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Yebo, yonke imindeni engajabule ayijabule ngendlela yayo, futhi yonke imindeni ehlukumezayo inama-nuances angenamkhawulo.
Wonke umuntu angaba yisisulu sokuhlukunyezwa ngumndeni, kungakhathalekile ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki, ubulili, izinga lemfundo, isimo sezomnotho - kungakhathalekile ukuthi unayiphi inhlobo yomuntu ngamunye. Udlame luphakamisa amandla athile ebudlelwaneni, futhi luyinkimbinkimbi njengabo bonke abathintekayo.
Le misebenzi yokuguquguquka iba yisicefe ngokuphelele kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni, kepha futhi cishe akunakwenzeka ukuhlukana nayo. Isizathu silele kumdlalo wokuzithokozisa wamandla nokulawula.
Umjikelezo obhubhisayo
Noma ungekho noyedwa umndeni ohlukumezayo ofanayo, kunezici ezithile ezijwayelekile zalobudlelwano.
Ukuhlukumeza kuvame ukwenzeka emijikelezweni. Umndeni udlula ezikhathini zokuzola ngaphambi kwesiphepho, lapho, noma ngabe izinto zinokuthula okuningi ngaphandle, isimo sishuba futhi isiqephu esikhulu sokuhlukunyezwa nobudlova akunakugwenywa.
Ihlanganiswe namasu abhubhisayo okuqinisa amandla phezu kwezisulu zokuhlukunyezwa ngumndeni, imvelo enjalo enesihluku imvamisa iholela empilweni yokuzethemba, ukukhathala ngokomzwelo nokwesaba.
Umdlalo wamandla nokulawula, (ngokungathandi) odlalwa yilungu ngalinye lomndeni, ugcinwa ngokungavikeleki. Bobabili isisulu kanye nomhlukumezi abazethembi futhi banesidingo esijulile kodwa sokugula komunye nomunye. Umhlukumezi wesaba ukuthi uzobonisa ukuthi akazethembi kangakanani futhi uyesaba ukubukeka ebuthakathaka. Kodwa-ke, ukholelwa ngokujulile ukuthi (s) akathandeki. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isisulu sinovalo lokuthi asithandeki ngokujwayelekile futhi siyathandwa ngumhlukumezi.
Ngakho-ke, bobabili bayakwamukela ukungaqiniseki kobudlelwano babo - ukusabela okungahambelani nothando olungahambelani. Kodwa-ke, ekuboneni okungenamqondo okunjalo, kwakheka ama-bond aqinile ngokumangazayo, futhi kaningi sibona imindeni ehlukumeza kakhulu enamalungu ayo ebonakala ngathi ayikwazi ukwehlukanisa nokubeka imingcele.
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Udlalwa kanjani umdlalo wamandla nokulawula
Umdlalo onobuthi wamandla nokulawula uvame ukudlalwa ngumhlukumezi esebenzisa amaqhinga ahlukene ukubusa, futhi isisulu sizithoba kuwo ngenxa yokwesaba ukwenqatshwa nokungathandwa. Lokhu kuphenduka ukujaha okungapheli kokuvunywa nothando, okuza ngendlela engaguquki, kuqeda wonke amandla nenjabulo yesisulu.
Eminye yemizila ejwayelekile abahlukumezi abayijwayele ukuyisebenzisa ukumisa ngokuqinile iphethini ye-hegemony yilezi -
- Ukwesatshiswa: ukusebenzisa izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokwethusa, ukusebenzisa ukubukeka, amagama noma ukushukuma komzimba ukuvusa ukwesaba, kusikisela ukuthi uthando lubekwa ngokuziphatha kwesisulu “okulungile”, njll .; futhi, uhlobo olukhethekile lokusabisa nokuhlukumeza lwenzeka lapho umhlukumezi esongela (ngokusobala noma ngokufihla) ukuthi uzozibulala, ashiye, noma alimale nganoma iyiphi indlela, uma isisulu singaziphathi ngendlela ethile.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo: ukwenza isisulu sizizwe sinecala futhi sinecala lokuhlukumeza, ukuhlambalaza, ukululaza, ukubiza amagama, okwenza sizizwe singavikelekile, singenele futhi singenakuzisiza, njll.
- Kusetshenziswa ukubusa kwezomnotho: ukusebenzisa imali nempahla ukwenza isisulu sithumele (“... ngenkathi ungaphansi kophahla lwami ...”, “... uzofa ulambile ngaphandle kwemali yami yokukhokha!”)
- Ukuhlukanisa isisulu nomhlaba wangaphandle: lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kube ukuhlukaniswa ngokuphelele, kepha ukwehlukanisa isisulu ngokwenyama noma ngokwengqondo noma kubangani baso, amanye amalungu omndeni, noma amathonya angaphandle kuqinisekisa ukuthi (s) uyozizwa esaba kakhulu ukulahlekelwa uthando lomhlukumezi nokuningi angabanjwa yinoma yini umhlukumezi amtshela yona.
Vele, lawa maqhinga wonke afaka izindlela ezithile ezicashile zokuhlukumeza. Izinhlobo eziqonde ngqo zokuhlukumeza nodlame emndenini (ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngokocansi) ziwela ngaphansi komkhakha ofanayo futhi azihlukile kakhulu esisekelweni sazo. Lokhu kumane nje kuyizimpawu ezinamandla kakhulu futhi ezingaba yingozi kakhulu zezidingo ezifanayo nokungavikeleki.
Kodwa-ke, ngisho nokuhlukunyezwa okungacacisiwe kungaholela ekulimaleni okukhulu, futhi akufanele neze kuthathwe kalula ngoba ukwenzakala komzimba akukenzeki. Kungakho kubalulekile ukubona nokuzama ukuguqula amaphethini nemikhuba emibi yomndeni.
Ukuhlala emndenini ohlukumezayo kaningi kunzima njengokuthola izindlela zokuwushintsha.
Ukufakaza noma ukuhlukunyezwa komndeni njengesisulu kungalimaza izingane ezineminyaka yobudala engathatheki. Izinto eziguquguqukayo eziyinkimbinkimbi ziyinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe iqiniso lokuthi cishe akukaze kwenzeke ukuthi amalungu amabili omndeni ahlanganyele ebudlelwaneni obungenampilo. Ilungu ngalinye linendima yalo ekulondolozeni ukuhwebelana ngezifo, okuningi okuyizimpendulo ezingahlosiwe ngokuphelele futhi ezizenzekelayo. Kungakho ukwenza ushintsho kuvame ukungenzeki uma kungewona umzamo ohlanganyelwe, imvamisa uqondiswa ngumelaphi.
Yize kunjalo, kungumzamo ofanele isikhathi sethu namandla, njengoba iningi lemindeni lingashintsha futhi libe yizindawo zothando nezokuphepha.
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