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- Ukwazi umlingani wakho
- Ukufunda ukubhekana nokulindelwa okungagcwaliseki
- Uthando akuyona yonke into
- Izinselelo
- Ukusekela
- Setha isisekelo sobudlelwano obujabulisayo
- Kholwani omunye nomunye futhi nikhulume ngokukhululekile
- Awuwedwa
Akumangalisi ukuthi unyaka wokuqala wempilo yomshado uluhlobo olubucayi kakhulu. Ukuzivumelanisa nempilo entsha nokuhlala nomlingani wakho kuza njengento okunzima ukuyiphatha.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba kungabonakala kukusha, into yangempela ukuthi unyaka wokuqala ngemuva kokushada nomlingani wakho ubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho ezayo. Lokhu kungaba okulungile ezicini eziningi kangaka.
Ake sibheke ezinye ngezansi:
Ukwazi umlingani wakho
Ngonyaka wokuqala womshado, ujwayela yonke imikhuba ejwayelekile yomlingani wakho.
Uqala ukuzibona ngezindlela ezihluke ngokuphelele, lezo ongazazi. Futhi okubalulekile, ufunda ngomlingani wakho wonkana; abakuthandayo nabangakuthandi, ukwesaba kwabo, ukuthi bazisingatha kanjani izimo ezithile, nokuthi ukuphepha kwabo kuyini.
Ukungenisa imininingwane emisha kakhulu kungaba nzima kakhulu, kepha kubalulekile.
Ukufunda ukubhekana nokulindelwa okungagcwaliseki
Impilo ngemuva komshado akuyona indlela abayibonisa ngayo kumabhayisikobho nemibukiso.
Eqinisweni, kuhluke kakhulu. Akuwona wonke ama-rose nezimvemvane. Ngonyaka wokuqala womshado, kufanele ubhekane nobuhlungu benhliziyo lapho okulindelwe kungagcwaliseki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuliqiniso ukuthi umlingani wakho akasenguye umuntu ofanayo njengoba bavela ngaphambi komshado.
Indlela abakuphatha ngayo iyashintsha. Kuyadabukisa impela, kepha nawe kufanele ubhekane nakho.
Uthando akuyona yonke into
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi impilo yakho ayincikile kumlingani wakho.
Akudingeki babe nawe njalo ngomzuzwana owodwa wosuku. Kwesinye isikhathi, bangahle babe matasa ngomsebenzi nezinye izinto, ngakho-ke ungabazungezi ukuze unakwe. Ungenza izinto eziningi kakhulu uma uwedwa. Kodwa-ke kuzoba wusizo uma uziqonda izilimi ezibalulekile zothando ukuze wakhe uthando oluhlala isikhathi eside emshadweni wakho ngaphandle kokucindezela umlingani wakho.
Izinselelo
Lapho uzibophezela ukuchitha ingunaphakade nomuntu, akudingekile ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi impilo yakho ihlale ijabule.
Kuzoba nezinselelo eziningi zomshado, futhi impumelelo kuzoba ngokuthi wena nomlingani wakho nizinqoba kanjani njengeqembu. Kufanele ukholelwe ukuthi zonke izithiyo ezizama ukuvimba indlela yakho zizokwenza inkolelo yakho iqine kumlingani wakho.
Ngakho-ke, ungesabi kalula futhi ube nezingxoxo ezibalulekile zomshado ongcono.
Ukusekela
Unyaka wokuqala womshado wakho uvivinyo kubo bobabili abalingani.
Ngezikhathi zobunzima, ubuhlungu nosizi, udinga ukuba khona kwesinye isigamu sakho.
Yabelana ngosizi lwabo futhi ubenze babone izinto ezinhle.
Lapho umlingani wakho ezizwa ethanda ukunikela, yisho amagama okukhuthaza futhi uphakamisele umphefumulo wabo ohlangothini olukhanyayo.
Ngokufanayo, ngisho nasekuzuzeni kwabo okuncane kakhulu, gubha nabo futhi ukhulise ukuzethemba kwabo. Ukuba khona komunye nomunye ebunzimeni nasebubini kuyisihluthulelo somshado omude futhi onempilo.
Setha isisekelo sobudlelwano obujabulisayo
Veza uthando nomlingani wakho.
Batshele ukuthi bamangalisa kanjani nokuthi ubazisa kanjani ubukhona babo. Zama ukuncoma umlingani wakho noma imininingwane emincane kakhulu. Futhi, yazisa ukuthi impilo yakho ikhanye kanjani lapho befika. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, yiba nezingxoxo ezijulile nomngane wakho womshado.
Ngale ndlela, ungakha isisekelo esiqinile sobudlelwano bakho ngekusasa elijabulisayo.
Kholwani omunye nomunye futhi nikhulume ngokukhululekile
Yiba nokholo oluqinile kumlingani wakho. Lalela abakugcinele khona.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenkathi wenza noma yisiphi isinqumo esibalulekile, thatha izeluleko kubo. Khulumisana noshade naye lapho nisesimweni sokudideka. Lokhu kungabonakala njengesenzo esincane kuwe, kepha zonke izenzo ezincane ozenzayo zizoba nomthelela kumlingani wakho.
Awuwedwa
Ngemuva komshado, akekho kimi noma yimina.
Zonke izenzo zakho zizoba nomthelela othile ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi unakekele izenzo zakho. Futhi, ungacabangi nje ngokunethezeka kwakho odabeni oluthile kepha bheka nophathina wakho. Udinga ukubabheka futhi ubhekane nezidingo zabo ngoba kungumsebenzi omkhulu.
Kuliqiniso impela ukuthi le kungaba yiminyaka enzima kunazo zonke empilweni yakho, kepha okusemqoka ukuhlala uqine nokusebenza njengeqembu.