-Delile
- 1. Hlanganyela
- 2. Thola Ushintsho olungcono
- 3. Zibekeleni isikhathi
- 4. Ungazigodli
- Ngokwesibonelo -
- 5. Sebenzisa izeluleko
- 6. Ukulinganisela
Ukuba ngumama ongayedwa kungaba inqubo enkulu kakhulu. Ngenkathi sidlula kulesi sigaba, iningi kwesinye isikhathi livame ukungabi nabugovu kuze kufike ezingeni lokuthi ngeke lisizwe isidingo sokuphola futhi noma sokuthola uthando futhi.
Lokhu akudingeki kube njalo.
Kunezeluleko zokuphola ezinempilo zomama abangashadile ezingabasiza ekutholeni umuntu abangamcabanga ngokuqala impilo yakhe kabusha. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuba nothile ozokwabelana ngolwazi lwakho lokukhulisa ingane yakho kungaba kuhle.
Nazi ezinye zezeluleko zokuphola zomama abangashadile zokuthola uthando futhi.
Amasu wokuphola njengomama ongayedwa
1. Hlanganyela
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubuyela ezweni lokuphola ukuhlangana nabantu abasha nokuzihlanganisa nabantu abasha. Ukuqomisana njengomama oyedwa kuhluke kakhulu ekuthandaneni lapho ungashadile.
Udinga ukuqonda okungcono lapho ingane ibandakanyeka. Ngakho-ke, ukuzihlanganisa nabantu nokubazi kungaba yisikhuthazo sokuqala esidingekayo ukuze ungene ebudlelwaneni obufanele.
Ukwenza abangane abasha kukusiza ugcine impilo yakho yomphakathi iphila futhi isebenza. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhipha izingcindezi ezingadingeki kuwe futhi zikusize ngempilo yakho yengqondo.
2. Thola Ushintsho olungcono
Enye yezinkinga ezinkulu ezibhekene nomama abangabodwa lapho beqala ukuphola futhi ukuthi bakuthola kunzima ukubuyisa ukuzethemba. Phumani nizitholele ukwakheka okusha.
Qala ukujima njalo futhi uzijwayeze ukudla okunempilo.
Lokhu kuzoletha ushintsho oluhle emzimbeni wakho futhi kuzokwenza uzizwe muhle.
Zama izitayela ezintsha futhi uhlole umuzwa wakho wemfashini.
Ushintsho olungcono luzokusiza uzizwe ungumuntu omusha, futhi uzobuyisa ukuzethemba okulahlekile.
3. Zibekeleni isikhathi
Ngabe umama ongayedwa angaphinde athole uthando? Impendulo ithi Yebo!
Kuyaqondakala ukuthi kunemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi eza nengane. Omama abangabodwa bavame ukukuthola kunzima kakhulu ukuzongela isikhathi sabo noma ukuchitha nomuntu abambonayo.
Kepha, lokhu kungathatha umonakalo kubudlelwano bakho obusanda kufufusa. Sebenzisa futhi usebenzise kakhulu isikhathi samahhala.
Yiba nomuntu osondelene kakhulu, njengomndeni noma abangane abaseduze abazonakekela ingane yakho kanye ngezikhathi ezithile. Sebenzisa lesi sikhathi ukuphuma futhi uchithe isikhathi esithile nomuhle wakho.
Ukwenza isikhathi somunye nomunye kubalulekile kubo bonke ubuhlobo.
Ngakho-ke, ungazami ukusebenzisa ingane yakho njengezaba. Lokhu kungahle kungabi nempilo uma ufuna ubudlelwano besikhathi eside. Awudingi ukuchitha amahora namahora uphumile. Noma uthola amahora ambalwa amahhala, zama ukwenza okungcono kakhulu ngakho.
Lesi ngesinye sezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu zokuphola zomama abangabodwa.
4. Ungazigodli
Esinye sezeluleko ezibalulekile komama abangabodwa abafuna uthando futhi okungukuthi, ungazigodli.
Kwesinye isikhathi kungazizwa kuxaka ukwenza izinto ezingacabangi ngemuva kokuthola ingane. Ukuba nomthwalo wemfanelo kubalulekile, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, awudingi ukuzibamba ezintweni ezikwenza ujabule.
Ngokwesibonelo -
Uma uzizwa uthanda ukuya ocansini nothile, ungakwenza njalo.
Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyanakekelwa lapho uphumile futhi wenza into yakho.
Ukuzibamba ezintweni ngeke kube nomthelela omuhle ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Gcina inhlansi iphila, noma ngabe kunjani. Zama ukuthola injabulo ngaphakathi kini kuqala ngaphambi kokuyifuna ngaphandle.
5. Sebenzisa izeluleko
Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokufuna iseluleko kubantu abanolwazi oluningi. Ungahlala uhlangana nabanye omama abangashadile abanjengawe uqobo noma ngokusebenzisa izinkundla ezahlukahlukene eziku-inthanethi.
Ukukhuluma nabantu abanezintshisakalo ezifanayo nezinkinga ezifanayo kungakusiza uthole isixazululo. Lokhu kungazuzisa izinhlangothi zombili.
Ukwabelana ngomuzwa wakho kungakusiza ukuthi uthole okungcono kakhulu kuwe.
6. Ukulinganisela
Noma kunjalo amanye amathiphu wokuphola omama abangabodwa ukuzama nokugcina ibhalansi
Akunakugwenywa ukuthi uma ungumama, ingane yakho iza kuqala kuwe. Kepha awudingi ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi ucabange izingane zakho empilweni yakho yokuphola.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, udinga umuntu ozokwamukela futhi athande ingane yakho.
Kepha udinga ukuba nengane yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho wena nendoda yakho niphuma, ikakhulukazi, ekuqaleni kobudlelwano. Uma unengane yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungahle kungakuniki indawo eyimfihlo eyanele, ebalulekile kumbhangqwana.
Uthando lungenzeka kunoma ngubani nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Akufanele neze uzigodle lapho ingqongqoza emnyango wakho. Kunamathuba okuthi omama abangabodwa bahlangabezane nothando lwempilo yabo esigabeni esilandelayo.
Uma uthola umuntu ofanele okugcina ujabulile, kusho ukuthi uphawu oluluhlaza.