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Lapho abazali abahlukanisayo bevuma ukuhlanganyela ekugcinweni kwezingane zabo, ijaji ngokujwayelekile lizovuma inqobo nje uma lisebenzela intshisekelo engcono kakhulu yezingane. Kodwa-ke, uma abazali bengavumelani ngokuthi bazokwabelana kanjani ngokugcinwa kwezingane zabo, ijaji kufanele linqume futhi livame ukunikeza umzali oyedwa noma omunye ilungelo lokugcina ngokomzimba.
Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi abahluleli abaniki obaba ilungelo lokugcina izingane ngokomzimba. Lokhu kususelwa ekutheni ngokwesiko, omama yibo ababengabanakekeli bezingane kanti obaba yibona ababondlayo.
Ngakho-ke, kwakwenza umqondo esikhathini esedlule ukunikezwa ilungelo lokugcina umama, ngoba nguyena owayenakekela izingane ngokuyinhloko. Namuhla, noma kunjalo, bobabili omama nobaba babamba iqhaza ekunakekeleni nasekungeniseni imali yomndeni. Ngenxa yalokho, izinkantolo zithambekele kakhudlwana eku-odeni ukugcinwa kwabantwana ngezikhathi ezingama-50/50.
Uma noma yimuphi umzali efuna ukunakekela izingane ngokomzimba, kudingeka afakazele ukuthi kuzozizuzisa kakhulu izingane. Impikiswano enamandla ngalokhu ingafaka ukukhomba ukuthi ngokwesiko ubengumnakekeli oyinhloko wezingane nokuthi uyaqhubeka nokuba nguyena onikeza ukunakekelwa okudingeka nokufanele izingane.
Manje ngubani umnakekeli oyinhloko wengane?
Ukunquma ukuthi ngubani okufanele athathwe njengomnakekeli oyinhloko wengane, kunemibuzo eminingi umuntu angayibuza:
- Ngubani ovusa ingane ekuseni?
- Ngubani ohambisa ingane esikoleni?
- Ngubani obalanda esikoleni?
- Ngubani oqinisekisa ukuthi bayawenza umsebenzi wabo wesikole?
- Ngubani owenza isiqiniseko sokuthi bagqokisiwe futhi bondliwe?
- Ngubani oqinisekisa ukuthi ingane iyageza?
- Ngubani obalungiselela ukulala?
- Ngubani ohambisa ingane kudokotela wezingane?
- Ingane ikhalela bani uma isaba noma isezinhlungwini?
Umuntu owenza ingxenye yengonyama yale misebenzi ngokomlando uthathwe njengomnakekeli oyinhloko wengane.
Lapho abazali bengavumelani ngobuzali obabiwe, ijaji ngokuvamile lizonikeza ilungelo lokugcina ngokomzimba umzali osebenzise isikhathi esiningi enakekela ingane usuku nosuku, okungukuthi, umnakekeli oyinhloko wengane. Omunye umzali uzonikezwa ilungelo lokugcina ingane ngokwesibili.
Uhlelo olujwayelekile lokuba ngumzali luzobandakanya ukushintshashintsha izimpelasonto namaholide phakathi komzali onelungelo lokugcina ingane ngokomzimba kanye nomzali onelungelo lokugcina umntwana ngokwesibili. Kodwa-ke, phakathi nesonto lesikole, umzali onelungelo lokugcina umntwana angathola ubusuku obubodwa kuphela nengane.
Ukuhlelwa okusebenzela intshisekelo enkulu yezingane
Ukufingqa, uma abazali abahlukanisayo bengafinyelela esivumelwaneni ngelungiselelo lokugcina izingane elisebenzela intshisekelo engcono kakhulu yezingane zabo, inkantolo ivame ukuvuma. Kepha, lapho behluleka ukuvumelana, ijaji lizobanquma uhlelo lokugcinwa kwabo. Amajaji ngokuvamile anikezela ngokugcina okuyinhloko kumnakekeli oyinhloko wezingane, ongachazwa njengomzali onakekela izidingo zezingane usuku nosuku futhi osebenzise isikhathi esiningi nezingane kukho konke ukuphila kwabo.