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- 1. Chaza okufunayo
- 2. Qonda ukwehluka kwe-inthanethi
- 3. Qonda “isiko lewebhusayithi”
- 4. Funda ukuthi ungaziveza kanjani online
- 5. Funda ukuthumela imiyalezo
- Ungaphelelwa yithemba
- Qondisa ngqo “Kodwa ungasho kabi”
- Ayikho imigqa yokuthathwa (yamadoda)
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ukuthola ama-hookups kwakudinga umzamo. Ukwenze bukhoma, kungaba wedwa, noma ngosizo lomngani.
Namuhla, ungathola ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwesikhathi. Ungakwenza ngokuthandana online. Futhi ungakwenza lokho ngokunethezeka kwekamelo lakho lokulala. Kodwa-ke, uma uyenza online, qonda ukuthi yehluke kakhulu ezweni langempela. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi iseluleko sokuthwebula sendabuko asisebenzi (ingxenye enkulu).
Ngakho-ke, ngenzani? Qhubeka ufunde, futhi sizokusiza.
Ngezansi kukhona izinyathelo ezi-5 eziyisisekelo zendlela yokuthola ukuxhumana okungajwayelekile ku-inthanethi (noma ngabe kungokokuqala ngqa)!
1. Chaza okufunayo
Ngokumangazayo, akubona bonke abantu abachaza ama-hookups ngendlela efanayo. Kodwa-ke, kuyaqondakala ukuthi kubandakanya uhlobo oluthile lomzimba. Ngakho-ke ukuqabulana, ucansi, njll. Ngaphambi kokuya ku-inthanethi, chaza imikhawulo yakho (ibaluleke kakhulu kwabesifazane).
Qonda ukuthi kungani uxhuma phezulu, nokuthi uyichaza kanjani. Isibonelo, ingabe ukwenzela ukuthola umuntu ozoxoxa naye? Noma ingabe ukwenzela "umngane onenzuzo?"
2. Qonda ukwehluka kwe-inthanethi
Yebo, asikho isizinda sohlobo olulodwa kuphela. Ubuye ube "nezindawo zokuxhumana ze-niche," ezenzelwe izintshisekelo ezahlukahlukene. Isibonelo, ungazama amasayithi wokuthandana kwabantu bezinhlanga ezahlukene. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuthanda kwakho kungaba okungajwayelekile, noma, ungazama amasayithi we-BDSM (uma lokho kuyinto yakho).
Akunamahloni - Yi-Open Buffet. Futhi lokho kungenye yobuhle be-intanethi.
Lapho ufunda ukuthi ungakuthola kanjani ukuxhumana okungajwayelekile online, akudingeki ufihle noma yini. Vele uthole amawebhusayithi afanele, bese ukhuluma ukuthi ungubani. Futhi ngokushesha, uzothola abantu ababelana ngokuthanda kwakho.
Futhi ngikhuluma ngokuthola amawebhusayithi ...
3. Qonda “isiko lewebhusayithi”
Akuwona wonke amasayithi enzelwe ama-hookups. Ezinye zenzelwe ubudlelwano besikhathi eside nomshado. Abanye bakhethekile (basebenzela imiphakathi efana ne-LGBTQ).
Ngakho khetha amasayithi afanele. Awufuni ukuchitha amasonto uzama ukuthola ukuxhumana endaweni engafanele.
Izibonelo -
Unewebhusayithi efana neTinder. Akuyona iwebhusayithi yobudlelwano besikhathi eside. Uma kukhona, kufana nomthengisi “wokudla okusheshayo” wokuphola. Ngakho-ke kuyaziwa emhlabeni wokuphola online njengenethiwekhi yokuxhumana.
Sesha Endaweni! Akudingeki ukuthi uhambe phakathi nendawo ukuze uthole ukuxhumana. Qiniseka ukuthi lapho usesha, kungaphakathi kwekheli eliseduze. Uzozisindisela imali namahora angadingekile ezinhlelweni zokuhamba.
4. Funda ukuthi ungaziveza kanjani online
Lokho kungukhiye wokuthola umentshisi. Uma ubukeka ubudlabha futhi unothando, akekho noyedwa ozofuna ukuba nawe. Kepha uma unentshisekelo, abantu bazoxhumana nawe.
Kuthiwani uma ngingeyona intshisekelo? Ngemuva kwalokho zisebenzele ngaphambi kokufuna ukuxhumana okuku-inthanethi. Uma uphelelwe yisimo, sebenzela kulokho. Noma, uma unomuzwa wokuthi awunazo izinto zokuzilibazisa ezithokozisayo, sebenzela kulokho futhi.
Iphuzu ukuthi, lapho uxhuma phezulu, wenza kanjalo ngenxa yezinto ezi-1 kwezingu-2 -
- Ukubukeka kwakho
- Indlela yakho yokuphila
Uma ungabusiswanga ngokubukeka kosaziwayo, yazi ukuthi indlela yakho yokuphila ingukuqala kwakho. Futhi ukuntuleka kwendlela yokuphila ethokozisayo kuzoxosha ukuxhumana okuningi ozama ukukuthola.
5. Funda ukuthumela imiyalezo
Yebo, ukuthumela imiyalezo (njengolimi lomzimba) kuyikhono lokwenza kahle. Kunesikhathi, ukuthi ubhala kanjani, kanye nethoni engemuva kwemibhalo yakho. Ngezansi kunemithetho embalwa elula okufanele uyikhumbule lapho uthumela imiyalezo ...
Ungaphenduli ngemizuzwana yokuthola umyalezo. Awusona isisebenzi senkonzo yamakhasimende. Esikhundleni salokho, yinike isikhathi. Imizuzu embalwa (noma ihora) ngaphambi kokuba impendulo ibe yinhle. Shintsha isikhathi sakho sokuphendula. Ngokwenza lokho, funa ukuthi uneshejuli, lapho uku-inthanethi ngezikhathi ezithile.
Vele uqonde. Thembeka, futhi ukhulume ngezitatimende ezicacile. Kukuzuzela inhlonipho ethe xaxa kusuka kumathemba. Ukuba oqondile kubeka okulindelekile okucacile phakathi kwakho nelinye iqembu. Ngakho-ke kulula ukuqonda izidingo zomunye nomunye futhi usethe nezinsuku.
Okokuqala, azisebenzi engxoxweni. Basebenza kuphela bukhoma (uma kwenzeka).
Okwesibili, zikhulile futhi zinobuntwana. I-Pickup isu elidala elisetshenziswe eminyakeni eminingi eyedlule futhi bekuyindlela yokufa iminyaka.
Ngeke kukusize uthole ukuxhumana, ngaphandle kokuthi olunye uhlangothi ludangele.