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- Kungani kubalulekile?
- Ungawakha kanjani amaphupho ndawonye azonisondeza?
- 1. Yiba nezingxoxo ngamaphupho akho
- 2. Yenza amaphupho acace futhi abe yiqiniso
- 3. Yenza uhlelo olunemininingwane, olunezinsuku ezibekiwe, ongaqala ngazo ukwenza okuthile
Ukuphupha ndawonye njengezithandani kungaba enye yezingxoxo ezijabulisa kakhulu nezakhayo ongaba nazo! Ngemuva kwakho konke, bekungeyona yini ingxenye enkulu yalokho okwenze ngenkathi uqala ukuhlangana?
Ukuphupha ngomndeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo, ukuqhutshwa komsebenzi esikhathini esizayo, indlu yesikhathi esizayo, noma yini ngokuzayo kungasiza ngisho nokususa izingcindezi zosuku lwanamuhla kude.
Ukuphupha ndawonye kungenye yezindlela lapho niqinisekisa khona ukuzibophezela kwenu komunye nomunye nakusasa. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuphupha ngekusasa, ngeke ube nekusasa ndawonye. Cabanga ngalokho!
Ukuphupha ndawonye kudinga ukuthi usebenzise umcabango wakho, uqagele, futhi ubheke izinketho zokuthi impilo yakho eyabiwe izoshintsha kanjani, ikhule futhi ijule kanjani njengoba iminyaka idlula.
Kungani kubalulekile?
Kuzokusiza ukuthi uhlale uvulekele izidingo zakho nezomlingani wakho ezingokoqobo, ezingokomzwelo nezingokomoya. Futhi kuzokusiza ukuqagela ngamathuba. Ungazama kanye nemibono mayelana nemisebenzi nokuzibophezela okubalulekile kuwe. Ngasikhathi sinye, uzobe uhlanganisa umbono wekusasa lakho njengabashadikazi.
Ungawakha kanjani amaphupho ndawonye azonisondeza?
Uma niphupha ndawonye, niyakhula ndawonye, hhayi ngokuhlukana, ngoba nobabili niya esikhathini esizayo. Kunezindlela ezi-3 ezilula kepha ezibalulekile zokwenza lokhu.
1. Yiba nezingxoxo ngamaphupho akho
Ngokuba nengxoxo, ungamba ujule ngokuthi kungani amaphupho athile ebaluleke kangaka kuwe. Mhlawumbe ukukhula kwakho umndeni wakho wawuhamba kakhulu, futhi uhlala uqasha. Okwakho ukuthenga indlu nokuhlala emphakathini owuthandayo kuphakeme kakhulu kuzinto eziza kuqala kuwe. Kepha mhlawumbe umlingani wakho "ubenamathele" unomphela edolobhaneni elincane angabe esakwazi ukulinda ukuhamba, futhi iphupho lakhe ukuhambahamba ngaphandle "kokucwila" kobunikazi. Niyavumelana nobabili kulokho? Noma ingabe udinga ukuthola indawo ephakathi evumela izidingo zakho zombili?
Uzobuyekeza amanani. Uzocabanga ngamathuba akho womsebenzi womabili. Uzocabanga ngezinye izindawo ezinjengezempilo, izingane, ingokomoya, ezezimali, ukuhamba, njll.
2. Yenza amaphupho acace futhi abe yiqiniso
Ukubukeka kunamathela ebuchosheni bakho kangcono kunamazwi. Dweba, yenza ikholaji, wenze incazelo ecacile yokuthi kufinyelela iphupho lakho kuzobukeka kanjani, thola izithombe. Noma yini edingekayo ukwenza amaphupho akho aphile ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngabe nifuna ukuthenga indlu ndawonye? Qala ukuphequlula imakethe ezungeze wena. Cabanga ngomkhawulo
khalaza nokuthi ungakanani umsebenzi enizimisele ukuwenza nobabili egcekeni. Khuluma ngohlobo lwezakhiwo ongazifuna. Qoqa izithombe zezindawo ezingaba khona, funa amasampula ombala wepende, ube nesithombe sendlu yakho yamaphupho endaweni ethile lapho ungayibona khona nsuku zonke.
Manje, enye into ukufuna indlu, enye ehluke ngokuphelele ukuthola indawo esivumelana ngayo nokucabanga ngomsebenzi ohilelekile ekugcineni indlu. Nobabili ningathanda indlu endala enesimilo. Lokho kuzoba iphupho elicacile. Kepha uma kungekho noyedwa kini osebenziseka nhlobo, kuzodingeka nibe nesandla ekuqasheni abantu abazonisiza ngokunakekelwa kwendlu endala. Lokho kungaba yingxenye ebonakalayo.
3. Yenza uhlelo olunemininingwane, olunezinsuku ezibekiwe, ongaqala ngazo ukwenza okuthile
Isibonelo, uma elinye lamaphupho akho lizohamba ngomkhumbi weholide lakho lonyaka ozayo, ungabheki nje kuphela ukuthi yiluphi uhambo lokuhamba ngomkhumbi, uhambo, nolayini wokuhamba ngesikebhe oyifunayo, kodwa futhi, qala ukonga inani elinqunyelwe isheke ngalinye lokukhokha. Ungamangala ukuthi ukunikela ngento encane kungakusiza wonge.
Umbhangqwana engiwaziyo bewuhlale ufuna iholidi eYurophu, kepha bezwa ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukukhokhela. Besikhuluma ngakho futhi, ngibona ukuthi bobabili bayabhema, ngababuza ukuthi basebenzise malini ukubhema ugwayi njalo ngenyanga. Senze izibalo, futhi bamangala lapho bethola ukuthi lokho abakusebenzisela ugwayi kuzoba ngaphezu kwemali eyanele ohambweni lwabo lwamaphupho. Lokho kubanike amandla okuyeka ukubhema, kunalokho baqale ukonga leyo mali. Ngemuva konyaka bangithumelela ikhadi elivela e-Italy, lapho babenesikhathi sempilo yabo!
Amaphupho akho adinga izenzo ukuze abe ngokoqobo. Qala ukuphupha ndawonye nowakwakho namuhla!