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- Umshado ibhizinisi elihlekisayo
- Izeluleko ezibalulekile zempilo yomshado ejabulisayo
- Ngezansi kunezeluleko ezihlekisayo zomkhwenyana zokugcina umshado usesimweni esifanele:
Wonke umuntu uyavuma ukuthi ukuhleka umuthi omuhle kakhulu futhi kufanele kube namahlaya emshadweni ukuqinisekisa impilo ende yomshado. Amahlaya emshadweni aqinisekisi impilo yomzimba kuphela kepha futhi athuthukisa impilo yomshado. Kungazwakala kungajwayelekile kwabanye abakhwenyana, kepha umshado ojabulisayo uholela ekwanelisekeni impilo yonke, uthando, nobungane.
Umshado ibhizinisi elihlekisayo
Umshado uyindawo enhle, ejabulisayo, engcolile, enesizotha, futhi yokuzama ukuba kuyo. Lapho uthola umuntu othandana naye, lowo okhethekile ongeke uzicabange ephila ngaphandle kwakhe, udinga ukusebenza kanzima ukuze ugcine isibopho sakho siphilile futhi siqinile.
Izeluleko eziningi zomshado zivame ukuqina futhi zibucayi njengoba ukwakha nokuchitha impilo yakho nomuntu oyedwa kuyibhizinisi elibucayi, kepha njengakho konke okunye empilweni, kukhona uhlangothi oluhlekisayo nolulula emshadweni. Izeluleko ezinikezwa ngendlela ehlekisayo kungenzeka ukuthi zisebenze kangcono futhi zinamathele engqondweni kunalezo ezinikezwe ngendlela yokuzincoma.
Izeluleko ezibalulekile zempilo yomshado ejabulisayo
Ukuzibophezela kuyisinyathelo esikhulu sendoda nokwenza umshado usebenze umkhwenyana kufanele enze umzamo owengeziwe. Wonke umuntu uyakwazisa ukuhlekisa okuncane futhi ikakhulukazi emshadweni lapho kunenhliziyo elula, kuba ngcono.
Ngezansi kunezeluleko ezihlekisayo zomkhwenyana zokugcina umshado usesimweni esifanele:
1. Imishwana emibili ebalulekile okumele umkhwenyana ayifake esilulumagama sakhe - 'Ngiyakuqonda' nokuthi 'Uqinisile.'
2. Iseluleko esibalulekile, esihlekisayo kumkhwenyana ukuthi 'yebo' kaningi. Vumelana nomkakho ukwenza kubonakale sengathi uqinisile esikhathini esiningi.
3. Uma ufuna ukuphuma uye ephathini noma esidlweni sakusihlwa uqambe amanga ngaye mayelana nesikhathi. Njalo zinike iwindi lokuphepha lemizuzu engu-30 kuye kwengu-45. Lokhu kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi unkosikazi wakho uzobukeka emangalisa futhi uzofinyelela ephathini ngesikhathi.
4. Abesifazane baqamba amanga. Noma nini lapho esho okuthile ngabangane bakho nomndeni wakho ungalaleli amazwi akhe, lalela ama-nuances. Uma ethi ungahamba nabangani bakho masonto onke noma ukuthi ungacela abazali bakho nge-brunch yangeSonto masonto onke, kungenzeka ukuthi uqamba amanga.
5. Lesi seluleko esihlekisayo somkhwenyana sizokhipha ukungaboni ngaso linye okuningi ehlathini. Ungalokothi utshele umkakho ngesipho ocishe wasithola. Mthathele isipho bese umumangaza.
6. Ungalindeli isidlo sakusihlwa lapho ufika ekhaya. Kuleli khulu lama-21 lapho abesifazane bengeyona kuphela imisebenzi yokulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa.
7. Esinye iseluleko esihlekisayo kumkhwenyana ukuthi uma ufuna unkosikazi wakho alalele lokhu okushoyo ngaleso sikhathi khuluma nomunye umuntu wesifazane. Nakanjani uzokunaka.
8. Uma ekhala kwesinye isikhathi myeke. Uyayidinga!
9. Zilungiselele ukushintsha amanabukeni futhi ucule izingoma ezilula phakathi kwamabili lapho izingane ziqhamuka. Ngenxa yokuthi umkakho ubazalile ungalindeli ukuthi athathe umthwalo owodwa.
10. Thola izindlela zokumbonisa ukuthi uyamthanda lokho akubandakanyi ucansi.
11. Lesi seluleko esihlekisayo kumkhwenyana akufanele sikhohlwe ngoba sizomsiza aphile impilo yokushada enokuthula iminyaka eminingi. Vuma lapho wenze iphutha kodwa ungasho lutho lapho uqinisile. Musa ukujabula phambi komkakho lapho umbonisa ukuthi unephutha.
12. Ungalokothi uncokole ngezinto ezibucayi njengesisindo sakhe, umsebenzi, abangane, noma umndeni. Kungenzeka angabatholi abahlekisayo futhi alimale ngokungazweli kwakho.
13. Ncoma umkakho kaningi. Mtshele ukuthi ubukeka emuhle kanjani engutsheni noma umdumise lapho enze okuthile okukhethekile ngesidlo sakusihlwa.
14. Uma ulwa, lala uthukuthele. Ungahlali ubusuku bonke ulwa. Ungaqala ekuseni lapho uhlanzekile futhi uvuselelwe kabusha.
Umshado akuyona into okufanele wesabe
Ungesabi ukushada. Uma uthola unkosikazi okahle, ungaba nempilo ejabulisayo, futhi uma ungatholi, uzoba yisazi sefilosofi. Kepha amahlaya eceleni, umshado uyisikhungo esihle. Awukwazi ukufunda ukwenza umshado wakho ube ojabulisayo ngamafomula noma ezincwadini zokufunda. Ungafunda njengoba uqhubeka ngokugcina engqondweni okuthandayo nokungathandwa kanye nohlobo lomuntu oshade naye. Khuluma nomkakho. Mphathe njengomngane othandekayo nohlonishwayo.
Khumbula, ngaphambi komshado, wawukulungele ukudela impilo yakho ngenxa yakhe. Manje, okuncane ongakwenza ukubeka ifoni yakho eceleni bese uxoxa naye. Mkhiphele isidlo sakusihlwa. Ungacabangi ukuthi ngemuva kosuku lomshado ebusuku yinto yesikhathi esedlule. Landela lesi seluleko esihle kumkhwenyana, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzoba nomshado ojabulisayo.