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- 1. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo
- 2. Zinikele enqubeni
- 3. Nikela umzamo okhethekile wokuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nomngane wakho womshado
- 4. Buyisela ukusondelana nokubonisa uthando
Yonke imishado ishaya ezindaweni ezimbi, kepha uma usebenza kanzima kungalungiswa. Noma sitshelwa kanjalo.
Ngeshwa, kwesinye isikhathi, noma ngabe wenzani, awukwazi ukuwenza usebenze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwesinye isikhathi, lapho wenza lokho obekufanele ukwenze, utshala lonke uthando namandla akho ebudlelwaneni bakho, uthola umvuzo ngomzamo wakho.
Ngakho-ke, ungawulungisa kanjani umshado wakho uma ubhajwe noma uhlasela isiphepho esifanele? Nawa amanye amathiphu angashintsha impilo yakho
1. Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo
Iningi lethu liyayizonda le ngxenye, ikakhulukazi uma usemaphethelweni okwehlukana noma isehlukaniso. Sincamela ukusola elinye iqembu nganoma yini okungenzeka ihambe kabi ebudlelwaneni bethu.
Asisho ukuthi awulimalanga noma awuzange woniwe. Kukho konke ukwethembeka, azikho izehlakalo eziningi lapho umlingani oyedwa kuphela omubi, kanti omunye ungcwele.
Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe kwenzekeni okufake umshado wakho enkingeni, izingqinamba zikhona izinto ozenzile noma obuzenza ezibe nomthelela ebunzimeni ebudlelwaneni.
Futhi yilokhu okufanele ugxile kukho njengesinyathelo sokuqala sendlela yakho yokulungisa umshado wakho. Okukhulu noma okuncane, kufanele ubhekane nengxenye yakho yenkinga.
Zibuze imibuzo mayelana nobuntu bakho, isimo sakho, nezenzo zakho. Ubukhuluma iqiniso? Ingabe ubuhlonipha? Ngabe ubhebhezele ngaphezu kwalokho obekudingeka kakhulu? Ubuwazi ukuxhumana nezidingo zakho nezikhalazo zakho? Ingabe uzwakalise uthando nokunakekela? Ngabe ubulawule intukuthelo yakho noma ubenomkhuba wokuqhamuka nenhlamba yokuthukwa noma nini lapho unganelisekile?
Konke lokhu nokunye okuningi, okuningi, yimibuzo okufanele ngabe uyazibuza yona nsuku zonke lapho usendleleni ebheke emshadweni wakho omusha onempilo. Into yokuqala ukubona nokwamukela amaphutha akho namaphutha akho. Uma usukwenzile lokho, thatha umthwalo ngezenzo zakho. Bese wabelana ngalokhu kuqonda nezinqumo noshade naye engxoxweni evulekile kodwa enomusa.
2. Zinikele enqubeni
Uma ususebenze ngezinkinga obekufanele uzisingathe, nalapho wenza isifungo sokushintsha izindlela zakho zokwenza izinto zisebenze, udinga ukuzibophezela enqubeni uqobo lwayo.
Kuzoba ngumgwaqo omude phambili, ungakhohliswa izithembiso zokulungiswa okulula. Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi imibhangqwana ezimisele ngokuzinikela ekwenzeni izinguquko ezidingekayo inamathuba aphezulu kakhulu okuphumelela ukusindisa imishado yayo.
Lokhu kuhumusha kanjani ukuthi kwenziwe?
Zilungiselele ukushintsha imikhuba yakho yansuku zonke, futhi ukhethe isikhathi esanele ongasichitha usebenza emshadweni wakho. Lokhu kusho izinto ezimbalwa. Uzodinga isikhathi esithile ukusebenzela ukuzithuthukisa kanye namakhono akho okuxhumana, mhlawumbe ufunde ezinye izincwadi zokuzithuthukisa. Kufanele futhi uvakashele umelaphi wezithandani ukukuqondisa kule nqubo.
3. Nikela umzamo okhethekile wokuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nomngane wakho womshado
Ekugcineni, okungenzeka ukuthi yingxenye emnandi kakhulu yalesi sinyathelo - kufanele unikele ngokuzikhandla ukuze uchithe isikhathi esithe xaxa, nesikhathi esithe xaxa sekhwalithi ngokuyinhloko, nomlingani wakho. Bona ukuthi ungazithola yini izintshisekelo ezabiwe ezintsha. Chitha ubusuku ngaphandle kwamakhompyutha noma izingcingo, nobabili kuphela. Thatha uhambo, uye kuma-movie, futhi nikhohlisane.
Qiniseka ukuthi ubeka okuningi kwemiyalezo engabalulekile eceleni kuze kube yilapho ubudlelwano bakho sebuphila futhi buqala futhi.
4. Buyisela ukusondelana nokubonisa uthando
Esinye sezici zokuqala zomshado okufanele zihlupheke lapho kunezinkinga zomshado ukusondelana. Lokhu kuhamba kokubili okwenzeka ekamelweni lokulala, nokushintshana kothando nsuku zonke, ukugonana, ukuqabulana, nokugonwa. Lokhu kuyaqondakala, ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane abakuthola kunzima ukuhlukanisa futhi bahlukanise ukusondelana ngokomzimba nokusebenza kobuhlobo bonke.
Ukubuyisa ukusondelana emshadweni wakho kuyinto ebalulekile yalolu hlelo. Njengokwedlule, kuzodinga ukwethembeka okukhulu, ukuvuleleka nokuzinikela. Futhi, kufanele futhi kube lula kakhulu ngemuva kokunakekelwa kwezinyathelo zangaphambili. Ayikho ingcindezi, vele uyithathe kancane njengoba udinga bese uqala ngengxoxo evulekile nganoma yiziphi izingqinamba ezingaba khona kulo mnyango.
Veza okuthandayo embhedeni, vula lokho okuthandayo nokungakuthandi, okufunayo, nokuthi yini okudingayo. Thatha leli thuba ungagcini ngokubuyisela ukusondelana kwakho ngokomzimba kepha ukuklame kabusha ukuze nobabili nibe phezulu emhlabeni. Kwenze kube ngumsebenzi wakho wansuku zonke ukushintshana ngothando ngohlobo oluthile lomzimba, noma ngabe ukuqabulana ngobumnene lapho uphuma uye emsebenzini, noma ucansi oluthinta ingqondo ngaphambi kokulala. Futhi umshado wakho ungabizwa ngecala eligciniwe!