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- "Uma uzwa owesifazane ethi:" Ngilungise uma nginephutha, kodwa ... "- Ungalinge umkhuze!"
- "Izithandani ezishintsha isimo sazo se-Facebook zibe" Ezingashadile "ngemuva kokulwa okuncane zifana nomuntu obengalwa nabazali bazo abeke" Intandane "njengesimo sabo"
- “Ubudlelwano bufana nendlu - uma isibani sikhanya, awuphumi uyothenga indlu entsha; ulungisa isibani sikagesi ”
- "Uma owakwakho ekutshela ukuthi awusoze wamthola umuntu onjengaye, ungakhathazeki - yiphuzu lelo"
Kunezeluleko ezimbalwa zobudlelwano obuhlekisayo laphaya, eziningi zenzelwe ukukwenza uhleke ngento engakucasula ngenye indlela. Njengalowo oweluleka abesifazane ukuthi bathole owesilisa obahlekisayo, thola owesilisa onomsebenzi omuhle futhi ophekayo, ozomtotosa ngezipho, ozobabazeka embhedeni futhi ozothembeka - nokwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi lezi amadoda amahlanu awahlangani. Kusikhumbuza nje ukuthi akufanele silindele konke kumuntu oyedwa. Kepha, kukhona namahlaya ambalwa aphethe iqiniso kuwo futhi kufanele acatshangelwe. Nakhu abakhona.
"Uma uzwa owesifazane ethi:" Ngilungise uma nginephutha, kodwa ... "- Ungalinge umkhuze!"
Lesi seluleko nakanjani sizokwenza bobabili ubulili bahleke izigqoko zabo, nokuthi ngoba kuyiqiniso - ebudlelwaneni, ukulungisa owesifazane, noma ngabe usebenzisa ibinzana, kuvame ukuqala kwengxabano ende kakhulu. Futhi lokhu akubangelwa ukuthi abesifazane abakwazi ukuthatha ukugxekwa. Bangakwazi. Kepha, indlela abesifazane nabesilisa abaxhumana ngayo, ikakhulukazi lapho ukugxekwa kulenga emoyeni, yehluke kakhulu.
Amadoda ayizidalwa ezinengqondo. Yize lo mbono ungekho kwabesifazane, bathambekele ekungathobeli izingqinamba zokucabanga okunengqondo. Ngamanye amagama, uma owesifazane ethi: "Ngilungise" akusho lokho ngempela. Usho ukuthi: “Angikwazi ukuthi nginephutha”. Futhi lapho indoda izwa: "Ngilungise" iyaqonda ukuthi izolungisa noma yikuphi ukucabanga okungalungile noma izitatimende. Akayona. Hhayi lapho ukhuluma nabesifazane.
Funda kabanzi: Iseluleko Somshado Esihlekisayo Ngaye
Ngakho-ke, ngokuzayo lapho indoda izwa intombi yayo itshela ukuthi izokwamukela ukulungiswa uma kungalungile, akumele iwele ogibeni.Madoda, yize kungadala umuzwa omncane womqondo ogobile, sicela nicabangele lesi seluleko, futhi nazi - lokho enikuzwayo kukhulunywa akusikho okushiwoyo ngempela.
"Izithandani ezishintsha isimo sazo se-Facebook zibe" Ezingashadile "ngemuva kokulwa okuncane zifana nomuntu obengalwa nabazali bazo abeke" Intandane "njengesimo sabo"
Esikhathini samanje, ukuthambekela kwethu kwemvelo ekuboniseni futhi ekubeni yisidalwa senhlalo kuthole indawo enhle - imithombo yezokuxhumana! Futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi abaningi bavame ukumemeza konke okwenzekayo ezimpilweni zabo emhlabeni cishe ngesikhathi sangempela. Kodwa-ke, kufanele ucabange ukuthatha lesi seluleko, njengoba ubudlelwano busekhona, noma ngabe bangaki abantu abazi ngabo, indaba yabantu ababili kuphela.
Funda kabanzi: Iseluleko Somshado Esihlekisayo Sakhe
Abukho ubudlelwano obuthola inhlonipho obufanele uma umemezela emhlabeni ukuthi ube nokulwa okuncane (noma okukhulu). Akunandaba ukuthi yini imbangela neqembu elinecala, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi uxazulule inkinga ngokuphelele kubumfihlo ngaphambi kokumemezela okwenzeka empilweni yakho. Uma lokho kungeyona inkuthazo eyanele kuwe, cabanga ukuthi uzozizwa unamahloni kanjani lapho kufanele ukuguqule ubuyele kokuthi “Ebudlelwaneni” uma usuqabule ubuyisane nomlingani wakho futhi uthole ukuhalaliselwa komphakathi ngokuba ngumshintshi wesimo sokuxhamazela.
“Ubudlelwano bufana nendlu - uma isibani sikhanya, awuphumi uyothenga indlu entsha; ulungisa isibani sikagesi ”
Yebo, kukhona nolunye uhlobo lwalesi seluleko ku-intanethi, olwenza into enjengokuthi: “ngaphandle kokuthi indlu ilele * * * lapho kwenzeka ushise indlu bese uyothenga entsha, engcono” . Kepha ake sigxile kulena, sicabanga ukuthi kukhona kuphela isibani esingalungile endlini.
Kuyiqiniso, akufanele ube ngqongqo futhi ulindele ukuthi umlingani wakho uzoba isidalwa esiphelele. Nawe awuyena. Ngakho-ke, uma kunenkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho, funa izindlela zokuyilungisa, kunokugxeka bonke ubudlelwano. Kanjani? Ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo, asisoze sakugcizelela lokho ngokwanele. Inkulumo yokukhuluma, futhi uhlale uqinile.
"Uma owakwakho ekutshela ukuthi awusoze wamthola umuntu onjengaye, ungakhathazeki - yiphuzu lelo"
Futhi, ekugcineni, nansi eyodwa ezokunikeza ongikhethayo lapho uhlukana nothile. Ukwehlukana kunzima, njalo. Futhi, uma ubudlelwane bebubucayi, uzohlala unokungabaza ngokushiya umlingani wakho. Futhi, umlingani uvame ukuphendula ezindabeni ngendlela eshiwo ngenhla, okungenza kube nzima kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ngenkathi uthatha isinqumo sokuhlukanisa izinto, kungenzeka ukuthi wenze lokhu kukhetha njengomphumela wokucabangisisa kahle futhi ngenxa yokungafani ongeke usakwazi ukubekezelela. Iphuzu ukuthi - ukungatholi isoka / intombi efanayo ne-ex yakho, nezinkinga ezifanayo, ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki ngakho!