Ingabe Ukuhlukaniswa Kwesilingo Kuyasebenza?

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• Izinzuzo zokwehlukaniswa kwesivivinyo ebudlelwaneni bakho
• 1. Isikhala esidingeka kakhulu
• 2. Zitholele kabusha
• 3. Ukubuka kuqala impilo ngaphandle komlingani wakho
• Ukwehla kokuhlukaniswa kwesilingo
• 1. Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana
• 2. Izingcindezi zezezimali
• Ungakwenza kanjani ukwahlukana kwesilingo kusebenze
• 1.Dala isikhathi esibekiwe
• 2. Ungaqomi nabanye abantu
• 3. Xoxani ngezimali zenu
• 4. Imihlahlandlela yezocansi
• 5. Khuluma

Ngabe ukwahlukaniswa kwesilingo kuyasebenza, futhi kwenzelwa bani ngempela? Uma ukhula ukhungathekile ngesimo sobudlelwano bakho kungenzeka ukuthi ubuzibuza lo mbuzo isikhashana. Awulungele ukudela umlingani wakho, kepha usukhathele izinketho eziningi zemvuselelo yobudlelwano ozithola usulahlekelwe yilokho okufanele ukwenze ngokulandelayo. Ngaphambi kokukhetha isehlukaniso, imibhangqwana kufanele ithathe isikhathi esithile ihlukanise ukuhlola ukuthi impilo yayo ingaba njani ngaphandle komunye nomunye.

Lapho ukukhungatheka kusondela futhi kungekho zixazululo ezibonakalayo ukwahlukana kwesilingo kuvame ukusebenza - kepha kuyasebenza ngempela? Izikhathi eziningi, abantu babheka ukwehlukana kwesivivinyo njengesinyathelo esivela ezindlini ezihlukene. Ngakho-ke, ingabe ukuhlukaniswa kwesilingo nje yinto edingwa ubuhlobo bakho noma usendleleni yokulahlekelwa ngumlingani wakho? Nakhu okudingeka ukwazi ngokuhlukaniswa kwesivivinyo esinempilo nokuthi ungakuthola kanjani.

Izinzuzo zokwehlukaniswa kwesivivinyo ebudlelwaneni bakho

Ngokuphikisana nenkolelo evamile, ukuhlukaniswa kwesivivinyo akukubi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Eqinisweni, kunezinzuzo eziningi zokuhlukana ngokwecala okungenza empeleni ubudlelwano bakho buqine ekugcineni. Nazi izinzuzo zokwehlukaniswa kwesivivinyo.

1. Isikhala esidingeka kakhulu

Lapho imibhangqwana idumazeka ngesimo sayo samanje kungaba kuhle ukuthatha isikhathi sihlukane ukucabanga. Uma ubhekene nesikhathi esivivinyayo empilweni yakho ungahle uxinwe yingcindezi nokukhathazeka. Kulezi zimo kwesinye isikhathi ukuba nesikhala esincane kungakunika ukucaca kokubhekana nezinkinga zakho, ufunde ukubhekana nazo, futhi uze uqonde ukuthi ungaxhumana kanjani kangcono nomlingani wakho ngazo. Lokhu kungakunika nenkululeko yokuhlola izindaba zakho ngaphandle kokuxabana noma ukungezwani.

2. Zitholele kabusha

Uma usebudlelwaneni obunzima iminyaka eminingi kwesinye isikhathi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ungubani. Esikhundleni salokho, ubanjwa ngokuba ngumlingani, umzali, nomhlinzeki omdala. Izikhathi eziningi ubeke eceleni amaphupho nezinjongo zakho ukuze zihambisane kangcono nezidingo zomndeni wakho. Ukuhlukaniswa kwecala kuyithuba elihle lokuzazi.

3. Ukubuka kuqala impilo ngaphandle komlingani wakho

Uma uqinisekile ukuthi ufuna ukuqeda ubudlelwano bakho ekugcineni kokwehlukaniswa kwesivivinyo sakho, musa ukupakisha izikhwama zakho okwamanje. Ukwehlukaniswa nomlingani wakho isikhathi eside kukunikeza ithuba lokuthi ubalahle. Uma kungekho mizwa yobungane evelayo ngomlingani wakho, ukwahlukana kwesivivinyo futhi kukunikeza ithuba lokuhlola ukuthi ungaphila ngaphandle kwabo noma cha.

Ukwehla kokuhlukaniswa kwesilingo

Akukhona konke ukwahlukaniswa kwesivivinyo okunesiphetho esijabulisayo. Noma ngabe unezinhloso ezinhle zokuphinda uhlangane lapho uqala ukuhlukanisa, kukhona okunye okuhle ongakubheka. Ukwehla kokuhlukana kwesivivinyo kungashiya umshado wakho usesimweni esibi kakhulu kunakuqala. Nazi ezinye izinto ezivamile ezikhathazayo:

1. Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana

Uma kwenziwe ngokungafanele, ukwehlukana kwesivivinyo kungalimaza imizamo yakho yokuxhumana nabashadikazi bakho. Esikhundleni sokuzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngezinkinga zakho nokuthi uzilungisa kanjani, umane waqala impilo yokuphila ungashadile futhi wayeka ukucabangela umlingani wakho.

2. Izingcindezi zezezimali

Uma ukwahlukana kwecala lakho kuqukethe iqembu elilodwa lingena efulethini elisha, lokhu kungadala ubunzima bezezimali. Ukungasho, noma yikuphi ukuthenga okwenziwe ngesikhathi sokuhlukaniswa kwecala kusazobalwa njengesikweletu somshado. Uma kwenzeka ukhetha ukwahlukanisa, bobabili izinhlangothi bazoba nesibopho sezikweletu ezitholwe ngesikhathi sokuhlukaniswa kwecala.

Ungakwenza kanjani ukwahlukana kwesilingo kusebenze

Inhloso yokwehlukaniswa kwesivivinyo ukunika bobabili amaqembu ithuba lokuxazulula izingqinamba zabo benethemba lokuthi bazobuyelana, hhayi ukuthola isehlukaniso. Lokho kusho, noma ngabe sewuhlukene manje kusamele ubeke imingcele nemithetho ukuze wenze isilingo sakho siphumelele. Ngabe ukuhlukaniswa kwesilingo kuyasebenza? Nakhu ukuthi ungaqinisekisa kanjani ukuthi bayakwenza.

1.Dala isikhathi esibekiwe

Ungashiyi ukwahlukana kwakho kwesilingo ezandleni zekusasa. Setha umugqa wesikhathi ukuze bobabili izinhlangothi babe nokuqonda okucacile kokuthi bazothatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuthola izinkinga zabo ngaphambi kokuthatha isinqumo ngobudlelwano.

2. Ungaqomi nabanye abantu

Ngaphandle kokuthi nobabili nigibele ebhodini, ukuphola nabanye abantu ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kwesivivinyo akunconywa. Lokhu kubeka isibonelo sokuthi lapho ungathanda ukwenza imisebenzi yezocansi nomuntu ongeyena umlingani wakho, konke okuzodingeka ukwenze ukubiza ukwahlukana kwesivivinyo kuqala. Uma inhloso yakho yokwehlukaniswa kwecala lakho kungukusebenzisana ngokweqiniso kufanele uhlale uzinikele emshadweni wakho noma ngabe nisehlukene. Ungasebenzisi lesi sikhathi njengezaba zokukopela.

3. Xoxani ngezimali zenu

Ngabe iqembu elilodwa lizoshiya ikhaya lomshado, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla? Uma kunjalo, ziphathwa kanjani izimali? Ngabe omunye wenu uncike komunye ozodinga usizo olwengeziwe lwezezimali? Ingabe zikhona izingane ezihilelekile? Yonke le yimibuzo ebalulekile yezezimali okufanele icatshangelwe ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kwakho.

4. Imihlahlandlela yezocansi

Lapho usushade nomuntu isikhathi eside ngokwanele umqondo wokungakwazi ukulala ndawonye ungahle ubonakale ungajwayelekile ngesikhathi sokuhlukaniswa kwecala lakho. Xoxani ngokuthi imingcele yenu yezocansi izoba yini omunye nomunye ngesikhathi sakho nihlukene. Ngabe usazoqhubeka nokuhlanganyela ocansini ngalesi sikhathi? Akunampendulo engalungile kulo mbuzo.

5. Khuluma

Ukuthi uthathe ikhefu ebudlelwaneni bakho akusho ukuthi kufanele uyeke ukukhuluma nani. Uma inhloso yakho ukuqala kabusha ubudlelwano bakho bunempilo ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kwakho kufanele ugcine ukuxhumana, ikakhulukazi uma unezingane. Ukwelulekwa ngemibhangqwana evulekile nethembekile kungaba wusizo ngalesi sikhathi.

Ngabe ukuhlukaniswa kwesilingo kuyasebenza? Benza uma usebenzisa isikhathi sakho ngokuhlukana ngokuhlakanipha. Ukwehlukaniswa kwesilingo kufanele kusetshenziselwe ukuphola, ukulungisa izingqinamba zakho ngaphandle kokuxabana njalo, futhi uthathe isinqumo ngokuzibophezela ukuthi ubuhlobo buqonde kuphi.