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- Yini eza kuqala kuwe?
- Bazizwa kanjani abazali bakho?
- Yimaphi amalungiselelo ahilelekile?
- Yiziphi izinketho ezivulekele wena?
- Sithini isinqumo sakho?
Ingabe kufanele uye ekhaya labazali bakho noma wenze isiko lakho?
Njengombhangqwana osanda kushada nizoba "nokuqala" okuningi nezinqumo eziningi okufanele nizenze, hhayi okungenani kuzoba ukuthi uzochitha kuphi i-Thanksgiving yakho yokuqala. Le yinto okungenzeka ukuthi uke wakhuluma ngayo ngesikhathi sokuzibandakanya kwakho nokulungiselela umshado. Isinqumo sakho sizothonywa izimo zakho siqu ezifana nendawo okuyo abazali bakho, kanye nobudlelwano bakho nabazali bakho. Kweminye imibhangqwana, lesi kuzoba yisinqumo esilula, kepha abanye kungadingeka bacabange ngezinketho zabo.
Ukufunda Okuhlobene: Imibono Yokubonga Yemibhangqwana Ngeholide Elingenakulibaleka
Nayi imibuzo embalwa ewusizo ongayiphendula:
Yini eza kuqala kuwe?
Ngamunye wenu udinga ukuthembeka ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu kini. Mhlawumbe umndeni wakho awenzi mpikiswano enkulu ku-Thanksgiving ngenkathi umndeni womlingani wakho uphuma nemali yendabuko. Mhlawumbe ungathanda nje ukuhlala wedwa njengombhangqwana futhi nibeke isisekelo somshado wenu namasiko enu omndeni wesikhathi esizayo. Lapho usucaciselekile ngezinto eziza kuqala kuwe, usuke usulungele umbuzo olandelayo.
Bazizwa kanjani abazali bakho?
Mhlawumbe womabili amasethi wabazali bakho aseqalile ukuveza izifiso zabo zokuba ube nabo ngalolu suku olukhethekile. Noma mhlawumbe ayikho ingcindezi nhlobo futhi bakushiyela kuwe ukukhetha. Kunoma ikuphi, xoxa nabazali bakho futhi uthole ukuthi bazizwa kanjani nokuthi balindeleni.
Yimaphi amalungiselelo ahilelekile?
Lo mbuzo uhlobene nokuthi uhlala kude kangakanani nemindeni yakho. Uma ukulo dolobha elifanayo, kwenza izinto zibe lula kakhulu, kepha imibhangqwana eminingi izithola ihlala kude kakhulu nabazali bayo futhi izindleko zokuhamba zizodinga ukucatshangelwa kanye nesikhathi esizothatha ukubuyela emuva naphambili .
Yiziphi izinketho ezivulekele wena?
Lapho usucabangile ngalezi zinto, uzokwazi ukubona izinketho ezimbalwa ezingaba khona zesimo sakho. Lokhu kungafaka ukushintshana phakathi kwemindeni yakho, ukuvakashela owodwa kulo nyaka nakwezinye ngonyaka ozayo. Uma bahlala eduze, ungachitha ingxenye yosuku nomndeni owodwa bese uhlanganyela nomunye. Noma ungacabanga ukubamba yomibili imindeni ekhaya lakho.
Sithini isinqumo sakho?
Uma usubeke konke ongakhetha kukho, kuzodingeka ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esivumelana nobabili. Noma yini oyithathayo, khumbula ukuthi manje seniwumbhangqwana oshadile futhi ubudlelwano bakho noshade naye buza kuqala.
Nawa amanye amathiphu ongawacabangela ngenkathi ugubha i-Thanksgiving yakho yokuqala njengabantu abashadile:
- Khumbula ukuthatha izinqumo ndawonye njengendoda nomndeni
- Chitha usuku ngenjabulo futhi nazane
- Khuthaza wonke umuntu ukuthi abelane ngento ayibongayo.
- Veza ukubonga kwakho bese wabelana ngendlela ozibusise ngayo emshadweni wakho.
- Xoxani indaba ngemikhosi yenu yokubonga edlule.
- Bukela i-movie yakho oyithandayo ndawonye, dlalani imidlalo noma nifunde ngomlando we-Thanksgiving.