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- Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana
- Ukusetshenziswa kwemisebenzi yokuxhumana ephumelelayo ekwelashweni
- Umndeni
- Umshado nobudlelwano
- Abazali ekusebenzelaneni nezingane zabo
- Izinto ezibalulekile zokuxhumana okusebenzayo
Yini eyenza ubuhlobo obunempilo? Senza kanjani isiqiniseko sokuthi sinesisekelo esiqinile futhi esingazanyazanyiswa uma kukhulunywa ngokwakha ubudlelwano?
Noma ngabe kungumshado, umndeni noma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano, imisebenzi yokuxhumana ephumelelayo ibhekwa njengezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni isibopho esinempilo nesijabulisayo.
Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana
Sixhumana nsuku zonke yingakho singakuqapheli ukubaluleka kokuxhumana.
Kwabaningi bethu, kuyinto ejwayelekile neyansuku zonke. Amakhono nemikhuba emihle yokuxhumana esebenzayo iyithuluzi elibalulekile ekutholeni umkhiqizo ngomsebenzi futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwano obuqinile nohlala njalo. Umuntu owenza imisebenzi yokuxhumana ephumelelayo uzokwazi ukugcina ubudlelwano obuhle futhi obuvulekile nomunye umuntu.
Ngaphandle kokuxhumana okuvulelekile, abukho ubudlelwano obuyohlala futhi obuyogcwala kuphela ukungezwani nemicabango emibi.
Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi umshado uzohlala uma bengenzi imisebenzi yokuxhumana ephumelelayo? Kungaba khona yini umndeni ojabulayo ngaphandle komzamo wokuxhumana ngokufanele omunye nomunye? Ucabanga ukuthi abazali bangafinyelela kanjani ezinganeni zabo ngaphandle kwamakhono afanele okuxhumana?
Namuhla, ngokusetshenziswa kwamagajethi nezinhlelo zokusebenza zobuchwepheshe ukwenza ukuxhumana kube lula kube nomthelela ekunciphiseni kwamathuba omuntu okufuna izindlela zokuthintana nokuxhumana.
Izinkulumo zaphakathi kwamabili, ukuhlanganyela izindaba nokuvula manje sekuyizikhala, izindaba zami, nezinye izindlela zokuxhumana. Lesi yisizathu esenza ukuthi imisebenzi yokuxhumana efanele ifakwe ekwelashweni okuhlukahlukene namuhla, kungaba umshado, umndeni, noma ngisho nokwelashwa komuntu siqu. Ngabe imisebenzi yokuxhumana isebenza kanjani ekusizeni umuntu abe nobudlelwano obungcono futhi obuqinile?
Ukusetshenziswa kwemisebenzi yokuxhumana ephumelelayo ekwelashweni
Ukusetshenziswa kwemisebenzi yokuthuthukisa amakhono wokuxhumana kungenye yezindlela ezisebenza kahle kakhulu umelaphi angancoma cishe lonke uhlobo lokwelashwa. Ubuwazi ukuthi imisebenzi yamakhono wokuxhumana eyisisekelo ingenza izimangaliso ekwelashweni?
Isizathu salokhu silula ngokwanele futhi sesivele siyakwazi - ukuxhumana kuyisihluthulelo sokwakha inhlonipho, ukuqonda, kanye nokukwazi ukuyekethisa ekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwano. Uma umthanda ngokweqiniso umuntu uzimisele ukusebenzisa amakhono okuxhumana ukuze umqonde kahle umlingani wakho, ingane noma oshade naye.
Eqinisweni, noma ngabe ingxabano inkulu kangakanani, kwesinye isikhathi, abantu bazoyekethisa futhi bahlangane phakathi uma kusebenza ukuxhumana okuhle kuphela.
Ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi kusiza kanjani ngezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokwelashwa, nazi izibonelo zemisebenzi yokuxhumana efakwa nokwelashwa.
Umndeni
Ukwelashwa komndeni kwenzeka lapho kunesidingo sokubhekana nezinkinga zomndeni, isidingo sokwamukela ukulahlekelwa okubuhlungu, ukupholisa amanxeba, nokwenza ubuhlobo bube ngcono. Imisebenzi yokwelashwa komndeni yokwenza ngcono ukuxhumana kuyindlela lapho uchwepheshe ezocacisa khona ngokubaluleka kwale misebenzi ukuvumela ilungu ngalinye lomndeni ukuthi livuleke.
Ukuphulukiswa kuqala lapho ungavula khona ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngempela. Ngemisebenzi yokuxhumana efana nokudlala imidlalo lapho ilungu ngalinye lomndeni kudingeka ukuthi lijoyine, umelaphi angafaka izivivinyo ngokudlala nangobumnandi ngakho-ke akucindezeli kakhulu amalungu omndeni.
Lokhu futhi kuyindlela enhle yokuvula futhi lokhu kuzoqhubeka kulo lonke ukwelashwa kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ukuxhumana sekuzoba yingxenye yendlela yokuphila yalomndeni.
Umshado nobudlelwano
Imisebenzi yezokuxhumana yemibhangqwana eshadile ingenye indlela efakazelwe yokuthi abelaphi basize abashadile ukuthi basebenze ngokungafani kwabo.
Lezi zivivinyo noma imisebenzi ihlose ukuthuthukisa indlela abashade abakhuluma ngayo. Abashadikazi bathatha imisebenzi eyahlukene yokuxhumana ezobasiza ukuthi bakwazi ukukhuluma kahle nabalingani babo kodwa futhi izobasiza nokuthi baqonde ukuthi kufanele bakhulume kanjani kahle.
Imisebenzi efana nokwabelana ngemizwa, ukusebenzisa imishwana nolimi oluhle nokukhuluma komunye nomunye, noma njengokulula njengokukhumbula uthando nezinkumbulo ezinhle kungashintsha empeleni indlela imibhangqwana ebonana ngayo. Imisebenzi yezokuxhumana yemibhangqwana eshadile akufanele ibe yinkimbinkimbi, kufanele nje ibe yiqiniso futhi bobabili kufanele bakhombise umzamo ofanayo.
Abazali ekusebenzelaneni nezingane zabo
Imisebenzi yokuxhumana yokwelashwa komndeni ingafaka nemisebenzi yokwelashwa lapho abazali bazoba nokuzivocavoca okuhlose ukwenza izingane zabo zilalele.
Namuhla, abazali nezingane abanayo imisebenzi yokuxhumana efanayo ebesinayo ngaphambili, empeleni, ukusetshenziswa kwamagajethi sekuchithe isikhathi esiningi kunengxoxo yangempela phakathi komzali nengane.
Ngokwelula ingane yakho, awugcini nje ngokwakha ukusondelana kodwa futhi nendlela yokuthi bayihloniphe futhi bayilalele. Enye into ebalulekile okufanele uyicabangele ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yokuxhumana engasebenzisi amagama njengokuxhumana ngamehlo ngenkathi ulalele.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokufundisa ingane yakho ukulalela ukubeka isibonelo.
Izinto ezibalulekile zokuxhumana okusebenzayo
Inhloso yemisebenzi yokuxhumana ekwelashweni ukufundisa ngasinye seziguli ukuthi siqonde ukubaluleka kokuxhumana, umkhuba wokuxhumana okulungile futhi ekugcineni umkhuba wamakhono amahle wokuxhumana nangemva kokwelashwa.
Ukuxhumana akugcini lapho uphela lapho ukhululekile ukukhuluma nomlingani wakho noma ilungu lomndeni. Eqinisweni, ukukhuluma nokwabelana kumane kuyisiqalo seqhwa. Ukuxhumana kudinga ukuzijwayeza izindlela ezimbili lapho ukhuluma khona kanti omunye uyalalela noma okuphambene nalokho.
Ukuze akwazi ukuxhumana kahle, umuntu kufanele futhi azi ukuthi angalalela kanjani ngokucophelela futhi akwazi ukukhombisa uzwela nokunikeza usizo.
Noma yibuphi ubudlelwano, kungaba wumshado, ubambiswano, umzali nengane noma ngisho nomndeni wonke - imisebenzi yokuxhumana izosiza wonke umuntu futhi azi ukuthi angaba kanjani noxhumano lwangempela lapho kukhona khona uthando, inhlonipho nokuqonda.
Noma ngubani angazijwayeza amakhono okuxhumana amahle futhi angawafaka empilweni yabo yansuku zonke. Akunandaba noma iziphi izinselelo ongazithola, inqobo nje uma kunokuxhumana okuvulelekile - kuyohlale kunethuba lokulungisa noma yimuphi umzabalazo noma inkinga.