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- Uzibuza ukuthi kungani izingane ziphelelwa yisineke, zinesithukuthezi, zingenabo abangane futhi zinelungelo?
- Zonke izingane azinasineke
- Ingabe isithukuthezi siyinto embi ngempela?
- Ungaba nabangane abaningi kakhulu?
- Izingane zithola kanjani ilungelo? Impendulo: abazali
- Akuwona wonke umzuzu empilweni yengane yakho enzelwe ukuthi ukwazi ukusebenzisa i-Instagram
Lezi yizichasiso eziningi ezingezinhle ezihlanganiswe ukuchaza izingane eziningi zanamuhla. Kepha empeleni, ngaphandle kokuzwakala njengomuntu omdala onodaka, kukhona okuthile okuyiqiniso ngomqondo wokuthi lesi sizukulwane sakamuva sezingane, yebo, asinasineke, sinesithukuthezi, asinabangani futhi sinelungelo.
Uzibuza ukuthi kungani izingane ziphelelwa yisineke, zinesithukuthezi, zingenabo abangane futhi zinelungelo?
Ngaphambi kokuqhubeka, ake kuthiwe empeleni akuzona zonke izingane ezinjengalezi. Ukwenziwa kwembumbulu yonke kungaba iqiniso futhi kube yingozi, kepha nakwababhekisisa kakhulu, kukhona okuhlukile ngokuhlukile ngaleli qembu.
Ake siyihlukanise bese sibheka izimbangela, izixazululo ezingaba khona, nemiphumela yokuthi kusho ukuthini lokhu lapho sizithola sibuza ukuthi, "Kungani izingane ziphelelwa yisineke, zinesithukuthezi, zingenabo abangane futhi zinelungelo?"
Zonke izingane azinasineke
Ukuphelelwa isineke akuyona into embi ngempela. Ukuphelelwa yisineke kuyingxenye ethile okusenza sisheshise izenzo; yikho okusenza siphumelele kwesinye isikhathi.
Ukungabekezeli yikho okusenza ukuthi sibheke izinto ezintsha, izixazululo ezintsha, nokuhlangenwe nakho okusha. Ngakho-ke, kukho konke, ukungabekezeli kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu. Kepha zama ukuzitshela ukuthi lapho ingane yakho imemeza phezulu emaphashini ukuze imtholele u-ayisikhilimu manje, noma lapho indodakazi yakho ikhala ngokuthi ifuna ukuphuma iyodlala lapho inamahora amaningi omsebenzi wesikole okufanele iwenze.
Iningi lezingane lizofunda ukubekezela ngesikhathi njengoba likhula, kepha sonke sinolwazi lokwazi umuntu omdala onesineke esincane noma ongenaso nhlobo. Imvamisa, lowo muntu uzotholakala ekuthunga emgwaqweni omkhulu noma esika phambi kwakho lapho ugibela ibhasi noma imoto ehamba ngaphansi. Maye, abanye abantu abakhuli.
Nokho, izingane ziyakhula futhi zingafunda ukubekezela kubazali nakothisha.
Ingabe isithukuthezi siyinto embi ngempela?
Okuvame kakhulu ukuphuma emilonyeni yezingane eziningi ukuthi "Ngidiniwe kakhulu." Lokhu akukusha neze, futhi akuhlukile kulesi sizukulwane sezingane. Izingane bezilokhu zisho ukuthi zibhorekile selokhu ziyekile ukudlala umacashelana nama-dinosaurs.
Yebo, kukhona lokho okudala mayelana nezandla ezingenzi lutho okuba yindawo yokusebenzela kaSathane, kepha ingabe isithukuthezi siyinto embi? Njengoba uJordyn Cormier ebhala, "Isizungu singakhulisa kakhulu ubuhlakani." Isithukuthezi senza izingane nabantu abadala bacabange ezinye izindlela zokwenza izinto nokufeza imisebenzi.
Lapho usebenzelana nengane ethi ibhorekile, ibuze ukuthi yini engayenza ingabi nesithukuthezi. Uma ingane ingavela nempendulo (futhi iningi ayikwazi), lalela isiphakamiso. Le mpendulo izokhombisa ubuhlakani nobuqili okufanele bonke abantwana babuhlakulele.
Ungaba nabangane abaningi kakhulu?
Abantu bangabantu abaphilayo. Ngisho nalolo dla-mlonyeni emhumeni olungamakhilomitha ayisigidi ukusuka empucukweni luyisidalwa sezenhlalo, noma ngabe lihlangana nezimbungulu ezihlanganyela emhumeni walo kuphela!
Ngeshwa, ngokufika kwezinkundla zokuxhumana, abantu abaningi banabo "abangane" abangakaze bababone. Ingabe umngane umuntu ongakaze uhlangane naye ubuso nobuso? Abantu abaningi bangavuma ukuthi umngani ongakaze umbone empilweni yangempela, usengaba ngumngani.
Izingane, ikakhulukazi zizizwa ngale ndlela bese zizama ukuphikisana nazo ngenye indlela, futhi ngeke ufike kude kakhulu. Izingane zidinga ukuhlangana nezinye izingane ezilingana nazo, ngakho-ke kubazali noma abanakekeli babo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuhlangana kwalolu hlobo kuyenzeka: hambisa izingane epaki, ezifundweni eziqhutshwa uMnyango Wezamapaki Nezokungcebeleka wedolobha lakho.
Abangane bangenziwa kwezobuciko, i-ballet, i-gymnastics, ukubhukuda, ithenisi namanye amakilasi enzelwe izingane ngokukhethekile. Kubalulekile ukuthi umzali noma umnakekeli aqinisekise ukuthi izingane azichithi izinsuku zipakwe phambi kwethelevishini, i-iPad, i-smartphone, noma i-computer.
Impilo yangempela imane nje ingeyangempela – ingokoqobo; akwenzeki ngemuva kwesikrini se-elekthronikhi.
Izingane zithola kanjani ilungelo? Impendulo: abazali
Kalula nje, ngabazali abadala imizwa yelungelo ezinganeni.
Izingane azizalwa zinelungelo; akuyona into engokwemvelo kunoma iyiphi ingane ukuzizwa ifanele izinto. Ake sibheke ezinye izibonelo zokuthi abazali baletha kanjani imizwa yelungelo ezinganeni:
- Uma uklomelisa — noma okubi nakakhulu, ufumbathisa – ingane yakho ngokuziphatha okuhle, usiza ungahlosile ukudala imizwa yelungelo enganeni yakho. Cabanga ngakho: ingabe ingane yakho kufanele inikezwe uhlobo oluthile lokuphathwa njalo lapho uyothenga nayo?
- Uma uncoma yonke into eyenziwe ingane yakho, ngamanye amagama, uma uncoma ngokweqile, wenza ingane yakho ijwayele ukudunyiswa njalo. Lokhu kungumugqa oqondile wemizwa yelungelo laphakade.
- Ama-overs: ukuncoma ngokweqile, ukuvikela ngokweqile, ukumemetheka ngokweqile, ukuzitika ngokweqile, konke kuyindlela eyodwa eya ekukhuliseni ngokweqile, nokukhulisa ingane ngomuzwa omkhulu welungelo.
- Zonke izingane kumele zenze amaphutha. Izingane zifunda emaphutheni; zibalulekile ekukhuleni nasekuthuthukisweni. Ungayisizi ingane yakho ukuthi igweme wonke amaphutha noma ihlale ilindele ukuhlenga.
- Akekho othanda ukuphoxeka, kepha abanye abazali badlulela phambili ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi izingane zabo azikutholi lokhu. Ukudumazeka kuyingxenye yokuphila, futhi awenzeli ingane yakho umusa ngokuyivikela kuyo. Ukufunda ukubhekana nokudumazeka kufanele kube yingxenye yokukhula kwengane ngayinye.
- Amaphathi ezinsuku zokuzalwa asephezulu kakhulu eminyakeni yamuva (amasekisi egcekeni, egqokise amakhosazana aqashiwe avela kumdlalo wakamuva weDisney odlula cishe amahors d'oeuvres ezivakashini, ukufuya ama-zoo asethwe ngaphakathi endlini, njll.)
Yigcine ilula, futhi mancane kakhulu amathuba okuthi ingane yakho izizwe inelungelo. Uma nigcina izinto zingenamanzi, nina zingane niyokhula njengamazinga aphakeme, nibe nesineke futhi nihloniphe. Kuwo wonke amathuba, ngeke uzithole udonsa izinwele zakho bese ubuza ukuthi, “Kungani izingane ziphelelwa yisineke, zinesithukuthezi, zingenabo abangane futhi zinelungelo?
Akuwona wonke umzuzu empilweni yengane yakho enzelwe ukuthi ukwazi ukusebenzisa i-Instagram
Ngaphambi kokuthi uzibuze, "Kungani izingane ziphelelwa yisineke, zinesithukuthezi, zingenabo abangane futhi zinelungelo?", Udinga ukwenza ukungena komzali. Emzamweni wakho wokukhulisa ingane ejabule, ingabe ukhohlwa ngokugcina ukulinganisela okuhle phakathi kokuzitika nokuqina?
Ukukhulisa izingane ukuba zikhiqize izingane ezijabulayo ezilinganiselayo akuwona umsebenzi olula kunoma ngubani.
Izikhathi eziningi akukuhle noma kumnandi, Kepha ngokufaka izingane ezinamanani wokusebenzisa ingqondo (thatha ithuba lakho, yabelana, linda ngokubekezela, njll.), Uzoqinisekisa ukuthi lesi sizukulwane esilandelayo asipheli isizungu, sinesithukuthezi, asinabangani futhi sinelungelo.