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Impilo ngemuva kwesahlukaniso ayikaze ibe lula kunoma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane futhi ukuqala kabusha impilo ngemuva kwesehlukaniso kwabesifazane kunzima.
Owesifazane ohlukanisile uzizwa engavikelekile ngekusasa lakhe elingabonakali futhi adlule ezikhathini zokuqaqamba kwenhliziyo. Kodwa-ke, akusho ukuthi isehlukaniso sisho ukuthi impilo yakho isiphelile. Ngezinye izikhathi kungaba yithuba lokulandela amaphupho akho angagcwaliseki nezifiso zakho empilweni yize kunezinselele zempilo ngemuva kokuhlukanisa kwabesifazane.
Abesifazane abahlukanisile emhlabeni wonke banezinselelo ezifanayo, kepha impilo yowesifazane ohlukanisile eNdiya igcwele kakhulu ukucwaswa komphakathi. Kusukela empilweni eyehlayo, ebekeke engcupheni, ukuxhaphaza amadoda, ukunakekela izingane nokuzivikela emiphumeleni yesehlukaniso, nasezinkulumweni ezinomphakathi ezibhekene nazo, babhekana nakho konke lokho.
Ezikhathini ezinzima kangaka, izindaba zempumelelo ngemuva kwesahlukaniso zingakubuyisela ukuzethemba kwakho futhi zikunike amandla okwenza amathuba ngekusasa. Uma laba besifazane abaphumelele abahlukanisile bengavuka emlotheni futhi bazidwebe ngokwabo, likhona ithemba nakwabanye.
Uma uzithola ubuza, ingabe impilo ingcono emva kwesehlukaniso, khona-ke lezi zindaba ezinhlanu zempumelelo yesehlukaniso zizovuselela ukholo lwakho empilweni namathuba wesibili enjabulo.
Nalu uhlu lwabesifazane aba-5, okuthi ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, bavuka emisebenzini yabo ngokuphawulekayo ngezinto ezingcono empilweni.
1. USheryl Sandberg
USheryl Sandberg njengamanje uyiChief Operating Officer kuFacebook, phambilini eke wasebenza nezikhondlakhondla ezinkulu ezifana neGoogle neWorld Bank. Wake weluleka abesifazane ethi, "Ubani ozoshada naye yisinqumo esisodwa esibaluleke kakhulu somsebenzi osenzayo". Useke washada kabili. Umshado wakhe wokuqala noBrian Kraff uthathe unyaka futhi wahlukanisa kungekudala. Ngemuva kokuhlukana noBrian Kraff, uSheryl uqhubeke nomsebenzi wakhe ngokuzimisela okukhulu.
Impilo yakhe ingena kahle esigabeni sokuthola injabulo ngemuva kwezindaba zempumelelo yesehlukaniso.
Uye wamukelwa njengomunye wabaphathi besifazane abaphumelele kakhulu eSilicon Valley waze washicilela nesikhumbuzo sabesifazane Ncika phakathi. Akungabazeki ukuthi uyisibonelo esihle sowesifazane webhizinisi ogxile emsebenzini.
Uma ubheka isehlukaniso sikaSheryl Sandberg, uzobona ukuthi impilo ayikaze iguquke kuye nangemva kwesehlukaniso, kunalokho waqhamuka njengomuntu obalulekile. Uphefumulelwe?
2. UWendy Davis
UWendy Davis ungummeli futhi ungusopolitiki. Wayemele isiFunda se-10 eSenate yaseTexas kusukela ngo-2009 kuya ku-2015. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba abe ngusopolitiki, uWendy wadivosa eneminyaka engama-21, wayesokola ukuthola indodakazi yakhe.
Impilo ngemuva kwedivosi yabesifazane igcwele zonke izinhlobo zezinselelo, futhi uWendy wahlangabezana nesabelo sakhe sezinxushunxushu. Ukuze asinde, wasebenza njengoweta nasehhovisi likadokotela ngenkathi efunda ekolishi lomphakathi.
Ngemuva kokuphothula iziqu zakhe eHarward Law School, wakhonza eMkhandlwini waseFort Worth City lapho athola khona isihlalo saseFort Worth eTexas Senate ngo-2008. Uyiqhawe impela futhi impumelelo yakhe ngemuva kwesehlukaniso iyisibonelo esihle sokwakha kabusha impilo ngemuva kwesahlukaniso sabesifazane .
3. U-Elizabeth Gilbert
Umbhali odumile u-Elizabeth Gilbert wacishe wahlukana ngemuva kokuhlukanisa nomyeni wakhe wokuqala. Waze wahlupheka kakhulu. Kamuva esevile eminyakeni engu-30, waqala ukuhamba, esuka e-Italy waya eNdiya futhi wabhala incwadi yakhe Yidla, Uthandaze, Uthandane okwaba yimpumelelo enkulu kuye.
Manje ushade noJose Nunes ngo-2007 futhi uqhuba isitolo sokungenisa impahla eBalinese. Indaba yempilo yakhe ingenye yezindaba ezikhuthaza kakhulu zesehlukaniso, lapho ukubhekana nesehlukaniso kwakungekhona okokuzidabukela. Wazulazula ezindleleni ezingaziwa zokuphila futhi waba ngomunye wabesifazane abadivosa kakhulu.
4.UKaty Perry
Lo mculi oneminyaka engama-27 ubeshade noRussell Brand futhi wahlukanisa ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyi-14 beshadile. Umculi wengoma akazisoli nakancane ngomshado wakhe ongaphumelelanga. Usaziwa nangokuthi ukuzwa komculo we-pop.
Uthe kwinhlolokhono, “Ngisakholelwa othandweni nasemshadweni. Ngisanda kufunda izifundo endleleni. Angizisoli ngalutho. ” Ungugqozi oluhle lokuphila okujabulisayo nokwanelisayo ngemuva kwesehlukaniso sabesifazane.
5. UKim Kardashian
UKim Kardashian uhlukanisile kabili, okokuqala kuDamon Thomas eneminyaka engama-24 bese kuba uKris Humphries eneminyaka engama-32. Isehlukaniso sakhe simfundise ukuthatha izinto kancane ebudlelwaneni.
UKim uzimisele kakhulu kusukela ebuntwaneni. Ngaphambi kokuba ngusaziwayo, ubesebenza ezitolo ezidayisa kakhulu futhi enza imali ngokuthengisa izinto ku-eBay. Manje ushade noKayne West futhi ushade naye ngenjabulo.
Laba besifazane bangumthombo omkhulu wokugqugquzela ukuvusa impilo ngemuva kwesahlukaniso sabesifazane, okufakazela ukuthi isehlukaniso asikona nje ukuphela kwempilo; kunalokho ube nethuba lokuzivuselela kabusha unomphela.