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Ochwepheshe bachaza umshado njengobunye nobambiswano obulinganayo phakathi kowesifazane nowesilisa.
Kuza kithi kusuka esandleni sikaNkulunkulu, owenza ngomfanekiso wakhe, owesilisa nowesifazane. Nawo-ke, angumzimba owodwa futhi ayozala futhi ahlukane. Imvume engenakuphikwa phakathi kwabalingani bempilo yenza umshado uphile.
Kulesi sigunyaziso nasekugcwalisekeni ngokocansi komshado isibopho esiyingqayizivele sivela phakathi kwezithandani. Lesi sibopho sihlala isikhathi eside, sikhethekile futhi sihle. Lobu budlelwano obukhethekile busungulwe uNkulunkulu; ngakho-ke ngeke ihlukaniswe kalula kanjalo.
Yini injongo yomshado?
Ukuqhubeka, ukukhetha wedwa, nokuzinikela kubalulekile emshadweni ngoba kukhuthaza futhi kuvikela izizathu ezimbili ezifanayo zomshado. Lezi zizathu ezimbili ezikhona ukuthuthuka othandweni olwabiwe phakathi kwabalingani bempilo (okungabambisene) nokunakekelwa kwezingane (ukuzala).
Abantu bavame ukwehluleka ukuqonda ukuthi iyini injongo yomshado. Uthando olwabiwe lwabashadikazi luyimpande yokuqhuma kwempilo enhle ezayo.
Ukuhloniphana nokuhlangana kufanele kugxilwe kuqala. Kuyadingeka ukuthi imibhangqwana ibone umshado wayo osiletha ndawonye. Kuyisibopho esenziwe ukuthi sihlale isikhathi eside kakhulu empilweni yomuntu. Ngokufanayo, uyini umshado uma ungahlanganisi imiphefumulo emibili kunemizimba emibili.
Umshado ngendlela enelayisense
Umbuzo manje uvela wokuthi yini ilayisensi yomshado futhi kungani uyidinga? Umqondo wonke womshado ugxile ekutholeni ilayisense lomshado.
Umbiko okhishwe yisiphathimandla esiphezulu esenza ukuthi abantu ababili bakwazi ukushada. Ukuthola ilayisense yomshado kusho ukuthi uvunyelwe ngokusemthethweni ukushada nomuntu omkhethile, hhayi ukuthi ushade ngempela.
Ukuze bathole le layisense, abazoba weds kufanele bavakashele ihhovisi le-ejenti yendawo besuka lapho beshada khona. Imvamisa ziza nezindleko ezibalelwa ku- $ 36 naku- $ 115uma uzoba nomshado lapho uya khona, wenze le mibhalo yenziwe ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu.
Ngaphandle kwesimo sakho sokuzalwa, ungathola ilayisense ezweni ozohlala kulo.
Kunoma ikuphi, yonke imibhalo iyahlukahluka kuye ngesifundazwe. Qiniseka ukuthi awuzifaki esimweni lapho kufanele usheshe khona izinto. Ilayisensi yomshado ingeyesikhathi esithile — mhlawumbe njengezinsuku ezingama-30. Kodwa-ke, amalayisense ambalwa athi asemqoka unyaka wonke. Izifundazwe ezimbalwa zikwenza ukwazi ukuthola ilayisense lomshado ngosuku olufanayo nomshado wakho; abanye banesikhathi sokubamba mhlawumbe samahora angama-72 noma ngaphezulu.
Lapho uzothola imvume yomshado, letha ubufakazi obuyiqiniso.
Izifunda ezahlukahlukene zazisebenzisa ukuhlolwa kwegazi ukuthola imvume yomshado; kodwa-ke, lokho akusilona iqiniso emazweni angama-49. EMontana, bonke abesifazane abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-50 kumele bakhombise ukuqinisekiswa kokuhlolwa kwegazi likaRubella noma imvume yokuvala inzalo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kusayinwa umqulu phakathi kukamakoti nomkhwenyana okugwema le mfuneko ngaleso sikhathi.
Yini iphuzu?
Kunemibuzo ethile okungacaci ngayo kubantu abasaba izibopho eziza nomshado.
Ngabe umshado umayelana nani futhi liyini iphuzu lomshado?
Imibuzo enjalo ibenza behluleke ukuqonda ukuthi uyini umshado nengqikithi yawo. Ingqikithi ilele emibonweni eyabiwe, izibopho, usizo nokunakekelwa kwabashadile.
Ubudlelwano obufinyelela ezingeni lomshado bubonakala bukhula njalo ngehora. Iphuzu lalobu budlelwano ukuqinisekisa izinzuzo ezivela lapho kudalwa lesi sibopho. Abantu ababelana ngempilo yomshado, kwesinye isikhathi, babelana ngokuthembela okuningi. Lokhu kuncika kuyisisekelo sesibopho esingenakwephuka. Empeleni umshado yiwo oletha ukuhlangana.
Isinqumo
Kulula ukuthola ukuthi uyini umshado nenhloso yawo, kanye nomoya wawo.
Isizathu sokuthi abantu bahluleke ekwenzeni lobu buhlobo ingcindezi yemisebenzi eza nayo. Noma kunjalo, isithombe esibanzi sikhombisa umbono ohluke kakhulu. Kubonisa ukuthuthuka okulethwa umshado empilweni yomuntu. Ubudlelwano obakha indlu, ikhaya.