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- Ukubeka ukuxhumana okuhle nokuvulelekile
- Ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo
- Zibekele imigomo
- Ngabe ukuhlukaniswa kwesilingo kuyasebenza?
Ukuthatha isinqumo sokuhlukaniswa, kungaba ngokomthetho noma ngokwengqondo, ushintsho olukhulu ozolwenza empilweni yakho.
Yize umshado wakho ungabonakala njengamanje ubhekene nezinkinga ezinkulu, kunethemba lokuthi uzobuye uhlehliswe.
Khumbula, ukwehlukana akusho isehlukaniso; ngobuchwepheshe, usashadile.
Ukuxhumana noshade naye ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kubalulekile uma usafuna ukuvuselela isibopho esakuhlanganisa futhi siphinde simise ukuxhumana okubonakala ngathi kulahlekile.
Kulesi sihloko, sizobe sihlanganisa amanye amathiphu wokwehlukanisa umshado, futhi sizofunda indlela yokukhulumisana ngempumelelo noshade naye ngesikhathi sokuhlukana.
Buka futhi:
Ukubeka ukuxhumana okuhle nokuvulelekile
Noma ngabe uthathe isinqumo sokuhlukaniswa isikhashana, lokho akusho ukuthi ngeke nihlale nabangane ninakekelane.
Xoxisanani noshade naye ukuthi kudingeka ukuxhumana okungakanani phakathi kwenu nobabili nokuthi kudingeka ukuxhumana okungakanani.
Lokhu kungakusiza ugweme amaphutha ajwayelekile enza imibhangqwana ngesikhathi sokuhlukana.
Setha umshadoukwehlukana imihlahlandlela, okungcono kusukela ekuqaleni, ukuze kucace ezinhlosweni zakho nokugwema noma ikuphi ukungabaza noma ikuphi ukudideka okuzayo.
Uma ufuna ukufunda ukuthi ungawusindisa kanjani umshado wakho ngesikhathi sokuhlukana, kuzofanele wazi ukuthi uzodinga ukufunda ukuthi ungalalela kanjani kahle.
Ukufunda ukuxhumana nomuntu oshade naye kuzobakhombisa ukuthi unesifiso sangempela sokuqonda imizwa yabo nokuthi ngokwenza kanjalo, unesifiso sangempela sokwenza izinto zisebenze futhi.
Yonke imishado iyinkimbinkimbi futhi yehlukile ngendlela yayo, kepha ngokuxoxisana ngokuthembeka, isibopho sangaphambili esakuhlanganisa kwasekuqaleni singaphinde siqiniswe.
Ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu iseluleko sokuhlukanisa umshado esingakunika ukuthi uhlale ungaguquguquki ezenzweni zakho noma kumasu akho lapho uxhumana noshade naye.
Ngemuva kokuthi usungule (noma usungule kabusha) isiteshi esihle sokuxhumana, usigcine futhi usinakekele ngesineke.
Gcina isikhathi emihlanganweni yakho noshade naye futhi umbonise ukuthi uzimisele ukwenza lo msebenzi futhi.
Kungabonakala kunzima ekuqaleni, kepha uma ungabekezeleli emizamweni yakho yokuxhumana njalo nowakwakho ngesikhathi sokuhlukana, uzobeka engcupheni yokuvumela isimo sakho samanje sigcine sesihlukanisile.
Zibekele imigomo
Uma ufuna ukufunda indlela yokwakha kabusha umshado wakho ngesikhathi sokwehlukana, qala ngokusungula izinhloso zakho zobudlelwano.
Imibhangqwana eminingi yehluleka ukuvuselela ukukhanya phakathi kwayo ngoba ayigxilile ngokwanele kulokho abafuna ukukufeza ngempela.
Ukudideka kuyisitha esibi okufanele ube naso lapho usakha kabusha umshado ngemuva kokwehlukana, futhi imvamisa izikhathi okufanele zenziwe ngesikhathi sokuhlukana zingaba ngumbuzo okhohlisayo ongawuphendula.
Hlala etafuleni noshade naye nibhale ndawonye isivumelwano sokwehlukana, lapho ubhala khona phansi izinkinga zakho kanye nenqubo yonke yokuthi bakwaze kanjani ukukuthola kule nkinga obhekene nayo njengamanje.
Ngabe ukuhlukaniswa kwesilingo kuyasebenza?
Kuya ngalokho ofuna ukukuthola ngokuhlukana kwesivivinyo. Ukwehlukana akufani nokuhlukanisa.
Isibonelo, ngoba awuhlukanisile, usazigcina izinzuzo zokushada, noma ngabe nihlukene.
Mhlawumbe nobabili nifuna ukuzigcina, futhi nifuna ukulandela ezithile imihlahlandlela yokwehlukaniswa kwecala. Isibonelo, njengethiphu lokwehlukana kwesivivinyo, ukuhlukaniswa okusemthethweni kuhle ukuba nakho lapho ucabanga ngezikhuthazo zentela.
Awudingi ukuba nokuthile engqondweni yakho ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kwakho uma ufuna ukusindisa umshado wakho, kungasaphathwa izindaba ezithinta ezezimali ezihlobene nokuhlukana.
Mhlawumbe ufuna izinto zibe zimbi ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi omunye wenu ubeke imingcele yokwehlukana kwesivivinyo.
Ukufunda ukuxhumana nomlingani wakho ngesikhathi sokuhlukana kungabonakala, ekuqaleni, kunzima ukukwenza.
Kuya ngokuthi nobabili nikuphi, ezingeni lomzwelo nangokwengqondo ebudlelwaneni benu, uma ulandela isethi yemihlahlandlela yokwehlukana komshado kwasekuqaleni, ungawusindisa umshado wakho bese ubuyela endleleni yakho yokuphila yangaphambili.
Ukungabi nokuxhumana ngesikhathi sokuhlala ngokuqinisekile akunconywa uma ufuna ukusindisa umshado.