlelela uhambo lwamaholide, ukuvuselela ikhaya omunye nomunye, ukuhlela usuku olungokwemvelo, ukumemezela ukulingiswa ekamelweni, ukukhumbula izinsuku zokuzalwa noma izikhumbuzo ngekhekhe elimnandi elifaneleka kakhulu uku-oda ikhekhe online ezitolo eziku-inthanethi, lenza imicimbi emincane efana Ukubheka ukuzitika ngeSonto konke kungavumela ngokuthuthuka ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Qhubeka ngezipho ezihlukile nezisuka enhliziyweni
Isihluthulelo ukwenza okuthile okufanele kube okuhlukile ngokwanele ukufaka uthando nenjabulo ebudlelwaneni. Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi yini ongayenza ungaqhubeka ngezipho ezihlukile nezisuka enhliziyweni.
Izipho ngokuqinisekile zizonika amandla okuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho futhi zivuselele izinhlansi futhi.
Nayi imibono yezipho emangalisayo ongayenza ngaphandle kokungabaza isipho umlingani wakho abuyise izinhlansi ebuhlotsheni bakho.
1. Igolide eligcotshwe nge-rose
Uma uzimisele ukufaka ukuthandana okwengeziwe ebudlelwaneni bakho bese uthatha usizo lwezimbali. Akukho okushoyo ngothando ngokweqile kunezimbali. Uphawu oluphelele lothando, ama-roses yizipho ezimangalisayo zomlingani. Hhayi-ke, kuthiwani uma ungabhangqa ubuhle be rose elilodwa nobukhazikhazi begolide?
Irose liyigugu likanokusho, njengemizwa yakho, eliyohlala unomphela. Lesi yisipho esihle ongasethula kumlingani wakho ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho esuka enhliziyweni.
Kuyisipho esifanele esimele lobo budlelwano abupheli uma uthando lukhona kuzo zombili izinhlangothi. Ngakho-ke, ngokungangabazeki unganikela kumlingani wakho ukuletha inhlansi ebuhlotsheni bakho njengale rose eligcotshwe ngegolide.
2. Uhlaka lwesithombe olwenziwe ngezifiso
Isipho esenzelwe wena sikhombisa umuzwa wokusondelana.
Kubonisa ukuthi umthumeli unamathele kangakanani ngokomzwelo kumamukeli. Phakathi kwezipho ezenziwe zaba ngezakho, amafreyimu wezithombe ayindlela ehlakaniphile yokukhumbula zonke lezo zikhathi ezimnandi imibhangqwana eyichithe ndawonye.
Ngakho-ke, ungavuselela ilangabi lothando ngokunikeza umlingani wakho uhlaka lwezithombe olwenziwe ngezifiso. Thola izithombe zenu nobabili ezibhalwe phezu kohlaka lwezithombe ngokulandelana kwazo.
Uma wethula lesi sipho kuhhafu wakho ongcono, ngokuqinisekile bazokhumbula zonke lezo zinkumbulo okufanele uzichithe ndawonye esikhathini esedlule. Lo mcabango uzophoqelela umlingani wakho ukuthi avuselele ubudlelwano.
3. Ikhondomu
Ubulili yingxenye ebalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano bendoda-unkosikazi noma intombi-nesoka. Noma kunjalo, abantu basenamahloni okuvuma ukuthi bafuna ukusondelana nomlingani wabo.
Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kochwepheshe, ubulili buyadingeka ebudlelwaneni bendoda-unkosikazi nentombi-nesoka. Uma kube negebe elikhulu ongazange uhlangane nalo nomlingani wakho, khona-ke kunamathuba aphezulu wokuthi ubudlelwano bakho bubonakala buthuntu.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele wenze okuthile ukubuyisa lezo zinhlansi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Nikeza umlingani wakho iphakethe lamakhondomu bese utshela ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukuvuselela ilangabi eliphelile manje.
Lesi sipho nakanjani sizonikeza isiqalo esihle ebudlelwaneni bakho.
4. Ikhekhe
Uma kukhulunywa ngesipho okufanele sihluke ngokwanele ukuncibilikisa inhliziyo yomlingani wakho futhi sinikeze injabulo eyengeziwe nezinhlansi ebudlelwaneni, amakhekhe ayisipho esihle kakhulu.
Yenza mnandi ama-buds wokunambitha womlingani wakho ngokunika ikhekhe elinisela umlomo. Ungaya futhi ngekhekhe lesithombe njengoba ikhekhe lesithombe lisendleleni manje. Noma ngabe ukude nengxenye yakho engcono futhi ufuna ukumjabulisa, kubuye kube lula ukwenza ikhekhe lesipho ngokuli-oda ku-inthanethi esitolo samakhekhe aku-inthanethi.
Ngakho-ke, qhubeka ufake izinhlansi ezibophweni zakho ngoku-oda ikhekhe elimnandi kumlingani wakho.
5. Imbiza yencwadi yothando
Tshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kungani ubathanda ngokujulile ngokwethula imbiza egcwele izinhlamvu zothando.
Bhala phansi imizwa yakho esuka enhliziyweni emashidini ahlukene bese uyifaka embizeni. Yethula lokhu kumlingani wakho ekuseni noma phakathi kwamabili nesipho kumlingani wakho. Umlingani wakho ngokuqinisekile uzoyincoma imizamo yakho yokubuyisa inhlansi ebudlelwaneni.
Kuyoba kuhle ukusho ukuthi ukubhala phansi imizwa emaphepheni kuyindlela eyenziwe yaba ngeyakho ukubonisa ukuthi umthanda futhi umkhathalela kangakanani umlingani wakho.