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- Iqiniso ngokucindezeleka
- Izimpawu zokuthi unomlingani ocindezelekile
- Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuthi oshade naye angahle acindezeleke
- Qaphela lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo
- Ungamsiza kanjani oshade naye ocindezelekile
- Yiba lapho
- Ukubekezela - okuningi kwakho
- Zungeza othandana naye ngothando
- Ungapheli amandla
- Ungalufuna nini usizo lochwepheshe
“Okuhle, kokubi kakhulu, ekuguleni nasempilweni” kungezinye zezithembiso wena nomlingani wakho enithe nizisho omunye nomunye ngesikhathi nishada kodwa akekho noyedwa obengalindela okubi okungenzeka.
Lapho oshade naye ekhombisa izimpawu zokucindezeleka, kulindeleke nje ukuthi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukusiza umuntu owashada naye. Ukuqwashisa kungenye yezihluthulelo ekusizeni oshade naye ocindezelekile.
Ngaphandle kolwazi nokuqonda ngalokhu kugula, ngeke ukwazi ukusiza oshade naye.
Iqiniso ngokucindezeleka
Umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi ukucindezeleka ukugula hhayi nje ubuthakathaka obukhonjiswa ngumuntu. Abanye abantu bahlekisa ngomuntu okhombisa izimpawu zokudangala engazi ukuthi lokhu akuyona idrama noma ukufuna ukunakwa. Ukugula okungafunwa muntu.
Ukudana kungathinta kakhulu umshado wakho kepha nomndeni wakho yingakho kungcono ukuqonda ukuthi yini ukucindezeleka nokuthi singasiza kanjani empeleni.
Ukudangala kuchazwa njengokushintsha okuphawulekayo kumakhemikhali obuchopho nawo angaguqula isimo, ukulala, amazinga wamandla, isifiso sokudla nokulala. Ukudana nje akwenzeki, kubangelwa yizinto eziningi kufaka phakathi kepha akukhawulelwe ekucindezelekeni okukhulu, ukulahlekelwa okubuhlungu, ukuba ngumzali, umshado, izimo zezempilo kanye nezinkinga zezezimali.
Khumbula, awukwazi ukutshela oshade naye ocindezelekile ukuthi alwe nomuzwa bese eqhubeka. Akulula kangako.
Izimpawu zokuthi unomlingani ocindezelekile
Ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi ukusiza umlingani ocindezelekile, kufanele uqale uqonde ukuthi izimpawu zibonisa kanjani. Omunye wemibono eyiphutha ejwayelekile mayelana nokudangala ukuthi kukhombisa nsuku zonke futhi uzoyibona kalula kepha akunjalo.
Abantu abaningi abacindezelekile nabo bangaba nezinsuku zabo ezijabulisayo futhi lokhu kungahlala izinsuku ezimbalwa kuphela ukubuyela ebumnyameni bokucindezeleka.
Ukudana kwenhliziyo kuvamile kepha asitholi lwazi olwanele ngakho futhi nangendlela esiphila ngayo ematasa, besizobheka ukuthi umuntu esimthandayo usevele ekhombisa kanjani izimpawu zokudangala. Lesi yisizathu esenza ukuthi izikhathi eziningi kubizwe ukugula okungabonakali.
Nazi ezinye zezimpawu zokuthi oshade naye angahle acindezeleke
- Imizwa ejwayelekile yokudabuka, ukungabi nalutho, ukukhala noma ukungabi nathemba
- Ukwehla noma ukukhuluphala ngenxa yezinguquko ezinkulu ekudleni
- Ukulala ngaso sonke isikhathi noma ukuthola ubunzima bokulala
- Ukungabi nentshisekelo ngokungazelelwe enkambisweni yansuku zonke ngisho nangemisebenzi ejabulisayo
- Kubonisa ukukhathala noma ngabe uphumule kahle
- Ukuyaluza nokukhathazeka
- Imizwa engazelelwe iyashintsha njengokufutheka kwentukuthelo
- Ukukhumbula amaphutha edlule
- Imizwa nemicabango ejulile engenamsebenzi
- Imicabango yokuzibulala
- Ukucabanga ukuthi umhlaba ungcono ngaphandle kwabo
Enye yezingxenye ezisabekayo zokuba nokudangala ukuthi lowo muntu usengozini yokuzibulala.
Abanye abangasiqondi lesi sifo bangahle bangazinaki izimpawu zokuthi umuntu usevele ucabanga ngokuzibulala futhi ngesinye sezizathu esenza ukuthi namuhla, abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe baphumelele ukuzibulala.
Qaphela lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo
- Izinguquko ezibonakalayo ngendlela oshade naye axhumana ngayo nomphakathi
- Simatasa ngemicabango ezungeze ukufa
- Ukuzizwa ngokweqile kokuphelelwa yithemba
- Ukuthakasela okungazelelwe ngokuzibulala
- Izenzo ezingenangqondo njengokugcina amaphilisi, ukuthenga imimese noma ngisho nesibhamu
- Izinguquko ezinkulu emizweni - uzizwa ujabule kakhulu futhi unothando bese ubuyela ekubeni kude futhi ube wedwa
- Lapho oshade naye engasanaki futhi angakhombisa izimpawu zokufisa ukufa
- Baqala ukunikela ngezinto zabo eziyigugu kakhulu
- Ukushayela ukuvalelisa noma ukuthi bazolahlekelwa othile
- Kungazelelwe ubiza abameli futhi akhokhe izikweletu. Ukuhlela konke
Ungamsiza kanjani oshade naye ocindezelekile
Into yokuqala okuzodingeka uyazi lapho usiza umlingani ocindezelekile ukwazi ukuthi inkinga ikhona. Ungayishayi ihlombe sengathi ayilutho ngoba umlingani ocindezelekile uzothinta wonke umndeni.
Yamukela iqiniso bese uqala ukusiza oshade naye ngokusebenzisa okulandelayo
Yiba lapho
Ubukhona bakho vele buyisinyathelo esikhulu ekubuyiseleni.
Ukuba lapho ngisho noma oshade naye ekuxosha kuyinto eyodwa abayidingayo. Yiba khona ukulalela noma ngabe izingqinamba onazo oshade naye ziyefana - ungakhathali.
Khumbula izithembiso zakho zomshado futhi ulindele ukuzidela okuningi. Ungazami ukugwema umlingani wakho kunalokho ube khona lapho kudingeka.
Ukubekezela - okuningi kwakho
Sonke kufanele sivume ukuthi inqubo yokusiza umlingani ocindezelekile inzima.
Izikhathi eziningi ezihambisana nengcindezi evela ekunakekeleni izingane zakho, ukuba yinhloko yendlu manje lapho umlingani wakho engazinzile futhi enakekela oshade naye kungabeka ukubekezela kwakho esivivinyweni. Kufanele ubekezele futhi unikeze okuningi.
Zungeza othandana naye ngothando
Abantu abahlukumezekile badinga ukuzizwa bethandwa futhi benakekelwa. Ungesabi ukubuza imibuzo efana nokuthi “Ngabe kukhona engingakwenza ukukwenza uzizwe ungcono?”
Qinisekisa oshade naye ukuthi uyabathanda futhi ungakhathali ukukwenza. Ungakhohlwa amandla wokuthinta nokugona ngoba kungenza izimangaliso.
Ungapheli amandla
Ingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungalilahli ithemba.
Lindela ukuthi le nqubo izokukhipha futhi futhi inzima futhi ungahle uthande ukuvele uyeke. Thatha ukuphumula uthathe ikhefu kodwa ungamlahli owakwakho.
Ungalufuna nini usizo lochwepheshe
Lapho usukwenzile konke ongakwenza futhi usuqede yonke imizamo futhi azikho izinguquko ezibonakalayo noma uma ubona kancane ukuthi oshade naye manje ukhombisa izimpawu zokuzibulala, sekuyisikhathi sokucela usizo.
Ukuntula ukuzimisela ukuba ngcono ngenye yezinkinga okunzima ukubhekana nazo futhi nochwepheshe angakusiza ngalokhu. Kwesinye isikhathi, kungcono ukuthi kube nomuntu ozokusiza kule nkinga.
Ukusiza oshade naye ocindezelekile kufanele kusuke enhliziyweni yakho hhayi nje ngoba kuyisibopho sakho.
Ngaleyo ndlela, ukubekezela kwakho kukude kakhulu futhi nenhliziyo yakho izokhombisa indlela yokuthi ungamsiza kanjani owakwakho ukuthi abhekane nale nselelo enzima. Kancane kancane, nobabili ningasebenzisana ukubuyisa ukukhanya kwenjabulo kowakwakho.