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- Izizathu ezamukelekayo zesehlukaniso eBhayibhelini
- Ezinye izizathu zesehlukaniso
- Ukuntuleka kokuzibophezela
- Ukungakwazi ukuzwana
- Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana
- Izinhloso ezingahambelani
- Ukungathembeki
Wonke umuntu ofunde ibhayibheli uyazi ukuthi umshado ukuzibophezela kwempilo yonke. Kepha, umbuzo wethu wanamuhla uthi, kuthiwani ngesehlukaniso eBhayibhelini? Ngamanye amazwi, uthini uNkulunkulu ngesehlukaniso?
Indoda nowesifazane baba munye baze bahlukaniswe ukufa. Ipulani yakhe yomshado impela yinhle kepha, isehlukaniso siyenzeka futhi, ngokwezibalo, senzeka kaningi. Namuhla, imishado inamathuba angama-50% okuphumelela.
Lezi zibalo zemishado engaphumeleli ziyaphazamisa. Akekho umuntu ocabanga ukuhlukanisa ngesikhathi esithile ngenkathi ehamba phansi. Iningi labantu livame ukuthatha izifungo ngokungathi sína futhi lifunge ukuthi lizoba ngasohlangothini lomlingani kuze kube yilapho ukufa kuhlukanisa khona.
Kepha, kuthiwani uma umshado wehluleka naphezu kwawo wonke umzamo? Ezimweni ezinjalo, lithini ibhayibheli ngesehlukaniso? Ngabe isehlukaniso siyisono ebhayibhelini?
IBhayibheli licacisa izizathu ezithile zesehlukaniso, kodwa ngale kwalezo zizathu, asikho isizathu sesehlukaniso nokuphinde ushade emibhalweni yeBhayibheli ngesehlukaniso.
Ukuqonda ukuthi isahlukaniso silungile nini ebhayibhelini, okulandelayo kuchazwa izingcaphuno ezithile ezivela emavesini ebhayibheli mayelana nesehlukaniso nokuphinda ushade.
Izizathu ezamukelekayo zesehlukaniso eBhayibhelini
Kunamavesi amaningana eBhayibheli ngesahlukaniso. Uma sibheka umbono kaNkulunkulu ngesehlukaniso, kunezizathu ezithile zesehlukaniso ebhayibhelini, futhi ukushada futhi kuyakhulunywa ngakho.
Kepha, lokhu kushiwo eTestamenteni Elisha. ETestamenteni Elidala, kwakunguMose owayevumela indoda ukuba ihlukanise cishe nganoma yisiphi isizathu.
ITestamente Elidala lifundeka kanje, “Uma owesilisa eshada nowesifazane ongamthokozisi ngoba ethola okuthile okuyihlazo ngaye, bese embhalela incwadi yesahlukaniso, amnike yona futhi amthumele evela endlini yakhe, futhi uma esehambile indlu yakhe, uba ngumfazi wenye indoda, futhi umyeni wakhe wesibili akamthandi futhi umbhalela incwadi yesahlukaniso, amnike yona futhi amthumele evela endlini yakhe, noma uma efa, umyeni wakhe wokuqala, owahlukanisa naye, akavunyelwe ukuphinde amshade ngemuva kokuba esengcolile.
Lokho kungaba yisinengiso emehlweni eNkosi. Ungalethi isono ezweni uJehova uNkulunkulu wakho akunika lona njengefa. ” (Duteronomi 24: 1-4)
UJesu ukhuluma ngalokhu kwiTestamente Elisha futhi uphendula ngokuthi uMose wavumela isehlukaniso ngenxa yobulukhuni bezinhliziyo futhi uxoxa ngokuthi umshado uyindlela kaNkulunkulu kanjani yokujoyina abantu ababili, futhi lokho ngeke kwehlukaniswe.
UJesu uphinde asho okuwukuphela kwezizathu ezamukelekayo zesehlukaniso, okuwukuphinga, isenzo esiqeda umshado ngokushesha ngoba kuyisono, kanye nelungelo likaPauline.
EmBhalweni, ilungelo likaPauline livumela isehlukaniso phakathi kwekholwa nongakholwayo. Ukusho ngokukhululeka, uma ongakholwayo ehamba, myeke lowo muntu ahambe.
Ikholwa livunyelwe futhi ukuthi liphinde lishade ngalezi zizathu. Yileso sizathu kuphela esehlukaniso eBhayibhelini.
Ezinye izizathu zesehlukaniso
Kunezizathu eziningi zesehlukaniso ezingashiwongo emavesini ebhayibheli ngesehlukaniso nakumbhalo okhuluma ngesehlukaniso. Ukuthi bayathetheleleka noma cha kuyindaba yombono, kepha njengoba sazi, isehlukaniso siyenzeka. Abantu benza izindlela ezihlukene bese beqhubeka nezimpilo zabo.
Ngezansi kunezizathu ezi-5 eziphezulu zesehlukaniso ngaphandle kwezinhloso zesehlukaniso eBhayibhelini.
Ukuntuleka kokuzibophezela
Ngemuva kokuthi, "Ngiyakwenza," abanye abantu bavele baba ngamavila. Noma ngubani onquma ukushada kumele akhumbule ukuthi ukuhlala ushadile kudinga umsebenzi.
Bobabili abashadile kumele benze umzamo wokuxhumana ngempumelelo, bagcine ukuthandana, uthando, kanye nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo / kwengqondo. 'Isehlukaniso emavesini ebhayibheli' singayizuzisa imishado ngokukhuthaza imibhangqwana ukuthi inikeze umshado wayo i-100%.
Ukungakwazi ukuzwana
Ngemuva kokuthi isikhathi sidlulile, imibhangqwana ingafinyelela eqophelweni lapho izithola ingakwazi ukuzwana. Lapho kungekho sinqumo ngokuvumelana, ubuhlobo buyayeka.
Lapho izingxabano zivame ukwenzeka, kugqubuka intukuthelo, futhi ikhaya aliseyona indawo ejabulisayo, isehlukaniso sibhekwa njengendlela yokuphuma esimweni esingesihle.
Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana
Ukuwohloka kwezokuxhumana kuyalimaza ubuhlobo. Lapho lokho kuhamba, kunzima ukuxhuma kuwo wonke amazinga abalulekile, kufaka phakathi ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba. Abashadile bese besala bengagcwaliswanga.
Into ukuthi, kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana. Lokhu kubandakanya ukudiliza izithiyo, ukubamba iqhaza ekuzivocavoca umzimba okuhlukahlukene, ukusebenzisa ulimi oluqondile, ukucabangisisa nokwenza umzamo oqondile wokubuyela endaweni enempilo.
Izinhloso ezingahambelani
Kunzima ngabantu ababili ukuhlala ndawonye lapho behlela ezindleleni ezihlukile. Yingakho ukuhlelwa komshado kunconywa kulabo abahlela ukushada.
Isinyathelo esibalulekile kulokho kuhlela ukuba nengxoxo mayelana nezinhloso nezinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo zokuqinisekisa ukuthi bobabili abantu basekhasini elilodwa.
Ukungathembeki
Esinye sezizathu ezimbili esehlukanisweni eBhayibhelini ukungathembeki. Akukona nje kuphela ukukhashelwa kokugcina, kepha kuvame ukubheka ubudlelwano bungahlangani. Empeleni, ukuphuma emshadweni kungenye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu umlingani angazenza.
Umshado uyinto enhle futhi uyisibopho esidinga ukuhlonishwa. Izethembiso nezethembiso eziningi zenziwa kanye nokwakha ikhaya ndawonye nokubopha izindlela ezisondelene kakhulu.
Njengoba kukhonjisiwe emavesini ezehlukaniso zebhayibheli, akazimisele ngesahlukaniso, kepha kwezinye izimo, kuvunyelwe. Ukuthatha isinqumo sokuhlukanisa ngemuva kokuzibophezela okukhulu kunzima.
Ngeshwa, izimo azilungile, kepha yingakho labo abathatha isinqumo sokushada kungafanele babheke umshado ngezibuko ezinombala ophuzi. Umshado, i-honeymoon, nesiteji esisanda kushada siyamangalisa, njengezikhathi ezilandelayo, kepha kuzoba khona izigaxa emgwaqweni ezidinga umzamo.
Zibuze ukuthi ngabe uzimisele yini ukusebenzisa lowo mzamo futhi usebenzise ibhayibheli njengesiqondisi ngenkathi wenza lokho kuhlola.
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