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- Ukungathembeki eBhayibhelini
- Isayina ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nomyeni ongathembekile
- Akuwena wedwa umuntu othintekile
- Ukuthatha usizo oluvela kuNkulunkulu
Ebudlelwaneni, udinga ukwethembeka futhi uthembeke komunye nomunye. Ngaphandle kwalokho, umkhumbi awuhambi ngomkhumbi. Ukuzibophezela kothile ekuguleni nasempilweni kuyisenzo esincomekayo nokukhohliswa kumyeni ongathembekile kusetha impilo yakho emgqeni futhi kukwenza ulahlekelwe yithemba kuwo wonke umuntu.
Ubuza uNkulunkulu ukuthi kungani kube nguwe okumele ube nomyeni ongathembekile. Uyazindla ngokuthi konakelephi, ubuze ukuthi wenzeni ukuze ufanelekele into enjalo. Impilo yakho idlala ekhanda lakho ngokushesha okukhulu, futhi uyazibuza, ubekade ungaboni kanjani ngokungenakugwemeka. Isinqumo sakho esilandelayo empilweni yakho sizoba nomthelela omkhulu empilweni yakho.
Ukuba semkhunjini onjalo kungakwenza uzibuze, ‘Lithini ibhayibheli ngendoda engathembekile?’
Ukungathembeki eBhayibhelini
IBhayibheli linemibhalo eminingi echaza ukubaluleka kwendoda nenkosikazi. Uma unomyeni ongathembekile futhi wephule zonke izithembiso zakhe kuwe, yazi ukuthi iBhayibheli alinayo induduzo kubo.
Impilo umjikelezo oqhubekayo wemicimbi. Noma ngabe udabuke kangakanani, kufanele uqhubeke nempilo yakho. Udinga ukubhekana nazo zonke izinselelo ngokuhlakanipha, futhi esikhundleni sokugxeka uNkulunkulu ngokushiyeka komlingani wakho, kufanele ubeke ukholo lwakho Kuye. Kufanele uthembele ezindleleni zakhe futhi wazi ukuthi konke kwenzeka ngesizathu.
Isayina ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nomyeni ongathembekile
Ziningi izindlela zokubhekana nendoda engathembekile. Okokuqala, kufanele ubhekane nenkinga futhi uqonde ngokuphelele ukuthi okwenzekile bekuyiqiniso.
Kufanele wamukele imizwa yokwethuka, ukulimala, ubuhlungu, nokuzisola. Akufanele neze uyikhiphe le mizwa.
Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi lithini iBhayibheli ngamadoda angathembekile futhi kufanele wazi ukuthi uNkulunkulu unawe esinyathelweni ngasinye.
Ungahle uthande ukulungisa umshado wakho ngokunikeza umyeni wakho ongathembekile elinye ithuba bese uzama ukukhohlwa yikho konke uqhubeke. Akukho okungalungile neze, kepha ungasuki emfuthweni yemizwa, ngoba ukwamukela okwenzekile kubalulekile ukuqhubeka.
Ungase uzibuze, ‘ungayethemba kanjani indoda engathembekile?’ Lesi yisikhathi esiyingozi futhi imizwa ingakudala wenze izinto ongazisola ngazo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kufanele wazi ukuthi bekuyiphutha lomyeni wakho ongathembekile ukukopela.
Nikeza isikhathi bese uzama ukufinyelela empandeni yezinto. Ungabeki inhliziyo yakho ekuziphindiseleni. Lokhu kungaholela ekubeni wenze izono zomphumela ofanayo.
Shayela wonke amandla akho ekuphulukiseni ukuze uzenze umuntu ongcono futhi uqhubekele phambili ikakhulukazi uma unezingane noma umndeni ophumule ekusekelweni kwakho. Awukwazi ukuphambuka bese uphonsa izimpilo zabo emgodini futhi. Ukuziphindiselela nakho kungaphendulela ukusola kuwe ngokuphelele.
Ngakho-ke, thatha zonke izinyathelo ngokuhlakanipha.
Kulesi sikhathi esibucayi lapho konke okusebenzele kusengozini, qiniseka ukuthi uzinakekela kahle. Abantu banendlela eyehlukile yokubhekana nobuhlungu. Abaningi baphenduka izidakwa ukuze babalekele iqiniso. Ukubalekela isimo esinjalo ngeke kukusize. Umzimba wakho ungasabela kulesi simo sokushaqeka. Ungaba nenkinga yokulala, ukudla, ungahlanza, noma ube nenkinga yokugxila.
Ukugwema izinkinga ezinkulu, yiba nokudla okunempilo namanzi amaningi ohlelweni lwakho.
Akuwena wedwa umuntu othintekile
Abantu abazothinteka kakhulu yisimo somyeni ongathembekile kuzoba izingane zakho. Izingqondo zabo akufanele zigcwale ukukopela. Lolu daba kufanele lugcinwe phakathi komlingani wakho nawe. Ukuhudula izingane ukuze zikhethe phakathi kwalaba bobabili kuzoqeda kuphela ubuntwana bazo futhi kube nomthelela omubi ezimpilweni zazo zabantu abadala. Bazoba nobunzima bokuthemba abanye abantu ezimpilweni zabo kungaba ukwenza abangane noma abalingani babo kamuva empilweni.
Ukuthatha usizo oluvela kuNkulunkulu
Ukuthandaza eNkosini yakho kuzokuthoba impela futhi kukusize ulwe nalesi simo ngqo. Ukuthandazela umyeni wakho kungabonakala njengokulula, kepha kuzosiza ukusula inhliziyo yakhe futhi kumenze abone ukuthi akwenzileyo akulungile. Ukuthumela umkhuleko womyeni ongathembekile kwenza izimangaliso zenzeke. Ukuthandazela ukuba ngcono kwendoda ephambukile kuzokwenza okuhle kuphela.
Thandazela ukuthi ubaba wezingane zakho afunde ukuthobeka futhi abe yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakho.
Uma ungafuni ukuhlukana nomyeni wakho noma engathembekile, uma ufuna ukulungisa izinto ezinganeni zakho, uma ecele intethelelo noma uma uzimisele ukumnika elinye ithuba, thandaza njalo Nkosi. Funa isiphephelo sakhe nosizo. Thandaza ukuthi umyeni wakho angahlali nendoda yezwi lakhe!