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-Delile
- 1. I-Chemistry
- 2. Ungasheshi inqubo
- 3. Ngemuva kwama-26
- 4. Ukuhambisana
- 5. Ukuhambisana
- 6. Gwema ukuyekethisa ezinkolelweni zakho
- 7. Ukubaluleka kwenkolo, isiko, ubuhlanga kanye nesigaba
- 8. A imicabango embalwa mayelana inthanethi ukuphola
- 9. Ukulungisa okwesibili
- Isiphetho
Ngokwesikhundla sami njengothisha, owelapha imibhangqwana, umcwaningi nompristi oshadile kule minyaka engamashumi amane edlule, ngibe nelungelo lokweluleka amakhulu emibhangqwana.
Isiphetho esisodwa engisitholile kuwo wonke lo msebenzi ukuthi imishado emihle ayimane nje iveze umoya omncane. Ukuthola uthando lwempilo yakho kuncike ezintweni eziningi ezahlukahlukene.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, imishado emihle incike kakhulu ezinqumweni abantu abazenzayo ngaphambi komshado nangesikhathi senqubo yokuqomisana.
Izinto okufanele uzenze ukuhlangabezana nothando lwempilo yakho zivame ukuba lula futhi zisobala uma sesikwazi okufanele sikufune.
Ngakho-ke uma uzibuza ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu ozohlangabezana nazo nothando lwempilo yakho noma izimpawu usuthole uthando lwempilo yakho.
Bese nazi izeluleko eziyi-9 ezingakusiza qonda izimfihlo zokuthola uthando lweqiniso nokuthi ungaluthola kanjani uthando lwempilo yakho.
1. I-Chemistry
Bekuvame ukuthi abantu bashade ngezinhlobo zonke zezizathu, okuncane kokuncane kwabo bekuhlobene kakhulu nokuthola uthando lwempilo yakho. Ngokwami, angikukhuthazi ukuthi noma ngubani othandana naye acabangele ukubandakanyeka ekushadweni nasekushadeni uma bengahehani ngothando.
2. Ungasheshi inqubo
Noma kunini lapho ngihlangane ngasese nemibhangqwana eshayisanayo, kwesinye isikhathi emizamweni yami yokubazi ngingahle ngibuze ukuthi baphela isikhathi esingakanani ngaphambi kokuba bathathe isinqumo sokushada.
Kuyangimangaza ukuthi bangaki abakhombisa ukuthi bathandane isikhathi esingaphansi konyaka. Abanye bangangitshela kungaphansi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa lokho Kuthatha cishe iminyaka emibili ukumazi ngempela umuntu othandana naye.
Ngakho-ke, ungajahi inqubo yokuqomisana, futhi uma uthola okuthile ongakuthandi, ungacabangi ukuthi kuzonyamalala. Amathuba ukuthi, ngeke aphele ngemuva komshado futhi ungavele ukhukhuleke unethemba lokuthola uthando lwempilo yakho.
3. Ngemuva kwama-26
Idatha ikhombisa nokuthi abantu abalinda baze bafike eminyakeni yabo engamashumi amabili benyusa kakhulu amathuba abo okuthola uthando lwempilo yakho, ukuba nomshado ojabulisayo, nokuhlala kahle emshadweni.
Kungani? Empeleni, akunzima kangako ukuqonda ukuthi kungani lokhu kungahle kube yiqiniso.
Abantu abalinda baze bafinyelele maphakathi neminyaka engamashumi amabili engenhla kungenzeka basungule, basebenze, futhi bavuthiwe ukwedlula ontanga yabo abancane.
4. Ukuhambisana
Yini i-quotient yakho yokuhambisana? Ngamanye amagama, yikuphi ukufana okwabelana nomlingani wakho?
Ngabe unombono ofanayo mayelana nemali, abangane, abasekhweni, izinhloso zomsebenzi, ezokungcebeleka, ezokungcebeleka, ezocansi nokuba ngumzali?
Kuthiwani ngamasiko akho, ubuhlanga bakho nenkolo yakho? Zihambelana kangakanani? Bese futhi, bufana kangakanani ubuntu bakho?
Ingabe ungumuntu wohlobo A, futhi unobuntu bohlobo B, noma okuphambene nalokho?
Ngabe uyathanda ukuphikisana ngothando, kepha umlingani wakho ungumgwebi ongathandi ukuzibandakanya ezingxabanweni ezishisayo nezisindayo? Ingabe uyisingeniso, futhi ingabe uyisicasuli?
I- ukuthi abantu ababili bahambisana kangakanani kubaluleke kakhulu enhlalakahleni yobudlelwano bakho namuhla nakusasa.
Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi wazi umlingani wakho, ungabi namahloni ngokubuza imibuzo ehlobene nalokhu nokunye okubalulekile okubalulekile.
5. Ukuhambisana
Iqiniso ukuthi, imibhangqwana eminingi ichitha isikhathi izama ukuthola ukuthi ihambelana kangakanani, kodwa bambalwa abachitha isikhathi esilinganayo bezama ukuthola ukuthi bahluke kanjani.
Lesi sitatimende sokugcina singakudida, kepha ngithole ukuthi izithandani ezichitha isikhathi zizama ukuthola ukuthi zifana kangakanani, kufanele futhi zichithe isikhathi esiningi zizama ukuqonda umehluko wazo.
Ikakhulu maqondana nezinkinga ezithile ezinkulu ezinjenge, imali, abangane, abasekhweni, izinhloso zomsebenzi, izitayela zokuphikisana, ezokungcebeleka, isikhathi sokuphumula, ezocansi, ukuba ngumzali, ubuhlanga nenkolo nezizinda nokwehluka kobuntu.
6. Gwema ukuyekethisa ezinkolelweni zakho
Uyikho okukholelwayo. Ngakho-ke, musa ukuyekethisa izinkolelo nezindinganiso zakho eziyinhloko. Sengihlangane nemibhangqwana eminingi kakhulu eyeka okholelwa kukho ukuze ijabulise abalingani bayo, noma amanye amalungu omndeni, kodwa yazisola ngalesi sinqumo ngemuva komshado.
Ngakho-ke, thembeka kuwe nakuzakwenu. Labo abahlehlisa lokho abakufisayo nabakholelwayo cishe bahlala bezisola ngokwenza kanjalo ngemuva komshado.
Futhi okubi kakhulu ukuzisola yimizwa eyinsalela yentukuthelo nentukuthelo elandelayo. Le mizwa imvamisa igcina ifake ubuthi ekwanelisekeni emshadweni kanye nokuzinza komndeni.
7. Ukubaluleka kwenkolo, isiko, ubuhlanga kanye nesigaba
Lezi zinto zinomthelela omkhulu endleleni esibona ngayo umhlaba nasekutholakaleni uthando lwempilo yakho. Ngakho-ke, uma kusebenza, sebenzisa isikhathi esithile sekhwalithi ngesikhathi senqubo yokuqomisana, nangaphambi komshado, ukhuluma ngokuhluka kwakho ngokwenkolo, amasiko, ubuhlanga, ubuhlanga kanye nesigaba nokuthi kungaphazamisa kanjani ukwaneliseka komshado nobunye.
8. A imicabango embalwa mayelana inthanethi ukuphola
Ukuqomisana nge-inthanethi sekuthandwa kakhulu kangangokuthi amaphesenti angama-35% aseMelika, ocwaningweni olulodwa, abike ukuthi ahlangana nabalingani bawo online.
Noma kunjalo, online ukuphola ayinazo izingozi. Cishe ama-43% wabahlanganyeli kolunye ucwaningo abike ukuthi ukuphola online kubandakanye ubungozi.
Abahlanganyeli babike lokho amaphrofayli angaqukatha okushiwo okungeyona. Ukulandelela, ukukhwabanisa kanye nodlame lwezocansi olungaba khona nakho kuhlotshaniswa nezidlakudla ezikwi-inthanethi.
Umthethonqubo kahulumeni, amacala asanda kwenziwa, kanye nokusakazwa kwabezindaba ngamacala ahlobene nawo kuxwayise abantu ngalezi zingozi, futhi kwasebenza ukwenza le ndlela yokuthandana iphephe.
9. Ukulungisa okwesibili
Abantu abadivosile futhi ukucabangela ukuphinde ushade kuvame ukubhekana nezinselele eziningi ezengeziwe ezingafani nezinselelo abantu abahlangabezana nazo lapho beshada okokuqala.
Lesi esinye sezizathu ezinkulu zokuthi kungani inani lezehlukaniso phakathi kwalesi sibalo semibhangqwana liphezulu kakhulu. Isibonelo, ezinye izingibe ezingaba khona ezihlobene nezinselele imikhaya yokutholwa nabazali bokutholwa abahlangabezana nayo yimizamo yabo yokuhlangana.
Abanye bahlobene nowayeshade naye nokuthi bangabhekana kanjani naye. Futhi ezinye zihlobene nomshado ngemuva kweminyaka engama-50, nezinselelo eziyingqayizivele imibhangqwana ebhekana nazo phakathi nale ngxenye yomjikelezo wempilo.
Isiphetho
Ukuqomisana kungaba esinye sezikhathi ezivuzayo nezithandekayo empilweni yomuntu. Kepha futhi kuwumsebenzi onzima. Labo abakujabulela ukugibela, kepha behluleka ukubamba iqhaza kokunye ukuphakamisa okunzima engikuchazile mancane amathuba okuthi bathole uthando lwempilo yabo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, labo abajabulela nokugibela, futhi baphakamisa izinsimbi ezisindayo maningi amathuba okuthi bathole uthando lwempilo yabo futhi sungula isisekelo esiqinile sokwakha impilo ndawonye.