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Ngisho nowesifazane onethalente, uma ehlukunyezwa ephindelela ngumlingani wakhe, uzokuthola kunzima ukuphumelela kulo msebenzi awukhethile.
Kuyadabukisa ukuthi emazweni amaningi emhlabeni jikelele, ukuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane kwamukelwa ngokuthula.
Izibalo zodlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane zikhombisile ukuthi umuntu oyedwa kwabathathu kwabesifazane emhlabeni wonke uzobhekana nodlame lomzimba noma lobulili ngumlingani wakhe noma udlame lwezocansi oluvela kumuntu ongalingani naye.
Udlame lwasekhaya lungezinye zezinkinga ezithinta i- isimo sempilo yabesifazane emhlabeni namuhla.
Kepha kuyinkinga ebanga umthelela osheshayo kanye nowesikhathi eside empumelelweni yabesifazane.
Buka futhi:
Isimo somhlaba wonke
Ngeshwa, lo ngumjikelezo ononya ogxile kakhulu kwamanye amasiko.
Noma abesifazane ebudlelwaneni befuna ukugqashula emaketangeni okuhlukunyezwa, akulula ukwenza njalo.
Abanye akukho okunye abangakwenza ngaphandle kokuhlala ngoba bengenayo imfundo namandla okuzinakekela ngokwezimali. Abanye abanezingane bakuthola kunzima ukushiya ngoba abafuni ukuhlukanisa imindeni yabo.
Kuwo wonke amazwe emhlabeni, izehlakalo eziphakeme kakhulu zodlame olwenziwa kwabesifazane zise-Angola. Bheka le infographic ukwazi okwengeziwe:
Cishe amaphesenti angama-78 abesifazane bayo basezingeni lokuthola. IBolivia, eseNingizimu Melika, ibekwe endaweni yesine emhlabeni, ngamaphesenti angama-64 abesifazane bayo ababekezelela ukuhlukunyezwa emakhaya.
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi lena yiminotho esakhulayo lapho iningi labesifazane linamathuba amancane emfundo.
Amazwe aphakeme kakhulu e-Asia aseBangladesh, kanti amaphesenti angama-53 abesifazane bawo abanjwe ngabalingani babo abaseduze.
Ngisho nasemazweni okuqala omhlaba, udlame lwasekhaya lusabakhathaza abesifazane.
E-United Kingdom, amaphesenti angama-29 abesifazane ahlukunyezwa abalingani bawo. Cishe amaphesenti ayisithupha abesifazane baseCanada abekezelela ukuhlukunyezwa kubalingani babo.
Umzabalazo wamandla ebudlelwaneni awugcini nje emazweni asathuthuka.
Ngisho nasezizweni zomhlaba wokuqala, lapho abesifazane benezinsizakusebenza eziningi futhi benemfundo engcono, udaba lodlame ekhaya luseyinkinga ebucayi.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokuthola isisombululo ukuvuma ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle futhi kuphukile ebudlelwaneni.
Abesifazane abahlushwa lesi siphetho kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi akulona neze iphutha labo. Ngumhlukumezi okumele ashintshe.
Ngokudabukisayo, abahlukumezi abaningi abasoze bawavuma amaphutha abo. Bayenqaba ukuthola ukwelulekwa futhi baba nodlame olukhulu lapho bephikiswa.
Abesifazane abakulolu hlobo lobudlelwano kumele bakhunjuzwe ukuthi akekho umuntu ofanelwe ukuphathwa ngale ndlela. Akekho okufanele abekezelele udlame. Ukuphepha, kanye nokuphepha kwezingane, kumele kube yinto ephambili.
Ukufunda Okuhlobene: Izixazululo Zodlame Lwasekhaya
Ukuzibulala njengokweqa
Ngokudabukisayo, iningi labesifazane abaphila lolu hlobo lwesihogo bazizwa bengenamandla okumisa konke. Babhajwe ebudlelwaneni obulimaza ubunikazi babo futhi buchithe umuzwa wabo wokuzihlonipha.
Noma bethatha isinqumo sokuhamba, eminye imiphakathi ayinazo izinhlelo zokuvikela abesifazane.
Amanye amazwe awanazo izinsiza zokusungula izinhlangano ezingasiza abesifazane ukuthi bashiye ngokuphepha.
Kwesinye isikhathi, noma ngabe ukuhlukunyezwa kubikwa kwabaphathi, abesifazane basabuyiselwa kabuhlungu kubayeni babo ngenxa yomphakathi wezinzalamizi.
Abanye besifazane ukuthi ngempumelelo shiya ubudlelwano babo obuyingozi azithole esetatanyiswa futhi ehlushwa ngumhlukumezi.
Ngakho-ke, akumangazi ukuthi ukuzibulala phakathi kwabesifazane nakho kungenye yezinkinga zabesifazane ezithinta abesifazane abaningi emhlabeni jikelele.
Kwabesifazane abathile ababhajwe esimweni esibucayi, baba nomuzwa wokuthi ukufa ukuphela kwendlela yabo yokuphunyuka.
Yize ukuzibulala kuyivelakancane kwamanye amazwe, kuyinkinga ekhulayo kwezinye izingxenye zomhlaba. Izinga lokuzibulala eliphakeme kakhulu emhlabeni liseLesotho, eNingizimu Afrika, nabantu abangu-32.6 abazibulalayo kwabangu-100 000.
IBarbados eCaribbean inezinga eliphansi kakhulu, elino-0.3 kuwo wonke ama-100,000. I-India inamanani aphakeme kakhulu okuzibulala e-Asia, ane-14.5 kwabangu-100,000.
Amazwe aphakeme kakhulu eYurophu yiBelgium, eno-9.4 kwabangu-100,000. Kunabantu abazibulalayo abangu-6.4 kuphela kwabangu-100 000 e-United States.
Ukufa okukodwa sekuvele kungukuphambuka. Impilo eyodwa elahlekile seyiningi kakhulu. Umhlaba kumele ume ubumbane ukukhanyisa ngalolu daba.
Imikhankaso ebanzi elwa nezinkinga zezempilo yabesifazane kumele ihlale phambili.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, wonke umuntu ngumntwana ozalwe ephuma esibelethweni sikanina. Abesifazane bayingxenye yomphakathi, lapho bayohlala badlala indima ebucayi.
Ezinye izingqinamba ezicindezelayo
Ezinye izinkinga ezisohlwini lwezinkinga zabesifazane ezithinta isimo sempilo yabesifazane emhlabeni wonke ukushada ngaphambi kwesikhathi nokufa komama.
Abesifazane abashada beneminyaka engu-15 kuya kwengu-19 basengozini enkulu yokuthola izinkinga zezempilo eziholela ekufeni komama.
Abakavuthwa ukuthwala nokukhulisa inzalo yabo. Iningi labo alivikelekile ngokomnotho ngeqhaza labo njengomama.
Izibalo ziveza ukuthi iNiger inezinga eliphakeme kakhulu labantu abashada besebancane, kanti amaphesenti angama-61 abesifazane bayo abasebancane bayagxila noma bashade.
Qhathanisa lokho ne-Australia, izwe lomhlaba wokuqala, nephesenti elilodwa kuphela labesifazane abashada besebancane.
Izinga lokushona komama nalo liphezulu phakathi kwamazwe omhlaba wesithathu.
ISierra Leone, izwe laseNingizimu Afrika, linamanani aphezulu okufa kwabantu, njengoba kufa abantu abangu-1 310 kwabangu-100 000. Qhathanisa lokho ne-Australia, ngokufa kwabantu abayisithupha kuphela kwabayi-100,000.
Ngokudabukisayo, kungatholwa kulolu lwazi ukuthi isimo semfundo nomnotho sibuye sidlale indima ebalulekile kule miphumela. Ngaso sonke isikhathi yilabo abampofu kakhulu futhi abangafundile abathwala umthwalo.
Ukunikeza ithemba
Asikho isisombululo esisodwa esisheshayo sokumisa lezi zinkinga ezicindezelayo zezempilo zabesifazane. Kuthatha umzamo ohlangene ovela emiphakathini emhlabeni wonke ukuvimbela umjikelezo wokuhlukunyezwa.
Kodwa-ke, nazi izinyathelo ezimbalwa okufanele zithathwe ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwabesifazane emhlabeni wonke:
- Abesifazane abafuna ukushiya ubudlelwano babo obunodlame bangenza kanjalo kuphela uma bezizwa bephephile. Kubalulekile ukusetha izinhlelo zokweseka ukusiza abesifazane ukuthi baphinde bakwazi ukuma ngezinyawo.
- Badinga ukwelulekwa ukuze babone ukuthi ubudlelwano babo obungaphumelelanga bekungakaze kube yiphutha labo. Namuhla, kwezinye izizwe, abesifazane bangathola i-oda lokuzivikela kozakwethu.
- Ukukhuluma ngokumelene nodlame lwasekhaya nokufundisa abesifazane ngamalungelo abo kuzosiza ekwenzeni ukuthi babone ukuthi ukuphathwa njengesikhwama sezibhakela akuyona into ejwayelekile.
Ukuphela kwendlela yokuqeda unomphela umjikelezo wokulawula nokuziphatha okuhlukumezayo kubandakanya ukufundisa izingane zisencane.
Kumele bafunde ukuhlonipha wonke umuntu, ikakhulukazi abathandana nabo bakusasa. Ngolwazi olufanele kanye namagugu ukugxilisa, izingane zingabona ukuthi ubudlelwano obunempilo bubukeka kanjani.
Ngokufanelekile, lapho abesifazane emhlabeni jikelele benamakhono okuzinakekela, abasoze badinga ukuthembela kunoma ngubani.
Kukhona iqiniso kule nkolelo: umuntu ophethe isikhwama unamandla. Ngakho-ke, ulwazi nemfundo kufanele kuhlale kuseqhulwini.
Abesifazane abanikwe amandla ngeke bakubekezelele ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo.