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- Isinyathelo 1: Funda ukuzithanda
- Isinyathelo 2: Thola okwangempela (ngaphandle kokwahlulela) mayelana nezindlela zakho zokuphola
- Isinyathelo 3: Yiba ngokungathandeki kuwe
Ukuthola ubudlelwano obufanele kuzwakala njengesihlava nje. Kunezinto eziningi ezihamba phambili ebudlelwaneni – ukukhanga, ukwethembana, ukwethembeka, ukuxhumana, ukusondelana, impilo yezocansi, njll. - okungazwakala sengathi alikho ithemba lokuthola lowo muntu ongachitha impilo yakho naye.
Ngilapha ukuzokutshela ukuthi likhona ithemba. Ukuthola umuntu "ofanele" akunzima ngoba akunakwenzeka. Kunzima ngoba sikwenza ngendlela engafanele. Sibheke ngaphandle emhlabeni futhi sethemba ukuthi singathola umuntu ozosiqedela, kunokuzibheka ngaphakathi kithi nokuzenza siphelele, kuqala.
Ukhiye wobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu ukusebenza kulowo onaye nawe.
Masikugijimise lokho emuva ngenjongo yokucacela.
Ukhiye wobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu ukusebenza kulowo onaye nawe.
Kungazwakala kunamathela kuwe, futhi uma kunjalo, makube yisiginali leyo okufanele uncike kuyo futhi unake. Ngombono wami, kunezinto ezintathu okudingeka uzilungise ngaphambi kokuba uthole ubuhlobo obufanele – noma, ake ubuhlobo obulungile bukuthole.
Landela izinyathelo, unake ngamunye ngokugcwele, futhi ubekezele ngenqubo. Ubudlelwano bakho bephupho sebusondele.
Isinyathelo 1: Funda ukuzithanda
Lesi mhlawumbe yisinyathelo esinzima kunazo zonke, kepha uma ungadlula kule hump, uzoba nomfutho omningi wokudlula ezinye ezimbili. Ukufunda ukuzithanda inqubo eyizigaba ezimbili: okokuqala, udinga ukwazisa amandla akho futhi ubuthakathaka bakho. Ngemuva kwalokho udinga ukubazisa futhi ubathande ngalokho abayikho.
Ukuze wenze okwangempela ngazo zombili izigaba zaleyo nqubo, udinga ukudala isikhala empilweni yakho. Dala ibanga phakathi kwakho nabantu abanobuthi abangahle bahlulele ukwahlulela kwakho. Zakhele isikhala ngokuzindla noma ngokuthatha into oyithandayo. Yenza noma yini ongayenza ukuze uzinike isikhala somqondo esidingekayo ukuze uhlale phansi uzibone ukuthi ungubani.
Yonke ingxenye yakho inenani. Jabulela kulokho okwaziyo, qonda lapho ungathuthukisa khona. Konke kuyimbiza emangalisayo yokuthi ungubani.
Nanku ukhiye, noma kunjalo: uma ungakwazi ukufunda ukubona ubukhulu bakho kukho konke okuhle nokubi ngawe, akekho omunye ozokwenza kanjalo. Kuze kube yilapho ubonga konke oyikho futhi ungumnikazi wakho, kuzohlala kunokungabaza okuncane ongakunikeza. Kufana ne- "hlobo lobudlelwano obuphindaphindayo" bezinhlobo. Abantu bazozizwa bengangabazi futhi bangafuni ukuhlanganyela kulowo mthwalo.
UNGADLALI LESINYATHELO.
Indlela oziphatha ngayo iyi-billboard ekhombisa wonke umuntu ukuthi kufanele uphathwe kanjani. Qiniseka ukuthi lowo myalezo muhle.
Isinyathelo 2: Thola okwangempela (ngaphandle kokwahlulela) mayelana nezindlela zakho zokuphola
Manje njengoba usuzifundele okungcono kancane (ngeke kupheleliswe, singabantu kuphela), sekuyisikhathi sokwenza uhlu oluthile ngokudlule kwakho.
Hlobo luni lwabantu oke wajola nalo?
Konakelephi ebudlelwaneni bakho?
Izenzo zakho zibambe iqhaza elingakanani ekuqothulweni kwalobo budlelwano?
Njengoba ubheka emuva ebudlelwaneni bakho obubucayi bangaphambilini, uzoqala ukubona iphethini. Ungaqaphela ukuthi ukhethe abantu obazi ukuthi ngeke ubathembe ukuze uzokwazi ukuphuma kalula uma beziphethe kabi. Ungaqaphela ukuthi abantu obanamathele kubo bebengenzanga okuningi ezimpilweni zabo. Mhlawumbe ubufuna ukuzizwa uphakeme, noma mhlawumbe ubufuna ukuba maphakathi nomhlaba wabo.
Noma ngabe yikuphi, bheka lawo maphethini ukuthi ayini. Zibonise umusa othile. Yiba nomusa kumuntu wakho wangaphambili. Sonke sinamaphutha, awuhlukile.
Manje njengoba usuyazi ukuthi yimaphi amaphethini akazange sebenza, qala ukushintsha izinto. Yenza umzamo oqinile wokugwema abantu abakukhumbuza ngokudlule kwakho. Shintsha ngamabomu lapho uphuma khona noma imiphi imisebenzi ohlanganyela kuyo.
Ukwenza izinto obuzenza esikhathini esedlule ngeke kukulethele imiphumela engcono esikhathini esizayo. Vuma lapho wenze iphutha, bese uguqula lokho kuziphatha ukumema abantu abangcono emhlabeni wakho.
Isinyathelo 3: Yiba ngokungathandeki kuwe
Lesi sinyathelo sijabulisa kakhulu, ngoba siyisihlungi sokugcina. Uzokhipha abantu abangakulungele kahle, bese udweba labo abakulungele. Ingahle ihlikihle abanye abantu ngendlela engafanele, kepha uma kwenzeka ... isikulufa ’em.
Lapho usuwenzile umsebenzi wokuzithanda kakhudlwana, futhi wazi izinyathelo zakho zesikhathi esedlule, ungangena ezicathulweni obekuhloswe ukuthi uhambe kuzo sonke lesi sikhathi. Uzokhipha ukuzethemba futhi ube ngumazibuthe kubantu abasezingeni eliphakeme abazokwazisa zonke izingcezu ngokuba kwakho.
Ingabe uzozizwa ungakhululekile ekuqaleni? Impela.
Kepha kuzoba nobuhle obengeziwe lapha kunanoma yini ohlangabezane nayo esikhathini esedlule njengoba ukhubeke usuka komunye nomuntu waya komunye. Lokhu kuzoba yisibonakaliso sakho emhlabeni ukuthi usukulungele noma ngubani ongakuphatha.
Lowo muntu uzovela, ngiyakuthembisa.
Lezi zinyathelo ezintathu ziyigolide, futhi uzoba ohlakaniphile uma uzinika ithuba uma ufuna uMnu noma uNkk Right wakho. Baphandle lapho, kepha ngeke bathole indlela yabo uze uqale ukuzithanda futhi ukukhombise lokho ezweni elikuzungezile.
Ngikufisela inhlanhla. Sekuzoba kuhle impela kuwe.